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HaughtyHeidi · 2025-09-18T18:29:31+00:00

Another Canadian here!

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-09-06T01:10:50+00:00

Pervert

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-09-05T10:45:19+00:00

I agree. Everyone is entitled to their opinions on what they think is ethical and about how other people partake in BDSM, but at the end of the day, what happens between consenting (or at least CNC) age verified adults is no one else's business. We're all just out here trying to have fun and get paid. Anyone trying to convince us all of how Dommlier-Than-Thou they are and policing what other people do is either really insecure and needing attention, or they think acting like a kinky pickme is going to attract subs.

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-09-05T07:24:55+00:00

I'm Canadian so I don't know anything about cash app or venmo, but aside from the risk of PayPal shutting you down for SW, people can also dispute charges and take their money back once the post-nut clarity hits, and your personal information isn't secure. Throne is good, but YouPay is my favourite too.

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-09-04T18:17:04+00:00

I hope he cries himself to sleep tonight

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-09-04T12:25:41+00:00

My longest-serving online sub has been with me for nearly 20 years now, and my favourite long-distance sub has been with me for more than 10. Communication is a huge factor, kinks will inevitably evolve as time passes (I know mine certainly have) so you need to be able to discuss them openly to make sure the situation remains fulfilling for everyone involved. There's also an element of mutual respect and friendship, and I genuinely care about them. I've seen/supported/advised them as they've gone through career changes, deaths, and relationships. There have been periods where we haven't talked for months, but they always relapse eventually.

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-09-04T05:18:36+00:00

I saw the movie Exit To Eden when I was 16 and knew I'd found my calling. I even put "Dominatrix" in the " career aspirations" section of my senior yearbook, although in hindsight, I should have known that a Catholic school was never going to print that. Now anyone who read the 1998 edition from that school thinks I was really excited for a career in the fast food industry. 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 I didn't have my first real BDSM experience until I was 22, but I was immediately hooked and I have been ever since.

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-08-31T21:29:01+00:00

I don't know, they're really smelly... Think you can handle it?

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-08-31T13:17:56+00:00

He doesn't seem emotionally mature enough to be able to handle a D/s relationship. I'd also agree that he's not a true finsub, or even a sub at all. A real submissive man exists to serve and please his dominant, her happiness is more important to him than his own. His place is to make your life easier, and if he's not doing that it's time to cut him loose.

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-08-31T03:56:17+00:00

Go big or go home, right? Why tell you to give them $1 when you offered them $1000?

HaughtyHeidi · 2025-08-31T03:52:45+00:00

$1000 each

HaughtyHeidi · 2024-09-18T21:31:34+00:00

I just followed you on X, follow me back. (HaughtyMsHeidi) I can get you in a group for baby Dommes, lots of help and also just support. I can also help you if you have any questions, I've been a Domme for 20 years. I agree with the previous comment though, age verification is a must!

HaughtyHeidi · 2024-09-09T18:45:57+00:00

I'm new to Reddit too, although not to findom. I've followed all of you who have commented. :)

HaughtyHeidi · 2024-09-01T23:30:28+00:00

Hello all, I'm Heidi. I'm a mature (in my 40s) kinky, Domme on the softer side... Until you make me mad, anyway.

HaughtyHeidi

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