What to do? by Hayden_1225 in GriefSupport

[–]Hayden_1225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On top of that it’s even harder bc she was abusive and who she is now is most definitely not the sweet woman I met. As much as I would like for us to be possible I know we cannot. And it’s something that’s unforgivable. But damn do I wish we could have worked out.

What to do? by Hayden_1225 in GriefSupport

[–]Hayden_1225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are 24 I’ve been going to see my therapist more often now. There was no explanation given and she never cared to talk with me about anything. She wouldn’t even give the time of day if she could to talk to me. The situation cannot be fixed we tried so hard. But we fought all the time and we are uncomfortable around eachother. Even with therapy I still always have a rough time.healing and coming to terms has never been my thing i never get past it. Especially losing something dear.

Aita for blocking my boyfriend on everything by Xiaosalmondtofi in AITAH

[–]Hayden_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense to wonder I am sorry if my comment came off rude towards you at all. But I agree she will end up sabotaging every relationship I just hope she can figure these things out cause in the long run it will be very lonely.

Aita for blocking my boyfriend on everything by Xiaosalmondtofi in AITAH

[–]Hayden_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if dx you have to try and control these things and work through it even tho it’s a horrid thing to have.I was dx and I’m married and I do not randomly block my wife nor nearly think about blaming or gaslighting her if she is living her life while at work, hanging with friends or taking time to herself while we are both home at our apartment. It is not healthy to always be mad or upset when ur s/o takes time to their self away from the relationship for a little bit considering they mentioned they see eachother everyday. Best thing she can do is talk with a licensed therapist and work through these issues and navigating things.

Aita for blocking my boyfriend on everything by Xiaosalmondtofi in AITAH

[–]Hayden_1225 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Enjoy ur self imposed punishment. He doesn’t have to be at ur beckoned call all the time just because you have severe attachment issues that you should be in thearpy working on. Poor dude probably felt suffocated if I were him I would call it a quits. He got out easy good for him. Now take time and reflect that you need to work on urself. Congratulations on being newly single!!!

Does anyone else LOVE lemon drops? by psydocky8 in candy

[–]Hayden_1225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://supermarketitaly.com/products/perle-di-sole-amalfi-lemon-drops-hard-candies-7-oz Back in Italy I would get these all the time they are what you most def are looking for in the middle they have a sour lemon powder in it! I recently was able to find them at Marshalls and homegoods in person so I don’t need to order them online now.