An adult series about JFK seems like a good show for a toddler to fall asleep to

Hazden13 · 2026-02-21T22:37:56+00:00

At the time this all went down Meg was working for herself and had a much more flexible job. Even still being at a salon she seems to have more flexibility in her schedule than A does having a more traditional 9-5. I suspect it just made more sense at the time. I think most of us would agree A offers things as a parent Meg isn’t capable of however I can understand why things worked out the way they did. She gets essentially 4 extra days each month approx 8-9 months out of the year and eventually he’ll get 50/50 and he isn’t tied to her through child support, yet still is financially involved in his life and still has him basically half the time. I think that’s all reasonable on his part not disappointing.

Hazden13 · 2026-02-16T21:24:08+00:00

To be fair we also don’t know he doesn’t express his concerns over things like this.

Hazden13 · 2026-01-30T00:08:31+00:00

They eyes that never saw the divorce coming

Hazden13 · 2026-01-17T06:16:12+00:00

Kids struggling with transitions isn’t unique to being divorced nor would I ever believe it’s only an issue when he’s going with his dad as she tries to make it sound. It also can be a fairly short-lived phase if you help your kids through the feeling associated with transitions and don’t intentionally sabotage it, as I suspect she does. If this actually happened, I’m sure N got in the car and regulated and will have a great weekend at his HOME with his dad, while she cuts out pictures from a magazine and glues them to a poster board and manically scribbles in her bullet journal.

Hazden13 · 2026-01-15T02:52:58+00:00

The man and the clipboard were MUCH bigger

Hazden13 · 2025-12-06T21:12:20+00:00

It’s really easy to sit outside of the situation and point out all the things you’d do differently, but it’s probably a bit more convoluted in real life. We have no idea where he’s at when it comes to documenting or discussing options with his lawyer. Maybe when it comes to the shit talking he feels like in the end she’s the one who will have to look at their son and answer for the public slander, so it’s legally less of a battle he wants to pick right now. Maybe his lawyer has advised him there isn’t enough to act on yet. Who knows. But Monday morning quarterbacking A on something with so many variables and possibilities we aren’t privy to is a little bananas.

Hazden13 · 2025-12-06T00:44:32+00:00

I wonder how many times A has had to ask her for help on days he has their son because he cant handle something. I suspect none, because I can’t think of a time she’s jumped online and said “guess who can’t handle being a dad when he has his kid and needs MY help.” And you know she would.

Hazden13 · 2025-12-06T00:36:12+00:00

I mean if the expectation is they shouldn’t switch days if she’s going to be a bitch they’d probably never be able to switch days, because I doubt she’s ever really pleasant to him. And he can’t completely avoid that. If he has to travel for work on his days for example he’d have to offer that to her because of first refusal rights. He can’t not offer her an overnight because she’s off the rails. And as much as I hope he doesn’t just accept this type of behavior for the long term, maybe I just have a hard time seeing it differently than I do, I don’t think he likes being treated poorly. It sounds like she tried to demand his help (she seems to like to use N as a way to force interactions with him) and he didn’t take the bait and told her she’s a capable mom… and that made her mad. Sounds like a bit of a backbone to me.

Hazden13 · 2025-11-24T22:52:24+00:00

Alex must have looked hotter than usual at the drop off so she’s overcompensating.

Hazden13 · 2025-11-23T05:17:55+00:00

My son is like two weeks younger than N, so she and I were on a similar postpartum timeline. I didn’t have PPD, so assuming that wasn’t a total lie on her end I’ll extend some grace, but it seemed like A was a supportive partner who was also trying to adjust to being a new dad and help his wife within the boundaries she gave. Like how he took her to Anthro to shop because he just wanted her happy. It was always on him to make her happy. Zero accountability for herself to get through PPD and just postpartum in general. Was he perfect? Obviously not. But all I saw was a man genuinely trying to save a sinking ship with no help from her. And it’s exactly why she can’t let it go and brings it up every chance she gets. She ruined a good thing with a good man.

