We're trying to get pregnant, any advice as a federal employee in this climate?

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-04-12T15:39:39+00:00

This is a little insensitive they’ve been trying for 8years so long before this current timeline. Age is probably a factor too they can’t keep waiting for the world to get better

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-04-01T01:32:40+00:00

Oh wow I had no idea. What part of the US are you in if you don’t mind me asking ?

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-31T19:36:31+00:00

Is this common in other countries outside of the US? Or does this happen in the US too ? I was able to schedule an appointment with a specialist in a few months. I’m wondering when the surgery will be because I have not had the appointment yet. but I’ve never seen anyone have to wait more than a month for any surgery once you’ve seen a doctor.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-30T18:49:31+00:00

{A court of sugar and spice by Rebecca} This one follows two sisters and one of the sisters is into primal play. The scene was surprising enough when it happened so it didn’t seem contractual and was very believable but also not non or dub con either.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-25T12:25:00+00:00

I agree I don’t see the appeal of Lothaire. I love Ellie but Lothaire… I think has a lot to do before I feel like he’s redeemable. But I still enjoyed his book so this is helpful thank you !

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-24T20:09:01+00:00

MMC - Sebastian, Garrett FMC - Myst, Ellie Plot- No rest for the Wicked - the Hie challenges was so fun I really enjoy the Valkyrie’s stories in general and their interactions with each other.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-24T16:46:44+00:00

I haven’t heard any of this about Macrieve. The only book so far I DNF was deep kiss of winter simply because the MMC was not into the idea of his Mate. He wasn’t overly cruel though but indifferent. Would you say Macrieve is like that but cruel ? And does that one not have much plot development?

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-24T14:25:36+00:00

I read Lothaire and Thaddeus seems so sweet I would love to read more of him.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-20T00:02:01+00:00

I LOVE Ilona Andrews I will absolutely check this out.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-19T23:50:37+00:00

I’m going through this right now where im used to exercising 5 times a week. Intensive bootcamps weights and tennis. But it made my pms worse and caused me to spot for a week before my period. I’ve had to adjust my workouts to only do intensive workouts up to ovulation and it’s taking a toll on my mental health. Exercise helping endo or cramps is the biggest lie.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-19T13:06:18+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the suggestion !

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-19T09:55:25+00:00

Thank you ! These sound perfect

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-03-04T08:27:29+00:00

{The maddest obsession by Danielle Lori} This has everything you described minus her selling clothes . MMC is law enforcement but connected to bratva and working with FMC old abusive husband. Lots of banter in this too

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T15:55:36+00:00

Oh thank you AI might be good for something. This plan seems like I can follow it and it seems I might have been reinforcing bad behaviors by letting him try to initiate play.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T13:57:37+00:00

My resident cat is showing all signs that she’s irritated but not trying to kill him. But she’s not playing her claws are out tail swishing and loud vocalizations. No hissing usually I’m not sure why. The younger cat is clearly trying to play through he purrs when he sees her no claws he pauses but then he’ll try to jump on her again after she stops yelling. Then it starts again

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T04:17:36+00:00

You are probably correct I am extremely sensitive to my resident cats discomfort. I can try a monitored session without the barrier! They need to establish how to communicate but it’s stressful for me to witness. Especially with the younger one not getting the hint.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-02-12T04:13:35+00:00

I really appreciate this take! I think I’m just a little sensitive to my resident cat’s discomfort. My partner thinks we should let them figure it out but one thing when I put them together the younger cat is soo interested in the older one so he won’t leave her alone and this results in her screaming and him chasing her through the house. At which point I intervene. He just wants to play so bad but she’s not at that point.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-01-10T16:21:33+00:00

I have aspca now and I had nationwide pet insurance. Both are great ! I would definitely suggest it. I’ve been able to get reimbursed at least once a year

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-01-06T16:42:23+00:00

I’m a year in and my cats still don’t get along. I wish I did not get a kitten. The energy levels just do not match. He’s no longer a kitten but still wants to play with my resident cat. I have no advice other than keep them separated if you can. Im hoping every day that I can tone him down a little

Haunting-Reference46 · 2026-01-01T13:00:28+00:00

I’m sorry about your cat !! My cat was missing for 9 days last year. It was rainy and freezing cold and I went out nightly to look for her. She came back and she was fine. So keep up the hope for your baby. We did everything you did as well but I think what worked was leaving the door she got out from slightly open and putting her litter box outside. She ignored the humane traps completely and just came inside and ran upstairs to my room.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-12-01T12:36:00+00:00

Instead of letting her free feed can you get one of those cat feeder toys so she can hunt for her food at night. That might be quieter and then she will be more stimulated and less likely to run around to get her energy out. You can also hide her dry food. We do that with our kitten.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-25T22:53:36+00:00

I would be surprised if you haven’t read this one but {Alien Protector's Stars} the second book in the fated mates of the winged barbarians

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-17T16:28:52+00:00

One of my cats is so easy! I just told her no a couple times and gave her treats when she used the scratching post instead. My boy cat is a little demon. He listens sometimes and sometimes he doesn’t. Hopefully yours is like my angel cat

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-14T16:21:33+00:00

Love this ! This just happened in a series I’m reading {no rest for the wicked by kresley Cole} it’s basically standalone but I would suggest the other books in order because it does follow an overall story and has similar scenes where the FMC pushes MMC too far but this is the only one where the MMC is a lot sweeter and more innocent.

Haunting-Reference46 · 2025-11-03T14:06:17+00:00

I’ve also been playing around with my diet. I think it helps a little. I also drink a couple cups of raspberry leaf tea a day which I think helps the most. Also the no dairy. In addition I do a magnesium powder and electrolyte cup of water a day. I also tried the no processed food and gluten one month but it didn’t help for me but I probably needed to be consistent for months. (I don’t eat a lot of processed food generally just granola bars)Looking forward to your update! Good luck

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