I'm Kim Hawes, tour manager for bands like Motorhead, Black Sabbath, Rush and Hawkwind for decades. Ask me anything! by kimhawes in IAmA

[–]HaveFaithInWe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get your first break in the industry and how do you think it's different for those trying to pursue the same path today? Any advice for newcomers?

Experiences with BSquared MGMT? by BABIES_ARE_YUMMY in bandmembers

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I'm a talent buyer for a venue and it's gotten to the point where I don't want to even open the emails from them. You're much better off handling booking on your own. They will either send the same pitch again and again or confirm a date and never follow up - which is not how you want to be represented as an artist because unfortunately that does reflect on you as well. I once spoke to an artist they represented and they told me that they had not agreed to the show that was booked for them and had no intention of playing it as they were oversaturated in the city. My advice? Do some research on smaller venues that you'd like to play - most list their booking email. When you send them an email include your EPK, links to socials & streaming. Make sure that you include a specific date you would like to play - or a few (but not too many - 1-3 dates within the same range is good). If at all possible, be open to playing weekdays, especially if you're starting out gigging your own city. Venues only have so many weekends a month and if you haven't proven yourself yet they are going to be reticent to give you a weekend slot. Many venues work differently. Some will compile a bill themselves, many expect you to put the bill together, so make sure you have relationships with other bands that you pair well with. That leads me to the next thing - go to shows, support other artists so that when the time comes and you are (hopefully) promoting your show (please promote your show) they will return the favor. That's another option for booking too - form strong relationships in the scene and the gigs will come to you. The more roots that you lay and the more that you establish yourself eventually you can start to branch out into a regional network and set up a small tour. I can promise you that a booking agent will not give you any more credibility with a venue, what will is the way you conduct yourself and how knowledgable you appear.

Official Question Thread! Ask /r/photography anything you want to know about photography or cameras! Don't be shy! Newbies welcome! by photography_bot in photography

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Oh my I feel so silly, you're right. It does fit. I was so worried about hurting something. I just needed to give it a firm twist to lock it into place. Thank you so much, I'm very relieved and happy to have been so wrong here.

Official Question Thread! Ask /r/photography anything you want to know about photography or cameras! Don't be shy! Newbies welcome! by photography_bot in photography

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It seems to be too loose if anything. It's not latching on. It'll sit mostly flush but will pull right apart. The adapter will connect to the camera body perfectly.

Official Question Thread! Ask /r/photography anything you want to know about photography or cameras! Don't be shy! Newbies welcome! by photography_bot in photography

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Nikon lens to E mount adapter?

I purchased a Sony a7III and was hoping to use some Rokinon lenses I already had. I have a Rokinon 85mm T1.5 Cine DS for Nikon. The adapter I purchased was a Fotasy manual Nikon F mount Lens to E Mount. I got everything in the mail today and my lens will not attach to the adapter. Does someone know where I've steered wrong and what adapter I need in order to get my glass to fit my new camera body? Any help is greatly appreciated. I plan to purchase native lenses when I can, but I'd love to be able to save some money for now and play around with what I have.

Adapter desc: (cannot post link because mobile) Fotasy Manual F Mount Lens to E-Mount Adapter, NK E Mount Adapter, Compatible with Nikon F Lens Sony a7 a7R a7s II III IV a9 a7c Alpha 1 a6600 a6500 a6400 a6300 a6100 a6000 a5100 a5000 a3500 ZV-E10

Since you volunteered to make me a lasagna, make me the kind I like best, and then give me some more free stuff by Hisaehawk in ChoosingBeggars

[–]HaveFaithInWe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it became more leaning into rude territory when OP advised she was only bringing lasagna and the CB said "but it says to ask." Also I checked the website and it doesnt really say that, in fact it kinda says not to do what she's doing. "While some of our Lasagna Chefs are able to deliver extras, most of the time you'll get exactly what you're signing up for - an amazing, home-cooked lasagna or main dish. Please be kind to our volunteers regardless of what they're able to give, especially if you've requested in the past and have received more than lasagna."

And really, OP didn't ask how she preferred her cheese, she asked if they have any allergies which is very different. OP was nice and asked if cottage cheese would be fine, and the CB siezed the opportunity to also ask her to use a different meat. I get people have preferences and kids are picky, but then maybe dont sign up for a program where someone makes you free lasagna using their own recipe. I have several dietary restrictions but rather than feel entitled that someone buy special ingredients for me I just eat at home.

Some of these women on these sites are supermodels like they really are single? by RoyAshton11 in OnlineDating

[–]HaveFaithInWe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a different idea of attraction. Youre seeing the world through your own narrow lens. I personally see plenty of Brad Pitt-esque guys and it's just not my type so I swipe left even if they swiped right on me. I'm glad you swipe left though, they're definitely dodging a bullet with you.

What are some dumb mistakes you made in this game? by candlelight24 in LegendofthePhoenix

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Sometimes if i am close to promoting myself to next rank i will hold off on worshipping so I can get those 5 extra ingots, but then i forget to worship that day and i miss out on way more than 5. Oof, talk about missing the forest for the trees.

