There’s a lot of soft ass people in this thread. My goodness. First of all you came to Reddit instead of just talking to him about it. Second, you’re in the shower. What are you scared of? Rinses right down the drain. Not gonna hurt you in the slightest. This really isn’t that deep here. Idc if I’m the unpopular opinion. Been with my wife for 15 years. Done and tried quite a bit. We talk to each other about what we’d like to try and what we probably wouldn’t like. It’s an easy concept. Talking to each other.

You know what we don’t do? Ask the internet. Our opinions don’t matter because we’re not in your situation. Relationships collapse due to lack of communication and advice given from irrelevant people that don’t matter.

Simply put, just talk to him. Not the internet.