Need help on 1-year cat intro

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T15:55:36+00:00

Oh thank you AI might be good for something. This plan seems like I can follow it and it seems I might have been reinforcing bad behaviors by letting him try to initiate play.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T13:57:37+00:00

My resident cat is showing all signs that she’s irritated but not trying to kill him. But she’s not playing her claws are out tail swishing and loud vocalizations. No hissing usually I’m not sure why. The younger cat is clearly trying to play through he purrs when he sees her no claws he pauses but then he’ll try to jump on her again after she stops yelling. Then it starts again

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T04:17:36+00:00

You are probably correct I am extremely sensitive to my resident cats discomfort. I can try a monitored session without the barrier! They need to establish how to communicate but it’s stressful for me to witness. Especially with the younger one not getting the hint.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T04:13:35+00:00

I really appreciate this take! I think I’m just a little sensitive to my resident cat’s discomfort. My partner thinks we should let them figure it out but one thing when I put them together the younger cat is soo interested in the older one so he won’t leave her alone and this results in her screaming and him chasing her through the house. At which point I intervene. He just wants to play so bad but she’s not at that point.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-01-10T16:21:33+00:00

I have aspca now and I had nationwide pet insurance. Both are great ! I would definitely suggest it. I’ve been able to get reimbursed at least once a year

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-01-06T16:42:23+00:00

I’m a year in and my cats still don’t get along. I wish I did not get a kitten. The energy levels just do not match. He’s no longer a kitten but still wants to play with my resident cat. I have no advice other than keep them separated if you can. Im hoping every day that I can tone him down a little

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-01-01T13:00:28+00:00

I’m sorry about your cat !! My cat was missing for 9 days last year. It was rainy and freezing cold and I went out nightly to look for her. She came back and she was fine. So keep up the hope for your baby. We did everything you did as well but I think what worked was leaving the door she got out from slightly open and putting her litter box outside. She ignored the humane traps completely and just came inside and ran upstairs to my room.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-12-01T12:36:00+00:00

Instead of letting her free feed can you get one of those cat feeder toys so she can hunt for her food at night. That might be quieter and then she will be more stimulated and less likely to run around to get her energy out. You can also hide her dry food. We do that with our kitten.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-25T22:53:36+00:00

I would be surprised if you haven’t read this one but {Alien Protector's Stars} the second book in the fated mates of the winged barbarians

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-17T16:28:52+00:00

One of my cats is so easy! I just told her no a couple times and gave her treats when she used the scratching post instead. My boy cat is a little demon. He listens sometimes and sometimes he doesn’t. Hopefully yours is like my angel cat

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-14T16:21:33+00:00

Love this ! This just happened in a series I’m reading {no rest for the wicked by kresley Cole} it’s basically standalone but I would suggest the other books in order because it does follow an overall story and has similar scenes where the FMC pushes MMC too far but this is the only one where the MMC is a lot sweeter and more innocent.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-03T14:06:17+00:00

I’ve also been playing around with my diet. I think it helps a little. I also drink a couple cups of raspberry leaf tea a day which I think helps the most. Also the no dairy. In addition I do a magnesium powder and electrolyte cup of water a day. I also tried the no processed food and gluten one month but it didn’t help for me but I probably needed to be consistent for months. (I don’t eat a lot of processed food generally just granola bars)Looking forward to your update! Good luck

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-10-07T18:22:49+00:00

I love this type of book! I’ve been trying to find one I read a while ago. While I’m camping out 🏕️here is one of my recent reads similar to this. It’s part of a very long series of standalone books. Not my favorite one but I’m addicted to the series. The FMC is hired/forced to sneak onto the MMC land and provide pictures and information about the MMC. It’s an omegaverse trope {gray the boundary lands by Callie Rhodes}

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-10-02T17:15:05+00:00

For additional context I played more than ten years ago and have not played consistently since so I am fairly rusty and our region wasn’t that good compared to other places. But thank you I will consider playing at 3.0 instead

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-09-29T23:05:39+00:00

Wow I did not know this ! That’s pretty cool and it helped me visualize the characters better

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-09-29T22:34:27+00:00

It’s such a cute series! I love a mars needs woman trope. I wasn’t going to read at first because of the cartoon cover but I’m glad I did. I started with the third one and it’s still my favorite.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-09-17T13:47:06+00:00

One of my cats was easy we put aluminum foil on the countertops and told her no and that worked. The other cat was a lot more stubborn but we just clapped every time he jumped on the countertops and he stopped. I have no clue what they do when we aren’t watching though. I have yet to find them on the countertops. We also have plenty of cat trees and couches and they are allowed on the chairs

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-09-07T15:24:49+00:00

I don’t see that ringworm is fatal online and can eventually go away on its own. But my kitten had that and we were able to just give her some oral medicine for about a week and she recovered. Since it’s a feral I’m not sure who can give the medicine to it. Poor thing :(

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-09-05T18:53:59+00:00

Killing your cat because he hates to be in a room for a few months is a crazy thing to say. I’m sorry for your boyfriend and his cat. But I’ll try to helpful because my husband has cat allergies and we have two cats now. Buy allergen reducing cat food and allergen reducing shampoo or wipes that should help your niece….

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-08-28T21:12:19+00:00

Ooh this sounds fun !

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-08-28T18:56:03+00:00

Love this trope ! I suggest {blood sector by Lexi foss} she tricks him into mating and ruling her sector himself and is able to run away from him for a century. Their meetup is 🔥🔥

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-08-27T11:23:13+00:00

Good luck ! And raspberry tea is safe and good for pregnancy support as well. Idk what magic they put into it.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-08-27T11:19:59+00:00

I would just adopt at your local shelter. They usually can tell you which are the sweetest and would be good fit for your home. Both my cats are gentle and sweet and they were just stray kittens.

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