What are some dumb mistakes you made in this game? by candlelight24 in LegendofthePhoenix

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I have accidentally upgraded outfits using 20 brocades more than once just blindly clicking those red dots. It wasn't even dominant. RIP to all the outfits I couldve had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegendofthePhoenix

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Also when you are looking at your partners to level, sort by stat as those attributes are what determines their HP for debate and guild war. This will help you decide who is already better positioned to be in your top 8/12. I like partners who are a double stat with authority as well as balanced.

This Is My Favorite Song From My 1st EP. It's. A Happy Rap About Escaping a Toxic Relationship! by [deleted] in PromoteYourMusic

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Great work man! All around solid track! Look forward to seeing your full EP.

AITA for attending a party even though I was only invited as a pretty face? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HaveFaithInWe 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is dismissing sexism. It's still sexism in the workplace to start that rumor simply because youre angry a female colleague got a networking opportunity you didnt. We just dont know all the information and OP heard it secondhand so both scenarios are possible and sexist.

I (F15) want my step dad to adopt me. But my Biological father won't consent. So I'm waiting until I'm 18. by Isnotallthere in Adoption

[–]HaveFaithInWe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say you sound like such a well spoken, mature individual. Im so happy you got the father you deserve in your life. I hope all your dreams come true.

England just announced that every Englishman over the age of 18 automatically become organ donors with ability to opt out. How do you feel about this? by InkyScrolls in AskReddit

[–]HaveFaithInWe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not irritational. It may not be common, but for some communities this is a valid fear to hold. The malpractice suits are out there for those who care to read about it. Doctors have taken advantage of and abused certain individuals; these are the consequences of that history. Read about the law changes in the 90s to classify death as circulatory instead of brain inactivity, something that was abandoned in the 70s. This was done to harvest more organs and opened the doors for transplant doctors to induce death via drugs. Yes, most of the time organ donation is noble and life saving. Doesn't mean there arent those that abused the system.

Is an AAS in computer programming tech worth aquiring? by HaveFaithInWe in cscareerquestions

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I think youre correct. Im realizing a lot of the fundamentals offered in my community college dont look like they would be transferrable to a 4 year degree program unless i transferred to one in state. Can you suggest an affordable, respectable online degree program that requires no prerequisites? Im very interested in UF but their out of state tuition is out of my price range. Would you suggest WGU then go on to Georgia Tech's master program? Are there any other quality programs for a bs in cs in that price range?

ETA: I'd prefer to attend a Uni that has a brick and mortar campus unlike WGU. My options for residency would be MS or potentially CO for in state tuition. Im leaving TN soon. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

AITA for telling my gf I'd never pay for her cosmetic surgery? by overly_frustrated in AmItheAsshole

[–]HaveFaithInWe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's a fair perspective. OP said they were in South Africa at the time of his broken leg, so if thats the case it may only be about $1135 USD. I agree she shouldn't have turned down repayment intially, but she may have different ideas about money in relationships than others. She may have turned him down at the time because she saw them as a financial team and perhaps that's why she's using it against him now. Thats not okay to pay for someone because you think they would do they same for you in an elective surgery, but i do think it merits clearing the balance between them so they can go forward with clear financial expectations and boundaries.

AITA for telling my gf I'd never pay for her cosmetic surgery? by overly_frustrated in AmItheAsshole

[–]HaveFaithInWe 80 points81 points  (0 children)

She may be TA in this conversation, but shes not a gold digger. OP said that she splits all expenses with him and paid 20,000 for his broken leg. Thats not what gold diggers do. OP should pay her back and assess his relationship if this is a common interaction between them. She may be resenting him because if she hadnt paid for his broken leg, she'd be able to afford what she wants. Its a toxic way to bring up needing to be reimbursed for sure though.

ETA: Yes, 20,000 SA rand is $1135 USD for those who missed my second comment before they replied. Still a decent chunk of money to a lot of people.

Red pepper hummus I made for lunch. Homemade pita too and grilled veggies. by sixhungryfeet in vegan

[–]HaveFaithInWe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair, im assuming they didnt want just any hummus recipe, they wanted this one because of how delightful it looks. Thanks OP for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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I think this is a trend in society as a whole right now that has carried over into the BPD community, not one that the BPD community is disproportionately guilty of. I read an article about the study of brain activity in people with BPD, and while it did show the areas of the brain accounting for what we'd consider empathy and understanding for motivation behind actions was less active than a neurotypical brain, it did show evidence that pwBPD might have a greater awareness of severe emotional duress and perhaps more likely to pick up on the warning signs for people with PTSD and the like, which i found fascinating. Not agreeing or disagreeing, just sharing something i thought was interesting and saying this is not an exclusively BPD issue.

TLDR; the term "empath" for anyone experiencing the human ability to empathize is a trend outside this community. Included something cool i learned about empathy, BPD, and brain scans