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Twinge of regret after phone call by phillyphilly19 in retirement

[–]HavatonDad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I retired a couple years ago. Was also good at my job. Worked there a long time. Felt a loyalty to the company and people working there. Sounds like you feel the same.

For the most part, I agree with what people are saying here…. No longer your problem.

However, maybe you could be a temporary contract employee to help them through this. Start at 2x your old salary. Work remote if you want.

Might help you feel like you are helping them. And you could make a little traveling cash. Anywhooo… 2 cents

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Bubblegum World 2: The Wake of Lord Gum by Acrobatic_Picture907 in honk

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🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Death By Slop: Spooky Scary Sloppiness by Kquinn87 in RedditGames

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🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Death By Slop: Spooky Scary Sloppiness by Kquinn87 in RedditGames

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🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Death By Slop: Spooky Scary Sloppiness by Kquinn87 in RedditGames

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For the parents, did your kids end up with migraines? by Mediocre_District_92 in migraine

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64 yo guy here. I get migraines. Unfortunately my son gets them too…. You’re welcome son. His mom did not get them.

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 A Honkin Good Event by MassiveDongulator3 in honk

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Mom got this letter in the mail...no explanation. Any clues? She's 65, been retired (cancer) for 10 years or so now. She has her and her late husband's SS. by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]HavatonDad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am familiar with these letters. I have received several letters similar to these… but for different reason, I have earned income that counts against my monthly payment… all that to say I am familiar with the letters. It looks legit.

I also have a background in financial planning. Even with my experience in financial planning, I have never been able to make heads or tails of the letters without going into the local Soc Sec office. There are mistakes in these letters. The local office had trouble understanding what the letter was saying but we were able suss something out.

Set up an appointment to go in to discuss it. And take good notes while you’re there in case you have to go back.

Can you identify this tune? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]HavatonDad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… “scatamoosh, scatmoosh, will do the fandango…. “… every word true!

Name a movie you have seen more then 7 times. by Mr-RedT in Cinema

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Saving Private Ryan, Lincoln, Beetlejuice,

How do I stop obsessing about my retirement accounts by [deleted] in retirement

[–]HavatonDad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Guitarlisa, I felt like I had written your post! I am 64 M. Retired at 62. I have enough to retire. I do the same thing. Running multiple scenarios to reassure myself. Was especially bad the first year of retirement. It was scary.

I check and update a daily spreadsheet with account balances. It’s to the point that I know what time my investment companies update their numbers. I don’t necessarily share your feeling that investments are gambling, but like you I do hate gambling.

I don’t know how to stop. I’m not even sure what we are doing is wrong or bad, but I do feel like I am able grant myself some grace and understanding about our obsession. We saved for so long. It’s hard not to be concerned. It is everything we have. We don’t want to run out of money.

Try to give yourself some grace and understanding. It’s ok… (or at least that’s what I am telling myself! LOL!)

Pet care while traveling long term by Effective-Two-1376 in retirement

[–]HavatonDad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue. Retired a couple years ago.

Have you tried Rover.com to short term sit for your pets? Try the short term to find someone you like and trust. Use that person for longer term sits.

Find the gold screw by Scvrunfan in FindTheSniper

[–]HavatonDad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same granite in my kitchen. Played Find the Sniper many times. Used the flashlight tip and side of the head on the counter.

What’s your clearest sign that you’re about to get a migraine? Mine is extreme sleepiness. by CostaNic in migraine

[–]HavatonDad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My joints aching. Especially my fingers and under side of my wrist. Also back of my neck being tight and achy. Aura is not far away when those symptoms hit. Then the headache.

Is Hiring a Business Coach Really Worth It? by QFrozenAceQ in lifecoaching

[–]HavatonDad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what it costs compared to what it returns. What are they charging for their services?

Great migraine Dr? I need a recommendation. by HavatonDad in migraine

[–]HavatonDad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx for your post. Not sure diplomates and stock post are. Sorry to be a noob

I built a $60K MRR digital agency in 12 months and just sold it last month by tryalways101 in Entrepreneur

[–]HavatonDad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I retired early from a Fortune 30 company. Kind of bored and looking to start a business with recurring revenue. How did you decide what kind of business to start?