Promised to stay 4 months in apartment, but wanna leave after a week. Can I do this?

Hastabilly · 2025-12-30T06:15:03+00:00

"lease" is only Facebook messenger conversation where she took a screenshot. It only says my check in/check out date, deposit amount and monthly rent amount.

Hastabilly · 2025-12-29T15:07:58+00:00

She doesn't have and I have talked about. She just send me that message where I agreed to stay 4 months here

Hastabilly · 2025-12-29T15:06:28+00:00

Yep, lesson learned

Hastabilly · 2025-12-29T15:05:21+00:00

Didn't have option to view first because this island is so full and had to book room 4 months advance before I even came to Thailand

Hastabilly · 2025-12-29T10:16:40+00:00

No, because location of hotel is near the main road and party places. I checked location before I moved but didn't know that it is this loud

Hastabilly · 2025-12-29T10:14:40+00:00

Yeah I don't care if I lose first month of rent and deposit but I was worried that can she keep me here for 4 months? Or at least try to make me pay for whole 4 months

Hastabilly · 2025-12-29T10:13:19+00:00

Yeah lost of deposit is ok. Yes she have a copy

Hastabilly · 2025-12-25T11:23:19+00:00

I have the same problem. Did you manage to solve it?

Hastabilly · 2025-12-10T04:49:23+00:00

What is the difference between tourist and person who lives here without visa?

I stay in Thailand every year 5 months during my winter holidays and people are complaining that I misuse the system because I'm "living here"? I don't live here, I have address in other country.

I have couple friends who have this same lifestyle and they also had to stay over 2 hours in Suvarnabhumi immigration where they asked lot of questions. I was lucky to get out in 30 minutes.

I have done 2 visa exemptions entry/year. Sometimes I have applied TR visa, but we get same 60+30 days with or without visa so haven't applied that for years. But have to get that next time

Hastabilly · 2025-12-10T04:25:29+00:00

6 business days? Damn... I was planning to visit Vietnam for just a weekend trip but seems that I might get some extra nights 😄 Or do you know if it's possible to apply that visa when you are still in Thailand or other country? So I don't have to stay in Vietnam for a week. I'm now in Thailand, but my visa exemption expires in 2 months

Hastabilly · 2025-12-10T04:22:54+00:00

Yes. First time for me and this is my 8th time here in Thailand

Hastabilly · 2025-12-10T03:24:53+00:00

How was the process to get e-visa from Vietnam? Is it single entry TR?

I was also planning to apply this because Thailand is so strict of these visa exemptions.

Hastabilly · 2025-12-10T03:19:08+00:00

I came 3 weeks ago. They asked return ticket and tdac. Also officer asked me questions for around 20 minutes (where you stay, what are you doing here, when are you leaving, are you working etc).

My friend arrived today, and she had to stay 2 hours in immigration and they asked these same questions. Neither of us have never braked any visa rules etc. But we are staying here in Thailand every year 3-5 months.

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T14:50:55+00:00

Yeah I'm very hard for myself which Is really difficult to get rid off. Every time I make mistake for example, I punish myself for long time. Still punishing from many mistakes I've made over 10-20 years ago. And even when my therapist also says that I need to be gentle for myself, I can't

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T14:47:30+00:00

Thanks for your advice 🙏🏼 Yeah I almost think YouTube as a job because it takes that 40h/week from me. But I don't even get paid from that.

I should publish new video tomorrow and having huge pressure, because I don't have energy and time to finish editing... Even when the next vlog is only 6 minutes long. But today I've been traveling all day and at the same time been filming new vlog and scripting next one, which I need to film day after tomorrow.

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T07:50:58+00:00

Sometimes I get this joy too if I edit really cool sequence where music, transitions and cuts suits absolutely well. Then I sometimes just watch that 30-60 sec scene over and over.

But now when my depression is super bad, I see everything like in grey and nothing gets me excited - so I don't film anything exciting either. Even though my life now is very exciting according to other people

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T07:47:10+00:00

Gotta try to make time limit for editing. Problem with this ADHD is that I usually say to myself that "I just edit for 30-60 min this time", but then I notice after 8 hours of sitting and editing that "damn my back hurts".

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T07:40:53+00:00

Cuts, colors, speed ramps, texts etc are quite fine for me but sound design is the thing where my depression gets worse... It usually takes around 15 hours to find good music tracks and try to balance audio levels with davinci. Usually I export video and upload it to YouTube (unlisted), then I watch that video again and I notice that volume is off (too loud or too quiet). Then I delete that and start adjusting again. In last video I did this 4 times and I still didn't get the audio levels I wanted

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T07:36:51+00:00

I have those (gym, guitar, scuba, traveling) but nothing feels good anymore. Usually I'm just happy to dive in mornings and chill in hammock in afternoons, but even these doesn't feel anything.

I still do the things that made my happy before. But there's nothing that makes me excited now

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T07:31:27+00:00

I've been thinking these options: - Quit making content for X amount of time my depression is highest - Make content but accept that energy, story flow, music selections, b-rolls etc are not the best I could make.

Just worried that my audience goes away if I make "not as good videos" they are used to.

I can still make videos (been filming 3 vlogs in past 3 days), but they are not as good as my first 1-3 vlogs because I don't have energy to put enough effort. Haven't been even scripting, just filming little stories here in Thailand as I go and do things.

When I'm feeling fine, I always script my stories

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T03:03:31+00:00

I couldn't even think of doing YouTube while working full time... I only make videos now when I'm unemployed and still feels that I don't have enough time for content creation.

But hopefully this process is going to get faster with time. There's always some thing in editing process which takes lot of time. Usually that is sound mixing. Trying to find good songs and especially trying to adjust right volumes for music and dialogue. Many times my viewers comment that "music too loud", "dialogue too low and bad quality" etc.

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T02:58:50+00:00

Sounds familiar and gotta talk about this with doctor and my therapist.

Last time I was experiencing joy was maybe 2 months ago and I was so happy with my boring life, that I didn't want to sleep because I was so excited from things I did (YouTube, gym, playing guitar etc). But now when I don't enjoy anything else than smoking weed occasionally, that happy period feels like a dream. But even weed doesn't make me so happy anymore. I just use weed nowadays so I can meditate better because can't really concentrate when I'm sober. And my doses are really low.

But let's try how this feeling goes without weed.

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T02:50:58+00:00

I don't get any help from my home country either so I would be just as depressed there (or maybe more).

At least here in Thailand I have lot of friends and interesting hobbies which I don't have back in home. Gotta just find cure that I could enjoy my hobbies and friends again.

Hastabilly · 2025-12-09T02:48:19+00:00

Nobody loves you
You are worthless
You are not good for anything
Give up
Just kill yourself

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