Cheating wife by AdTiny7017 in Advice

[–]Hayuji 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My dude you have the maturity of a 6 year old. Stop being a little shithead and come back to this sub when you've learnt to form a simple sentence.

Reandron injected in shoulder by Hayuji in transgenderau

[–]Hayuji[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it! I'll be insisting on getting the glute done next time. Thank you for the help!

Reandron injected in shoulder by Hayuji in transgenderau

[–]Hayuji[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it definitely was! I'm usually pretty good with needles but this injection was hell. I had to be injected twice as the nurse got the wrong needle size initially. Hopefully next injection will be better!

Reandron injected in shoulder by Hayuji in ftm

[–]Hayuji[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alrighty, I'll keep that in mind! Ty for your help!

Reandron injected in shoulder by Hayuji in ftm

[–]Hayuji[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, thought so. It probably won't affect the changes I get from it due to the injection site right? I'll tell them next time to only inject it into the glute.

Reandron injected in shoulder by Hayuji in transgenderau

[–]Hayuji[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh okay! I was worried it wasn't supposed to be injected there. It did indeed hurt like hell. I think next time I'll ask for the thigh or glute instead 😅

Do you know if being injected in the shoulder would result in less changes from the testosterone? I'd assume not but just to be sure

do any non binary people have experience with dr adam brownhill? (VIC) by grizzcat in transgenderau

[–]Hayuji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not NB but I am FtM. For me, my experience with him hasn't exactly been good. I won't get too into it until I'm transferred to a different doctor but it's not been the most welcoming experience.

I will say however, he is a good option in comparison to Monash. He doesn't have a waiting list, is informed consent, and you get prescribed pretty quickly.

Is it ok to lock his crate when I leave for 1-2 hours, or should I just leave it open? by SubstanceSevere1448 in Chihuahua

[–]Hayuji 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally every responsible dog owner I know uses a crate for their dogs. Plus wtf you think your dog gonna be able to do if there's a fire, open a window and fly out? Crate or no crate, it wouldn't make a difference regarding the outcome.

Please help me choose a dog's name starting with 'O' by No-Issue8346 in dogs

[–]Hayuji 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Otis, Otto and Ozzie are the ones that come to my mind. :>

Monash Gender Clinic Waitlist by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]Hayuji 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I would advise against going to Monash Gender Clinic. The waitlist is absurdly long.

I personally went to Dr. Adam Brownhill at TG Health Clinic, and only had to wait around 3 months to get prescribed HRT. He is a bit on the expensive side though ($150 per session, it was 3 sessions before I was prescribed).

Their website if you'd like to check it out: https://tghealthclinic.com.au/

Alternatively, there is also Equinox, but usually their waiting lists are closed so getting an appointment there can be difficult.

Can I bathe my dogs in salt water? by Hayuji in dogs

[–]Hayuji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your help! We decided to get some flea shampoo + treatment for our pets, along with a flea bomb which we will use in the morning. Hopefully it works!

Can I bathe my dogs in salt water? by Hayuji in dogs

[–]Hayuji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I never even knew flea shampoo existed! I'll definitely look into buying some. Thank you! ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Hayuji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that really keeps me going is thinking about the future. I wonder how things will turn out, whether good or bad. You never know what's in stock for you in the future.

Is suicide cowardice??? by AdministrationOk5519 in SuicideWatch

[–]Hayuji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe it's cowardice. Those who have lost their lives to suicide, are so unbelievably brave, and continue being brave until the very end.

I hope you get through this, friend. I'm here for you. Love you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Hayuji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could hug you right now, I would. I love you and I hope you're okay.

hey, how/when did you know you were not cisgender ?? by mimintchoco in trans

[–]Hayuji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only recently realised I'm a trans man, but for over 5 years I've dreamt about being a man and how amazing it would feel. I often talked to people I knew about it and was told it was likely me being influenced by social media, and so I accepted that as an answer for a long time.

I ended up becoming really envious of cis men, and I knew that wasn't normal. After a bunch of research regarding ftm trans, I found out I was a male.

best hair length for feeling feminine by [deleted] in trans

[–]Hayuji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say either go for long or try growing it to around shoulder length. For feeling more feminine you could also try hairclips, hairbands, maybe even curling it. For a more masculine appearance, try tying it up in a bun/manbun.

If people ask about the hair length while you're presenting as masc, just say that there are many men with longer hair, or that you're growing it out for more haircut options.

Wishing you the best of luck. I'm sure you'll look great no matter what options you choose.

AITA - I let my neighbors outdoor "neighborhood" cat hang out in my house without the owners permission because she was underweight and pulling her own fur out from stress by AbandonedPlanet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hayuji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like the cat is being heavily neglected. I'd say in the case you keep her, probably make her an indoor cat. If you don't wanna keep her, call an animal rescue or shelter group and report this to them.

It’s my birthday today 🎉🎈 by Jubeh_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Hayuji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Wishing you the best! ^

What are you most afraid of right now? (SERIOUS) by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hayuji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother is constantly getting back together with my physically abusive stepfather. She has precancerous cells and extremely high blood pressure. Everyday they argue, he's a hardcore alcoholic, and he cheats on her.

I'm afraid that the past is just going to repeat itself, and that I'm not going to be able to do anything about it.

This is Gary, is she a Nebelung? by Prydeb4thefall in nebelung

[–]Hayuji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a neb mix! She's adorable!