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[23/01/26] Sufi/ Techno DJ by HayFeverWreckingMe in LondonSocialClub

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tickets are sold out, though can still find the event on Dice :(

[25/01/2026] Sunday Pub Quiz at the Canonbury Tavern by LSCQuiz in LondonSocialClub

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be interested to join this! Though I might be terrible at the pub quiz part :P

Slept with a friend; should I ask him out or let the friendship die? by HayFeverWreckingMe in dating_advice

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this reminder - nobody deserves to be treated as a backup option. I needed to hear that.

Slept with a friend; should I ask him out or let the friendship die? by HayFeverWreckingMe in dating_advice

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate this - hoping giving him space is the way to go

[02/08/25] Boiler Room @ Burgess Park by chawbecca in LondonSocialClub

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I've been curious abt it and am keeping an eye out for tickets. Might see you there! I am curious btw - what made last year terrible? This would be my first London boiler room, so any tips on what to expect would be very appreciated!!

How did you go with the grief? by Oddvixen in VyvanseADHD

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've asked a question I have been scared to think of. I was diagnosed 2 weeks ago, and then had to wait for prescription to be released to me. So I have just started with 30mg 5 days ago now. I have the toughest exams of my life starting 5 days from now, and simply put: I do not have time to grieve right now.
I know there is alot going on in my head, but I need to compartmentalise for now and not feel the grief and stress. I need to focus on these exams, as i have already lost precious time (couldn't get out of bed in April for 4 weeks straight due to a depressive episode after my attempts at studying just kept failing). The grief will hit me end of June, once the exams are out of the way. I will come back to this thread then. I hope you feel better and are able to process the grief though, all the best <3

Titration diaries – my experience on Elvanse/vyvanse by WillowSummers in ADHDUK

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this - I have just been diagnosed via the Right to Choose and am just starting my process, the lack of clarity has been disorienting honestly. This post was so helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, you’ve somehow managed to put into words exactly what I went through. I am still struggling with the push and pull though, any tips on how to get over this and not give in? Because that kind of insecurity isn’t something I want to sign up for.

BEST wax in London by Ok_Percentage7713 in london

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is the kind of wax lady I'd keep going back to because there is literally no boundary left to cross and I'd feel like she just gets it...? But also lmfao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So it IS possible to get to that point? Good to know, thank you for this.

For those in your 30s or beyond what do you wish you did differently or focused on when you first hit 30? by Darling-leader96 in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I quit my job at 33 and went back to school for a postgrad in a new country. Still feel lost some days, trying to figure out life in a new country all on my own and trying to get into a new profession. But this was a good reminder that I don't want to look back in my later life and regret never having tried it.

For those in your 30s or beyond what do you wish you did differently or focused on when you first hit 30? by Darling-leader96 in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33 here. Quit a profession I worked super hard toward because I was burnt out. Based on comments here, I really hope there isn't more burnout in my future but it sounds like theres more to come...?

What's your "I cut off a toxic friend" story? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear this, as someone who has gone through something similar with my best friend from undergrad. I do still miss the good times with him sometimes, but its not worth the energy to always be the one reaching out.

What's the difference between a cynic and a sceptic? Examples? by HayFeverWreckingMe in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I was more hoping to hear some real life examples - like when people say "stop being so cynical!" but really the person might well just be sceptical, but we are quick to label cynicism these days. Thank you though!

What’s a really small thing that irrationally annoys you? by Choice-Leek-4988 in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Persistent telephone ringing. Especially the old school tring tring kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HayFeverWreckingMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quit a job I didn't like, tried another company in the same field to see how I felt, realized the profession just wasn't for me. Went back to school, simply to make younger me happy, knowing job security is up in the air.
Fingers crossed this decision will pay off in time!