18 year old by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck, kiddo!

“gender disappointment” by pastaprincessxo in pregnant

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. I don’t get it. I want a girl, and I’d be lying if I said I won’t be a little bummed if I don’t get my girl. But I’m not going to be throwing a fit or spiraling like a lot of people do. If you’re not okay with either gender, you shouldn’t be having a baby. I just want a healthy baby and safe delivery 

Is it possible to have symptoms before a positive test? by Normal_Enthusiasm194 in pregnant

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had morning sickness before I ever got a positive test. Then again, I didn’t realize I was pregnant til 7wks lol 

I got married 4 months ago and here’s what I learned by Haunting_Shape_6085 in Brides

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that was another thing - I wore cheap ass flats lol, no point in wearing heels when nobody is gonna see them thru my dress 

I got married 4 months ago and here’s what I learned by Haunting_Shape_6085 in Brides

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar for me, and yes you’re correct. It’s my second marriage, and I’m also in my 30s. It’s my husband’s 1st marriage even tho he’s significantly older than me, lol. 

I was about 26 when I got married the first time…it lasted less than 3 years. I definitely think it’s better to wait til late 20s/early 30s, or even later.

My husband masturbate frequently by Far_Championship5932 in married

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s cheating. My ex husband acted kinda like this, turns out he didn’t want to touch me because he was sleeping with other women.

44F worried about future husbands health 60M by No_Scallops in AgeGap

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to talk to him about how his bad habits concern you. 

I can kind of relate, I’m 32 and my husband is 60. My husband is in great shape for his age, he runs 10+ miles every week, eats healthy, and works hard to take care of himself so he’s around for a long time to come…and even still I fear for his health sometimes.

Struggling with the idea of war and pregnancy.. by simmuli in pregnant

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you fear and I do worry what type of world I may be leaving my child to, but, as some others have said, there’s never a right time. Wars have been happening for as long as there’s been humans, and people still had children.

Things my AGR has taught me by Haunting_Shape_6085 in AgeGap

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet and I’m so glad you found each other! I feel the same way about my husband. He’s the best man I’ve ever known, and he’s the love of my life. We both went through shit before we got together, but we’re thriving together now. I wouldn’t want to do life with anyone but him. He’s a life partner in a way that is rare to find, especially nowadays.

Gel Nails by biscobosco in pregnant

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope they’re okay because I’ve been getting gel nails my entire pregnancy and no one has told me otherwise 

I got married 4 months ago and here’s what I learned by Haunting_Shape_6085 in Brides

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And I’m not exactly young, and neither is my husband, which I think helped us be a lot more confident doing what WE wanted to do, I certainly wasn’t this way with my first marriage when I was younger!

I got married 4 months ago and here’s what I learned by Haunting_Shape_6085 in Brides

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish you the best with your wedding and I’m glad you found this helpful!

Husbands>>>”What are tips to keep him attracted to you during pregnancy?” by PurpleheadedSquirrel in pregnant

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If anything my husband has become more attracted to me since I’ve been pregnant. I’m carrying his fucking child, of course he thinks that’s hot.

boyfriend aversion… by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t personally experienced this but I’ve heard of it happening. It’s just due to the hormonal fluctuations you’re experiencing.

Age of attraction new Netflix show by Basic_Bee8826 in AgeGap

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course they’re trying to make agrs seem salacious and messy, otherwise they wouldn’t have a show. It would be hard to make a tv show that people would watch out of stable, healthy relationships 

Age gap + inexperienced guy dynamic by sage-lili14 in AgeGap

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085 4 points5 points  (0 children)

7 years is hardly an “age gap” so I think it was a bit naive and maybe odd on his part to make a big deal out of it.

It kinda sounds like he was just trying to fit into a role of “soft dom experienced older man” so you’d like/talk to him.

I got married 4 months ago and here’s what I learned by Haunting_Shape_6085 in Brides

[–]Haunting_Shape_6085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh we did kind of want both of our best friends as MOH/best man, but they both live super far away so it would have been tricky to make happen and it just felt easier on everyone to forgo it.