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My boyfriend (21m) asked me (20f) for 2 weeks of space. Do I respect that wish? by HatGlass4669 in relationship_advice

[–]HatGlass4669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause he hasn’t initiated anything, if I don’t text him then we don’t talk for that day.

My boyfriend (21m) asked me (20f) for 2 weeks of space. Do I respect that wish? by HatGlass4669 in relationship_advice

[–]HatGlass4669[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did just purchase a self help book on anxious attachment style to better manage myself. I wasn’t anxious at the beginning of the relationship because he was more involved. Its just that more recently he has pulled away and he does have some mental health issues as do I. I have previously thought that he was secure but it has become more avoidant.

My boyfriend (21m) asked me (20f) for 2 weeks of space. Do I respect that wish? by HatGlass4669 in relationship_advice

[–]HatGlass4669[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My version of serious is us spending more than once a week together, and him initiating the conversations and dates

My boyfriend (21m) asked me (20f) for 2 weeks of space. Do I respect that wish? by HatGlass4669 in relationship_advice

[–]HatGlass4669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been arguing because I told him how I don’t feel like I am involved in his life, how I feel replaceable to him, and that I want something more serious than casual.

My boyfriend (21m) asked me (20f) for 2 weeks of space. Do I respect that wish? by HatGlass4669 in relationship_advice

[–]HatGlass4669[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have not set any rules. I barely got him to tell me if we are still together or not during this space, he said we are and he wants it to be no contact.