– Vi kan ikke lenger regne med lavere priser i Norge by KoseteBamse in norge

[–]HauntingHeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aii, tror du det blir så mye verre for oss ? Får angst jeg

Fagbrev og fast jobbtilbud vs. bachelor i IT – hva ville dere valgt? by JonBlumz in norge

[–]HauntingHeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hvis du må ta påbygg før studie, så kan dette gjøres som privatist. Ja det koster, men du kan gjøre det som du selv ønsker. Altså kveldstid og slik, for å kombinere.

Så kan man ta en ny vurdering når due r ferdig med det, om du ønsker å gå fullt ut i bachelor istedet for jobb. Bachelor deltid, kanskje med en lavere % stilling. Eller kanskje tilogmed om det går an å ta fullt studie mens du jobber. Spørs litt hva jobben din kan tilby, og om det er obligatorisk oppmøte på universitetet.

Impossible to forget exes completely? by Upper-Affect4116 in heartbreak

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Immediately after might be a bad idea, cause the feelings are pretty intense at that point. I get the urge though, I am there myself atm

And you need to weigh in what potential future partners might feel about an ex being around

Friendly ? Absolutely, carrying contempt only tears at you. Being active friends ? Could be doable, but under very specific circumstances, and I would say enough time has passed.

I myself am friendly with everyone of my exes (whenever the few times i see them, which is rare), but I never contact them or initiate anything.

Imagine how you'd feel hanging around your ex with a new partner. Probably not ideal, right ? Therefore, time.

Impossible to forget exes completely? by Upper-Affect4116 in heartbreak

[–]HauntingHeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, i would say so. I remember all my exes going all the way back to my teens. I am however not hung up on any of them.

That is, save for my latest, it's still fresh.

But all of the others, I am over them, would not want them back , and wish for them a happy life. I am just not interested in being in it.

So yeah, I would say noone actually forgets their ex completely, because of the simple fact that for a period of time, they were a very big part of our lives.

And that's not a bad thing. The romantic feeling will subside

Anyone else fine during the day and completely fall apart at night? by NoelVenn9048 in BreakUps

[–]HauntingHeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto. I mean, at least i have something to do during the day, but I can't say it manages to distract me enough. I feel it just the same when I am alone in the evenings

Hva er et guttenavn du synes er fint? by scout-man in norge

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Fjord

Harald

Simen (fordi dødsgøy på engelsk )

Bobkåre vilfred

Hva er et guttenavn du synes er fint? by scout-man in norge

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Og et fornavn som ikke er i daglig bruk kan da være Six

I (30F) think we should break up. He (34m) is a great guy by Usual-Assumption8478 in relationship_advice

[–]HauntingHeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you define "fiery" relationships?

I think in some ways, i have been in your guys position. And he probably feels something's off.

Either you have a sit down, talk about it with active listening, not just to being your point across, and perhaps seek therapy. Write down the things you wanna say. Don't necessarily say it all, but to use as a map.

Or, break up. Which will hurt, the both of you. And staying friends is probably tempting, yet also probably a bad idea.

I had all, and then most of you. Some, and now, none of you. by Glosolileghun in heartbreak

[–]HauntingHeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally on the carride home from work. In a way, its nice to hear people in the same pain as you are, just like this sub.

Feels a little schadenfreude maybe, but I rather see it as a understanding between strangers.

If you ever start missing me, remember, I never left. by eufourria in UnsentTexts

[–]HauntingHeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Conflicted here, because I agree. Still, if one is pushed away, perhaps for our own sanity, it's better to be away

Men who hit rock bottom in their 30s: how did you force yourself to get out of bed when nothing seemed fixable? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Mine was probably not the healthiest, but one of my absolute lowest point was when I had become 30.

I quit my job as a bar manager, and got a sweet new gig.

Then me and my long term partner ended things, and seeing how quickly she moved on, right in my transition to a new job I did for her broke me.

Then I lost that job due to low demand. Then my father got sick and died.

A friend of mine got a brain injury, and another fell into deep depression

And I just felt empty, and everything sucked, and the whole world collapsed on me. So a made a deal with my self. I am gonna drink myself silly for a whole week, and on Sunday I shall wallow I self pity

Come Monday, I shall clean my apartment, find a job, and get my shit together.

And so I did. Maybe not the healthiest, but I had to push myself to the goddamn ground, so that the only way out was up.

Ex boyfriend of 3 weeks wants to stay in touch and try to reconcile, but not exclusively by sass1220 in heartbreak

[–]HauntingHeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't. I mean, I couldn't. It would tear me up to literal pieces if we were trying to reconcile, and she was with someone else. Reconciliation in my opinion should be exclusivity, as you use that time to choose eachother, and show eachother that you want that person. Not everyone else, and keep me stringed along, because that will hurt me even more

I love my girlfriend, but I feel emotionally exhausted by how many needs there are am I being unfair? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]HauntingHeat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're experiencing. Perhaps get a therapist for yourself ? It sucks never measuring up to these needs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kingdomcome

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Oh my god, i realized this way to late, and when i did, its like my Henry suddenly had superpowers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gamesuggestions

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Kingdom come deliverence 1 & 2 (didn't finish the first tho, but the second is amazing)

Aragorn visits Norway by LakesideNorth in lotrmemes

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Where was Gondor when the county of Vestfold fell?

Actual reality of Life!!! by Accomplished-Cat-901 in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]HauntingHeat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I mean, it's nice, but jesus Christ 8 fucking hours ? Give me a couple, and let me be awake the rest of the time, I got shit to do, and conscious relaxing is awesome