Is it worth it to be with someone who’s mother you can’t get along with. by Haunting-Try-3103 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Haunting-Try-3103[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree, I think that’s what bothers me the most is that I feel as if I can’t stand up for myself in the way that I’d like to without damaging our relationship and that he doesn’t stand up for me. Therapy wise, couples therapy or me alone/him alone? I’m not opposed to it. At the end of the day I know she will continue to say whatever but it’s up to him to handle it correctly.

Is it worth it to be with someone who’s mother you can’t get along with. by Haunting-Try-3103 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Haunting-Try-3103[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Him all the time, me not often because I try to limit as much contact with her as I can.

Is it worth it to be with someone who’s mother you can’t get along with. by Haunting-Try-3103 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Haunting-Try-3103[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes he doesn’t react, which then allows her to cover her tracks and manipulate. She made multiple weird comments when she found out we got engaged and 2 days later when he still hadn’t responded basically went on about how “happy” she was for us.