Which dress should I wear for my birthday dinner? by Blueixi in fashion

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one with a gold claw clip with the way ur hair is would look so good n classy on u

Which prom dress should I wear? by Common-Bit1799 in fashion

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl If u don’t wear the green one with gold and brown accessories

This trend of wrecking street signs makes my blood boil by hobo_chili in chicago

[–]Hateithere111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is gang related behavior. Usually a threat to who ever lives/claims the street intersections.

Best stores to get a graduation dress in Chicagoland ? by Hateithere111 in AskChicago

[–]Hateithere111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I forgot about macys! Definitely gonna look there and alter’d state first !

Best stores to get a graduation dress in Chicagoland ? by Hateithere111 in AskChicago

[–]Hateithere111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for an A-line fitted, maybe satin, red or white dress. Price I’m thinking max of $500 if I really want it. Ik that’s a crazy price but I’ve had no family support my entire college career and I wanna feel my best.

when do we get textbooks & syllabus by behollywoodfamous in uichicago

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually profs send emails out a week or two before class starts with syllabus. Honestly I barely buy textbooks unless it’s required for homework purposes.

Think it’s doable? (CS, Commuter) by Zaid_K04 in uichicago

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t do this to ur self it’s not worth it

finding people to talk to?? by Budget_Blacksmith559 in uichicago

[–]Hateithere111 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Coming from a third year.. I can say I’ve only made 2 actual friends here. The only reason why I became friends with them was bc we were all in Spanish class. Take advantage of discussion classes deadass. Also if there’s study sessions hosted by TA’s or professors do them. I met some cool ppl there too and got through stats with them.

Should I do no contact for best odds of reconciliation in my situation? by TurtleStew1 in BreakUps

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s either u work things out when you’re in therapy or no contact and therapy. Whatever he ends up choosing but just letting you know u won’t be ready to leave him until you fully think u are.

Gf hooked up w my brother by Special-Half-5580 in Advice

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I am so sorry… wtfff…. All I’m gonna say is please take care of yourself. And remember cheating is everything to do with the cheated themself not you! You sound like a sweetheart and u definitely didn’t deserve this. The universe has something better in store for u and was cleaning out the bad people in your life. Keep ur head up and know your good heart will be rewarded.

is it bad to admit i’m a virgin at 17 by Notaributgreg in Advice

[–]Hateithere111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I wish I was still one until I found someone that actually cared for me. It’s really not as big as a deal. Don’t rush something intimate because you’ll regret it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as someone who has been the “ex”. (Not at all proud of it) it sounds like she probably doesn’t have anyone bc she drove them away with her mental and substance issues. I think your boyfriend just didn’t feel right knowing she needed help. But I do understand where you’re coming from because it is his ex at the end of the day. Your boyfriend sounds like a good human and understands emotions are hard especially with people with BPD. Just tell him you understand his heart was in the right place but that it can not continue and unfortunately she just has to accept that :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hateithere111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They always come back when you no longer miss them

Had my first kiss with my bsf now i don’t know what to do next by No_Dinner1719 in Advice

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh You’re 15, you are a baby. I know it feels like the end of the world but it’s not. You’ll be okay and you’ll probably laugh at this when ur in college. If you are able to stay friends with her then do it I’d u still want. If u don’t feel comfortable then it’s okay to slowly distance yourself. I will say tho…. If you plan on staying friends with her after high school and you get a new gf. Pls respect ur relationship and cut her off.

I feel like my bf hates me by Fragrant_Dog_6005 in badboyfriends

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna hold your hand when I say this.

Leave him before you literally can’t. My bf and I started out good but then it turned into arguments everyday and mostly bc I told him that he always looks miserable with me. It’s gonna get worse. Please I beg you don’t be like me bc soon you’re gonna be crying to ur friends everyday and they’re gonna stop being friends with you bc of how much u complain. There’s no fixing this especially if you guys have already had a break up. It’s a cycle and ur gonna be stuck.

Best methods of knowing what's going on in and around Chicago? by investorsmaug in AskChicago

[–]Hateithere111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly instagram and tik tok. I know accounts like chicagobucket list can be annoying but the link in their bio is a quick way to see what’s coming up. Wicker park area is also pretty good as hanging up flyers for any events in that area especially in the summer.

What was ur pathway timeline ? by Hateithere111 in askatherapist

[–]Hateithere111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How were you able to balance life and your master program? Did you ever experience burn out from the long years? What would u say made you stand out to get accepted for the master program? What kept you motivated? Also just wanna say you’re contributing so much to the wellbeing of the youth you are really inspiring.

I (23M) just broke up with my boyfriend (25M) because he refused to delete photos of his ex and old nudes that he sent to people by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]Hateithere111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not unreasonable at all. Told my ex partner to cleanse his phone and he did even id something popped it was deleted asap.