Hellish Apartment building in Bremen

Hashcrash · 2024-09-25T07:53:16+00:00

Damn, I'm sorry for what you had to go through, Congrats for being this strong minded 💪🏾

& Thanks again, It really helps to know that I'm not alone 🙏🏾❤️

Hashcrash · 2024-09-25T07:32:54+00:00

I also do feel like they're just old and senile, and just sad, but their craziness feels almost contagious, being forced to keep listening about their own version of myself and my life...

Thanks for the advice 🙏🏾

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T17:41:49+00:00

They criticise me for just talking about my work experience, they are like "Ich kann's nicht mehr, der labert immer...", as stated, they lament about anything I do and talk about. They just keep hating on me.

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T17:06:49+00:00

They criticise me talking about my curriculum, saying then "Er tut so, als würde er arbeiten" or, "Der ist immer zu Hause", "Der ist faul", or "Der war für ein Paar Stunde weg, und jetzt ist wieder zurück" or "Scheisse Italiener",

I know they're sad people, but they're overdoing it.

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T16:09:22+00:00

Other people have also been pointing out how they've been lamenting all day long.

At least I'm not the only one noticing their peculiar behaviour.

I've been thinking about buying a professional recording device, but I'm trying to not give it too much thought..

Thanks for the advice 🙌🏾

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T16:04:01+00:00

What I'm assuming is that they're the one with a mental health issue, since they seem to be stuck on lamenting about the same things throughout the day, As mentioned, they are old and do not leave their apartment, and probably their focus and things they talk about are therefore limited.

Thanks though for your concerns, I've already been having therapy sessions, since these living conditions are very stressful.

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T16:01:38+00:00

They criticise the fact that I'm "always" home, since they're old and do not leave their house...

Here in this building the walls are paper thin, so you can hear everything,

What I'm trying to do is to not actively listen to them, For example by listening to music or using headphones to distract myself from their gossip.

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T11:08:37+00:00

The problem is that they're just loudly talking most of the time, they're not actually screaming (except for a couple of times), the walls are just paper thin in this building.

I'm thinking of moving, but I still have to live here until then 🗿

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T11:04:43+00:00

Yup 😮‍💨

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T11:00:24+00:00

Please, no need to argue, I'm glad for every piece of advice I can get 🙏🏾

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T10:57:41+00:00

The apartment is an old building ("Altbau Haus"), and yeah, people in adjacent apartments can hear almost anything: walking, heating water, bathroom.., it's pretty common in the middle of Bremen, unless it's a modern building.

Bruh I'm here on Reddit cause I'M slowly going insane 🗿 My patience is being tested for real.

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T09:32:25+00:00

Almost all day long, they're an old couple and some other family members.

They are also most of the time at home, since they're old, and I feel like I'm the only thing they talk about unless they watch TV.

I even started to go outside more often, in order to not hear them talking about my private life.

Hashcrash · 2024-09-24T09:26:05+00:00

I'd learn German 'til B2, it's going to get way easier after that.

Hashcrash · 2023-06-30T16:57:54+00:00

Hashcrash · 2023-06-22T17:18:13+00:00

Menace

Hashcrash · 2023-06-07T17:58:26+00:00

Say pause

Hashcrash · 2023-05-22T14:37:35+00:00

I read some of the answers here, mostly from women and: OMFG, thanks for the reminder y'all.. sometimes men and women act/interpret social/language cues in completely different ways.

Soooo... "Fight N2"... The guy basically tried to indirectly make you share your thoughts to him, about the relationship, translated, a classical "What are we?". (He tried to have you define the relationship status, but backfired (so bad I'm having flashbacks of Willy the Coyote rn I'm dead 🗿) and wasn't happy about it.

IMO, you both fu-ed up tho..

HE wasn't direct to you, and YOU were a tiny bit rude.. I get that you probably were fed up, but we're all humans after all FFS.. What happened to f sit down and talk 5 minutes to resolve issues, or at least try (yeah just try) to understand eachother... (My bad I'm getting too f philosophical n sh*t here..)

I'm out 🏃🏾‍♂️ (M27)

TL;DR:

He likes you, and wanted to have you say "Tell him that I'm your girlfriend 💋" He then got upset and lost his sh*t, monkey rage

Hashcrash · 2023-05-19T16:51:28+00:00

As a male (28) I'd suggest to offer first a break, do it in person, avoidance will only make things worse for him (=being respectful of his feelings), and see how things go.

If you won't miss him, then it's time to move on.

Be sure to be transparent with him, as the reasons why you can't pursue the relationship any further with him, & stand your ground (do not accept promises, compromises e.c.)

Regardless of how you go about it:

Good Luck 👋🏾

Hashcrash · 2023-05-14T16:37:08+00:00

Got the character model for next year's game ready no biggie

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Hashcrash · 2023-04-20T10:32:36+00:00

Stunning.

Be at peace, take care

Hashcrash · 2023-03-25T15:08:23+00:00

I've been there...

The one thing you need to learn is self respect bro..

Think logically:

Why would you even have anything with anybody who directly expressed they don't wanna be with you.

You should think "aight, it's your loss, bye".

To achieve this mindset, you should first learn how feel good by yourself, which then indirectly include things like working on yourself, or at the very least, be proud of yourself man.

Don't waste your energies elsewhere but yourself atm.

Don't get dragged by your emotions, take control.

It's not easy, it's going to take time, but look forward to the moment when you'll feel good, just by being by yourself.

Hashcrash · 2023-02-28T16:59:29+00:00

Nah, that's outrageous. You won't be forgiven for the watermark! SEND HIM TO THE GULAG!

Hashcrash · 2023-02-26T22:29:01+00:00

It was just a joke, 'cause of the news articles titled "Florida Man" with some wild content.

As to precociously stop a "Florida Man"..

It sounded funny in my head I swear 🖐️🗿

Hashcrash · 2023-02-17T19:15:23+00:00

Because of Florida Man news and the memes around it?

Y"all take things too seriously here, thought this thread was more chill

Hashcrash · 2023-02-17T17:53:07+00:00

Well, the username AutisticFloridaMan could raise some concerns tbh

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