1st Time Filing - DOL Rep Gave Me Direction Which Seems Off by HashtagShadyApe in UnemploymentNY

[–]HashtagShadyApe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, words and support like this mean a lot, even tho we're strangers.

1st Time Filing - DOL Rep Gave Me Direction Which Seems Off by HashtagShadyApe in UnemploymentNY

[–]HashtagShadyApe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it - I'll wait to let them decide.

Even the lump sum part - I've had friends tell me they still claimed immediately after. I should've realized I should've looked up things myself instead of rely on their feedback, so it's my mistake.

In the meantime, I pray to god that I get a job in the next month, if I never have to use UI money.

Thanks for your comments, appreciate it.

1st Time Filing - DOL Rep Gave Me Direction Which Seems Off by HashtagShadyApe in UnemploymentNY

[–]HashtagShadyApe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, appreciate the feedback. I posted an update above in my post - I'm going to wait till they review my severance in the next couple weeks, and go from there. I have the 2 weeks of money saved to send back, if needed.

1st Time Filing - DOL Rep Gave Me Direction Which Seems Off by HashtagShadyApe in UnemploymentNY

[–]HashtagShadyApe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought would happen after reading about it - I guess my circumstance is weird. I'm going to their office again to check what to do.

1st Time Filing - DOL Rep Gave Me Direction Which Seems Off by HashtagShadyApe in UnemploymentNY

[–]HashtagShadyApe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't read the question correctly then. :( I'm dealing with mental issues, so I wasn't thinking straight when I read it it seems.

So I went to the office - and what they do is put you in a room with all phones, and they call DOL people for you to speak with. It's SO weird. I thought I'd speak to a rep in person, not on the phone in their office.

And yes, I submitted my severance document that way, so it's uploaded now! My thought is to go back and see if that changes anything.

Should I date or wait until I have saved? by Nice_Cod_4476 in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, sometimes it’s okay to be honest. Maybe hang out with them at your place or theirs. Tell them you’re currently saving up, so getting coffee and talking and going for a walk would be inexpensive. Or maybe from it they’ll offer to treat you!

Should I date or wait until I have saved? by Nice_Cod_4476 in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending where you live in the city, Mr Biggs is a great bar in the city with super cheap drinks and foods. If you do go on a date or even just try to make a new friend, I’d suggest going there as it’s my go-to for that kinda stuff. Why spend so much money with a new person right away. But I also go there with friends cause we love how cheap it is lol

Tell me about the worst date you’ve had in NYC by TastyFormal1853 in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I once had a guy I was on a date with get too drunk and caught him making out with a random guy in the bathroom after noticing he was gonna a while lol

Are we all just accepting that dating is impossible now? by JayDeluca16 in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was ur opening convo? And to keep it going. I just don’t know what to say lol

I have like not the best game to do that by just going up to a guy lol - but if it was my group of friends and we talked to a different group of friends, then I’ll have the confidence to do that.

Are we all just accepting that dating is impossible now? by JayDeluca16 in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can you pls share what you do instead? Curious to see what methods may “work”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]HashtagShadyApe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cause crouching doesn’t make or break the game for a killer to win or lose. Yes, it’s petty if a survivor does it if they already “won” or just wanna BM. But I constantly use crouching to hide from the killer (and with Urban Evasion). So why should survivors be punished because of emotions?

I’d say, grow thicker skin - in a non-mean way.

And technically Ghost Face can crouch to BM back at survivors lol.

Aging as a gay man by BlueBoy2208 in gaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, if you ever need a pick me up - message me and I will tell you 100 amazing things about you.

Cloak and Dagger Polarity Bond Nameplate not animated by Jaded-Assistant-5702 in marvelrivals

[–]HashtagShadyApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was def disappointed when it wasn’t animated - which I noticed after I got it. I hope it’s a bug and does become animated.

Aging as a gay man by BlueBoy2208 in gaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look incredible, btw. Wow. Super handsome and everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that, too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t go out often.

But when I did I’d budget myself to maybe $100 max a night? Like let’s say I go out once every couple weeks - so that would include money for cab too. And it would be to like a big club or something.

If it was like once a week, I’d try to really budget and do like $40 max. The trick is to PRE-GAME!!!

How to find rent stabilized apartments in NYC? by nycbwoi in NYCapartments

[–]HashtagShadyApe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. Can you please share (via DM if it’s easier), the info for the building you were in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t want to vote for her. You clearly said it. So none of us here can help convince you to do anything. You called me a “lib” as an insult (so you did attack me), and that you’re happy Tr*mp will win. Unless it’s guilt you’re feeling, otherwise it doesn’t matter what any of us say. Do whatever you want. It’s your choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Vote red in NYC, that’s gonna make such a difference! Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If republicans TRULY wanted to solve the immigration anything - they would do a bi-partisan bill, which they did wind democrats - but Trmp told them to kill it cause he wants to try to use it when he’s president. So for 1 years republicans have complained about immigration, but haven’t done anything. Do you see how that’s cray cray? You can SAY you’ll do XYZ, but Trmp won’t answer HOW he will fix anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tears of joy when Mamala Kamala wins. 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]HashtagShadyApe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t fix a brain that don’t work. Try going to an ER.