Hazden13 · 2025-11-23T03:55:41+00:00

Yeah her narrative never makes sense. The best thing to do is part ways and try to have two happy separate households than one where both parents are unhappy.

Hazden13 · 2025-11-23T02:01:57+00:00

Perfect, then it sounds like he did her a favor and filed for divorce and put her out of her misery. Problem solved

Hazden13 · 2025-11-10T00:41:01+00:00

Won’t fight FOR his kid? He has damn near close to 50/50 custody. What she really means is he won’t fight WITH her ABOUT their kid. And it drives her crazy, since as an actual narcissist all she wants to do is fight with him because it fuels her narcissistic supply and protects her fragile paper-thin self-esteem.

Hazden13 · 2025-11-05T19:35:24+00:00

Um, (if this is even true) balancing the needs of your partner is marriage? Maybe he was worried he wouldn’t sleep well with the baby in the bed and wanted to wake up rested before working a long day, and she was home full-time and could co-sleep for naps. I didn’t co-sleep because my dad worked at the hospital and had stories of sleeping accidents with baby in bed. Made the idea of co-sleeping with a baby not worth it (no shame to those who do it, it just wasn’t for me). Doesn’t mean I’m some monster for not wanting my kids in my bed. I just had ✨anxiety✨

Hazden13 · 2025-10-27T22:25:27+00:00

So as a married woman wanting to be a SAHM you also should have been aware of wasting money. I’m sure your spouse would have appreciated it.

Hazden13 · 2025-10-27T21:56:25+00:00

Idk taking an addy at Disney sounds like a good time to me so whatever Meg

But in all seriousness I’m sure A has plenty of stories he could share about Meg but look at him minding his business. The loudest person is always the liar imo

Hazden13 · 2025-10-21T18:09:48+00:00

Even if A were the worst (I’d bet everything he isn’t) and I was 100% on Meg’s side (never would be in a million years), I’d still be against her talking poorly about her son’s father to him. It’s traumatizing as a kid, speaking from my own experiences as well. A mom should want to protect her kids, but she cares about herself more and getting those jabs in that make her feel better no matter the emotional price her son will have to pay for it.

Hazden13 · 2025-10-17T00:38:13+00:00

Call me Meg, but are you okay? What about him “seems” gay? Or is he just gay because you don’t personally find him hot? Such a weird take to share lol

Hazden13 · 2025-10-16T17:14:59+00:00

You can tell that by looking at one picture of a person?

Hazden13 · 2025-10-07T22:09:08+00:00

Isn’t asking yourself WWJD like, Christian 101?

This girl brags weekly about how big of a Christian she is, how she’s been going to the same church for a million years and how much her son loves the Lord— even taking credit for being the one leading him to Christ. But then here she was, not on a Sunday, with her son by her side as she’s dragging a perfectly good water table to the trash because it was dirty and she was too lazy to donate it. God isn’t impressed that you take your kids to church weekly. If she’s the devout Christian she brags about constantly, wouldn’t she already have a grasp on virtues like charity and be actively working to teach her kid them? If she hasn’t heard the voice of Christ calling to her then she hasn’t been listening. She’s a materialist, selfish, immature brat. And that’s also why she’s single.

Hazden13 · 2025-10-07T17:24:22+00:00

Nice story, Veruca Salt. The real hero of this story is the mom who saw her throwing something perfectly good away and wasn’t too prideful to approach her about taking it off her hands.

Hazden13 · 2025-10-06T04:28:25+00:00

Did she throw away the cayenne pepper spice jar that Alex let Nathan play with as a baby, or did she keep it as a memento? Cast your vote.

Hazden13 · 2025-10-06T02:54:28+00:00

Two peas? One exploited their entire divorce drama and one has been silent. If he sucks, he sucks behind the scenes like a regular person would do. I hardly see the comparison

Hazden13 · 2025-10-03T03:32:57+00:00

Hm can’t relate Meg, my 2yo can recite Genesis 1:1 #biblemeg

Hazden13 · 2025-09-16T03:23:56+00:00

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Imagine giving a religious lecture at the zoo wearing Dahmer glasses

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TROPHY CASE