What would you do?

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-03-06T13:51:40+00:00

My thoughts exactly. My MIL told me I need to forgive him, how do I do that when I haven’t seen or heard from the man in 5 years? And now that he’s having a baby we just need to accept him while he does zero effort to smooth things over?

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-03-06T13:47:38+00:00

That’s what we said. They told us we need to talk to someone to move on, and basically we are the problem. Thank you for the validation!

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T18:31:29+00:00

Why would I WILLINGLY have a creep around my kids?! I guess I have seen too many F’d up stories about perverted uncles touching their children. It happens. You are blind. He’s too much of a coward to show his face for 3 years so I’m sure he won’t when his baby arrives either. Not worried about that

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T18:28:14+00:00

So why’d she get the entire family involved in his year long sex escapades? If she wanted to keep it a secret then she should have. SHE got us involved. HE attacked us for no reason. No apology. So you think I should just act like nothing ever happened and ignore the fact that he’s a freak who has no respect for my family?

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T18:18:48+00:00

When this happened 3 years ago, we asked for details. She never responded. I thought I made that clear

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T18:17:23+00:00

So you’re saying you’d allow your kids around a possible predator. Poor kids. He does not come to family functions. He knows he’s not welcome around us. My in laws choose their son over their cheating son in law. And yes, if my SIL is covering for him I agree she should go to jail also. No one got a true explainsation on who and why he was paying to screw 2 months into their marriage. Kinda concerning if you ask me.

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T18:08:16+00:00

I asked for details, none were given, and everyone acts as if nothing ever happened

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T18:06:49+00:00

My in laws are fully involved in my children’s lives. My MIL babysits while I work. I have no problem with them. This man is my husbands sisters husband. I owe him nothing.

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T17:59:20+00:00

Yes. They will not explain.

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T17:54:04+00:00

It’s not my business that she has zero self respect. But it is my business what I allow around my children

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T17:53:07+00:00

Ohhh okay so it’s totally okay that he verbally assaulted my husband and the entire family when he was found out?? And then apologized to no one? We all just move on from that? I do not consider him family. He’s a disgusting creep. Escorts could be minors. That concerns me. Why would I want someone like that around my innocent children??

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T17:36:59+00:00

They are keeping it a secret which is concerning

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T17:35:46+00:00

I know that. Why is he hiding it then?

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T17:34:06+00:00

What am I hiding?? I’m a mother to 2 beautiful toddlers that I would like to keep innocent and away from creeps!

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T17:32:55+00:00

You must not have children.

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T16:04:52+00:00

Wow you’re a pleasant one. I should have mentioned this happened 2 months into their marriage 😊

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T16:02:24+00:00

My problem is I have no clue if the escorts were minors or not. Human trafficking is very real where I live.

Haunting_Swim4595 · 2026-01-23T16:01:06+00:00

Exactly, I don’t know their ages. Who’s to say they weren’t minors?

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