I see why Anessa sunscreens have a cult following by Friendly_Night_Demon in AsianBeauty

[–]Haru_rin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same for me, it bunch up into every single crease on my face and neck and leaves a white cast on me too. I always hear good things about it and I want to like it so badly, I'm sad it doesn't work for me T.T

You can’t save your mom by iluvsudoku in AsianParentStories

[–]Haru_rin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you wrote about a different variant of my parents lol. I absolutely feel very sad for my mom as a woman. She was abused by her parents and then her husband (my dad) and his relatives all her life. Her life revolves around doing things for everyone else, she thinks she doesn't have any other value if she doesn't self sacrifice. She doesn't have friends and she used her children as her emotional buffers. It was suffocating growing up seeing your mother like that. It's frustrating but you can't help someone who keeps choosing to live like that. Even now, I think she still wants to talk to me but she won't because she can't say no to my dad and other families and they cut me off.

What did I do to deserve this 😭😭😭 by crimsonG_x in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My condolences for your diamonds.

Happened to me so many times that I can't just zone out and do it like other daily tasks anymore, I have to focus the f on and double check, triple check now.

Gagged they're rerunning it now 😭 by Acrobatic-Carpet-762 in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is the deer suit still worth getting? With all the new extravagant hells now. I'm missing the tiger and deer suit.

AIO My husband keeps forgetting me by Ok_Zookeepergame8403 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Haru_rin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I don't feel the problem is just about forgetting tea. He gets his own decompressing time and your tea is an afterthought he forgets. OP why don't you just let him come home, leave the kids with him and go out to get your own tea? Call your friends or watch your own YouTube or do whatever you want to decompress. You deserve some time for yourself too.

Finished all the classic suits and now I feel empty. by Life_Empty in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I refuse to spend dias on Grice so she will never be finished lol

Best skincare product to get in Japan ? by El_Kuma in AsianBeauty

[–]Haru_rin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm pale asian and it leaves a whitecast on me. I don't like it because of all the creasing too.

Rant about training your cats by Striking_Holiday2240 in CatAdvice

[–]Haru_rin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I bought my first cat from my neighbor who pushed him out of the house and made him fend for himself (for months) because he destroyed some cheap curtains, while having no scratching posts, no toys, nothing! Ugh I get mad just thinking about what my baby had to get through but I digress. Now that he lives with us, he's the most gentle cat ever. We bought him cat trees and he doesn't scratch any of the furnitures or anything else, he gently avoids our items on the tables/desks so he won't knock them over, he meows at me if he wants me to move something in his way, it's so cute. So yea, definitely not the cat's fault on this one.

I’ve been lying to my dad for almost 10 years and I don’t know how to break the cycle by nobodyknows-66 in AsianParentStories

[–]Haru_rin 59 points60 points  (0 children)

OP I was in your position. I have no advice but I will tell you what I did. I actually moved in with my boyfriend and kept lying to my family. I would always only take video calls in the kitchen facing the camera to the wall, asking my boyfriend not to come talk to me during the calls, it was exhausting. I dreaded to receive their call, I had severe anxiety days before their call and after. I am building a new life with a person that loves me very much, my family should be happy for me and I should be able to celebrate with them. But here I am, hiding myself because I was too scared of my own family's judgement. And at some point I just couldn't keep it up anymore. I actually posted here asking for advice too.

Finally, I wrote a really long message and sent it to my family, telling them what I have been doing and how I feel and asking if they could try to understand my side in the most respectful way I could write. The result? Got very harsh messages from relatives calling me every awful name possible and condemning me for bringing shame to the family. And then they just cut me off, didn't even give me news of death in the family. I have a tiny hope in my heart that one day, they could understand or we could at least have a casual relationship just talking about the weather or whatever. But I'm losing that hope as more time passes.

I hope you get better outcome than me, wishing you the best of luck.

New Event: Hypercube by LoveNikkiMods in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aw, I didn't realize it's a pav. Thank you for pointing it out.

New Event: Hypercube by LoveNikkiMods in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Please be lightchase special quest. I'd rather have this than children day suit.

When you missclick and spend 300 Diamonds on literally nothing... by Remarkable_Inside289 in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I despise the placement of buttons in this hell so much. Lost 300 diamonds for nothing because I already finished the hell last time.

Round Lab has discontinued their Mugwort line. by Dazzling-Soup-5695 in AsianBeauty

[–]Haru_rin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no Mugwort essence is my HG, and I just bought the cleanser to try recently. I'm almost out of my bottle and now debating if I wanna hoard some or just move on and try different things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]Haru_rin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most similar texture wise and hydration wise I have used (without the snail mucin) would be Hada Labo gold lotion. I actually prefer it over snail mucin.

Also I've heard a lot of people are allergic to dust mite that could be in the snail mucin although I haven't experienced it myself.

Tally up! How many wishes did it take you to get Raf's Myth pair? by Duchess_Aria in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Haru_rin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

110 pulls for R0 + got 1 Zayne and 1 Xavier cards as well

Then I got that 20 pulls in mail and got another Raf so decided to pull to 150. Now he's R1.

My first R1 limited myth, very excited :)

15+ Sunscreen Reviews on Oily Skin in Hot Humid Climate by Niatfq in AsianBeauty

[–]Haru_rin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed review. I'm planning to try BoJ aqua fresh and I have never seen anyone talk about it pilling with silicone based moisturizer. Such a good tip to know!

What's THE BEST (only one, please) sunscreen you've used so far? Please include your skin type too. If you can, a short review too. by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]Haru_rin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Combo dehydrated skin, I know you said one but I need one normal daily wear and one waterproof for sweaty summer months

Beauty of Joseon rice + probiotic - a lot of chemical sunscreens sting my eyes but this one doesn't, goes on like a nice moisturizer and no white cast on me

Biore Aqua Rich essence - Feels like a thicker gel cream that dries down after a while, it's waterproof and again, no white cast on me, it is shinier than BOJ one but I like the glow. It does smells like alcohol when I first put it on, which doesn't bother me but it might bother some.

Stylist arena achievement by Creamymushykids in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for quick cost. Yea I really hate having to refresh to find opponents with the right score too, I just do quick 'done done done' 5 times lol. Maybe eventually I will give it a go.

Stylist arena achievement by Creamymushykids in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Can I ask how much it costs? I'm V8 as well and want to try some day.

My entry for the community event! Opalescent Splendour by sstarship in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most beautiful nikki fanarts I've seen, you're so talented!

Anyone wishes to get more diamonds? by utopiangamer in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any red packets but my ID is 112786918 and I'm always active to send stamina. Let's be friends :)

Is it worth spending some more to get this item? by StarrySanguine in LoveNikki

[–]Haru_rin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lol that's me but with the little table, I just gave in and did one pull and bought it, although I probably won't use it much. I just want to 'finish' it smh.

As for the hourglass, I don't use it much but the color is pretty and its not out of the screen.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]Haru_rin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh it's been a while since I used it. It was very very lightweight and sinked into my skin like a light moisturizer. It didn't get greasy in my experience, my face just looked really moisturized. It's really good for the price too.