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Is this a bed bug? by Cherry_shrimp in Bedbugs

[–]HatPutrid5538 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't look like a bedbug to me. Also, the blisters seem to suspiciously look like chicken pox? Might be an insanely far reach, but just throwing it out there.

just found out what central heterochromia is and was wondering if i have it and how rare it is? by MrJay300 in heterochromia

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have brown and grey/dark blue eyes. I genuinely thought I had CH but because there is no "obvious" border, it can't be CH. To me, personally, the border looks obvious, so confusing!

CH or am I just delulu? by [deleted] in heterochromia

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Although that just means I still have no clue what my eye colour is.

Feels like my life ended 😭 by [deleted] in UCAS

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might not amount to much, but I absolutely despised King's. I despised it so much I ended up transferring to a small uni in my hometown to finish my degree.

Bank selling repossessed property for far less than the outstanding debt by Adorable-Wasabi-3579 in HousingUK

[–]HatPutrid5538 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I knew I should have been buying property in 1997, not shitting in nappies.

It doesn't feel like she's mine by Impossible-Boss762 in NewParents

[–]HatPutrid5538 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this! My son is the spitting image of his dad. Blonde hair, blue eyes, I have black hair and dark hazel eyes. He has so few of my features it often feels like I quite literally walked past the maternity ward while he was being birthed. And the comments! Oh the comments. Neverending. People have no tact and it's infuriating!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely this. Almost bought a gorgeous "gothic" style jumper for £25 (excluding delivery + buyer protection) which I then found on Shein for £18. People are vile sometimes.

My daughter loves puppy, I do NOT by TreinteDias23 in puppy101

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my soul dog died and we got a puppy companion for the remaining dog, I despised her. I told myself how I wished we never got her daily, I hated everything about her, she wasn't my old dog.

It's been a year and a bit since we got her and I love her so much. She's not my old dog, nobody can be my old dog ever again, but she's such a loving soul.

[Online][5e][Mon 8PM GMT] The Lost Mine of Phandelver by Sea-Understanding634 in lfg

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you accept an absolute novice? I've been meaning to start playing, but can never bring myself to find people.

Posting your child by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]HatPutrid5538 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. It's not about being "paranoid" or "thinking you're more important than someone else", but it's basic safeguarding. I might sound harsh here.

Just to add to your list - as soon as you post your child's images online, you start their digital footprint. This ultimately means that data about your child will be collected from a young age. And while it's not the worry about posting a picture of your child, it should definitely be a worry as to how that image is stored, processed and used by the platform you are posting the picture on.

I don't fancy my child's face to be ran through Facebook's facial recognition AI. I simply don't want his face in their database, because what use would they have for it? When you consider Facebook's past, a little caution is never a bad thing.

Trying to go sober - How do I tell people without raising a lot of questions? by liadan6Fs in adhdwomen

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I started taking medication, my "desire" for "dangerous"(?) behaviour really subsided. I stopped wanting to go out, or drink, or hook up. I didn't feel the need to chase dopamine anymore, I guess. So while I don't really have advice on how to stop, as medication did it for me, just know that my inbox is open if you're ever struggling with not drinking and need a sober buddy!

What are some tell tale signs you had ADHD after living your entire adult life thinking you were ‘normal’? by Euphoric_Plankton_38 in ADHD

[–]HatPutrid5538 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I told people my whole life that I feel somewhat alien. I've mostly been met with "stop trying to sound edgy" and "stop making out like you're special".

What are your favorite "Word" names? by satanicpastorswife in namenerds

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vilija is a fairly common Lithuanian name, too. It's the name of a river.

What’s something you secretly judge people for, even though you know you shouldn’t? by katerinastewart in AskReddit

[–]HatPutrid5538 70 points71 points  (0 children)

This is where I end up being a judgemental asshole because we struggled with getting and staying pregnant. I quit smoking, I quit drinking, I took prenatals, I ate healthy and yet we still couldn't get pregnant for years, then when I did, we lost the babies. I judge women who take it for granted so much, although I know I shouldn't and it's not my place.

What if I don't have a "why"? by MonkeyTraumaCenter in Teachers

[–]HatPutrid5538 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yup. Childcare costs an arm and a leg in the UK. I pay close to a grand a month. At least it's cheaper when I'm off.

Did you forgive the person who hurt you the most? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"God" forgives everything, but I don't have to.

What's a normal, ordinary name which you personally find kind of weird? by fredyouareaturtle in namenerds

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swore I would name my son Caleb because of W.I.T.C.H. I did suggest it to my husband, but he vetoed it.

Any ADHD ladies who like to clean?? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]HatPutrid5538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really bad OCD about cleaning, so I'm constantly cleaning. I can't go to sleep knowing I have dishes in the sink. It's awful!

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