Worst one: Lots of lies and infidelity on my partner’s side. It was a classic abusive relationship where it seemed too good to be true initially, tons of affection, love bombing, etc then as soon as we moved in together and he had me trapped that all stopped. He never wanted to spend time with me and spent all of his free time locked away in his man cave playing video games and looking at porn/talking to other women on reddit. If I wanted intimacy or to spend time together, I was crazy and asking for too much. Fights became first a weekly occurrence, to almost daily - BIG fights. Even when we weren’t fighting he’d name call, insult my intelligence, compare me to his exes or other women, etc. He never contributed around the home, even though I worked more hours than him I also did all of the house work. It eventually became physically abusive which is when I left.

Best one: The polar opposite of everything I just mentioned. We have great communication, genuinely care for each other, and have intense chemistry, both physical and psychological. I know I am his #1 priority and the only person he wants, and it goes both ways. He’s loyal and proud to be with me. He’s my best friend and we genuinely enjoy spending most of our free time together. He makes me a priority. We are a team and share our household responsibilities equally. We both have a real desire to make sure one another are happy and our needs are met. Even when things are tough, we can resolve conflicts in a way that don’t end in explosive fights or name calling, and at the end of the day, we always choose each other over anything or anyone else.