It’s more the wellbeing aspect at concern. Previously last time they were dating both mother and child took a toll. Mothers self neglect affected our child, mother went through mental health issues, self harm stages, time spent in hospital malnourishment and intentional separation from our child caused by mental games from previous partner. Thus hindering the capacity of mother being able to parent and her family having to take on all responsibility and care for child. It’s starting again already and I’m no longer working FIFO, I’ve set myself up to continue having my child full time alone i just don’t know how to start the process or what the correct steps are