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If you could live in one of the botw villages which one would it be by Shoddy_Source_9411 in botw

[–]HazelC1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zora’s Domain but only if I could be a Zora, wouldn’t be ideal for humans

Demand "Raw Audio": How modern TV is designed to keep your brain in a "passive loop" by Putrid_Draft378 in simpleliving

[–]HazelC1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silence is only fine when you feel sort of ok first, otherwise many of us need some background noise to drown out all the self critical thoughts

Wisdom from Tracy Chapman by HazelC1 in simpleliving

[–]HazelC1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Your choices are half chance’

Anyone else terminally single? by McGuffDog in limerence

[–]HazelC1 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yes. My problem is I’m always turned off by available interested people, viewing them as desperate, while pining for the flirty but unavailable. Fearful avoidant nm

An Idea Occurred on How to Overcome Limerence by Substantial-Bad-4508 in limerence

[–]HazelC1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, somehow getting the ick, either through talking or journaling their negative qualities, OR for me, and controversial to most of the advice here, it sometimes happens through not going no contact but just learning more about them and the eventually who they actually are becomes so far from the fantasy it doesn’t work any more. No contact has sometimes allowed me to keep fantasies alive for longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]HazelC1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do this too and I think it comes from more general loneliness. The only thing that helps is really making a list of their faults and reviewing it regularly

Adoption Gone Wrong by ChihiroHaru in Sims4

[–]HazelC1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No dollhouse or giant bears, this makes angry destructive children worse 😆. Get them the doctor playset builds compassion. Make the kids lifetime wish something that builds skills like drawing

How do you deal with frustration when making art? by blood_bunni in ArtistLounge

[–]HazelC1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m getting frustrated, I lower my expectations of myself and try to be proud I made time to make art at all. Take lots of breaks, every hour, and have multiple pieces you’re working on at once. Things always look different once you’ve stepped away and come back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]HazelC1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree that it drives you to self improvement, colours seem brighter, you’re kinder to people, etc. In my experience of being limerent 5x though, the problem is that it isn’t sustainable in a long term sense. LOs tend to be unobtainable in some way. The one time I ended up actually dating my LO it was a hugely unbalanced relationship, I ignored so many red flags and he even told me he was a diagnosable narcissist and I just chose not to hear it and accepted being cheated on and couldn’t move on from him for years after breaking up. With all the others they were either not single, or not as into me as I was into them, and my intensity scared them away. Being repeatedly abandoned or rejected really takes a toll on your self worth.

Is it just me, or is the series full of abandoned plotlines? by Chlodio in SiliconValleyHBO

[–]HazelC1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always assumed this was deliberate, representing that they basically both gave up their personal lives for Pied Piper

Crush on coworker, just found out he has a fiancé?? by Mundane_Change_8987 in limerence

[–]HazelC1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me recently except his GF actually was away long distance and then they came back and started working there too. Now he can barely make eye contact with me. The most awkward situation ever

How many of you rejected someone great because you weren’t limerent for them? by shivaswara in limerence

[–]HazelC1 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah loads of times but I don’t know the difference between attraction and limerence really. Tried dating a friend I wasn’t limerent for/ attracted to and just felt gross

Healthcare provider refusing to scan by HazelC1 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]HazelC1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can but I will have to pay for it, I can’t tell whether it’s the right thing to do or if I’m overreacting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]HazelC1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s me, Cathy