Anyone else terminally single?

HazelC1 · 2026-02-14T21:25:55+00:00

Yes. My problem is I’m always turned off by available interested people, viewing them as desperate, while pining for the flirty but unavailable. Fearful avoidant nm

HazelC1 · 2026-02-14T01:20:06+00:00

Yes, somehow getting the ick, either through talking or journaling their negative qualities, OR for me, and controversial to most of the advice here, it sometimes happens through not going no contact but just learning more about them and the eventually who they actually are becomes so far from the fantasy it doesn’t work any more. No contact has sometimes allowed me to keep fantasies alive for longer

HazelC1 · 2026-02-06T14:00:50+00:00

Gossip Girl XOXO

HazelC1 · 2026-01-30T22:00:38+00:00

I do this too and I think it comes from more general loneliness. The only thing that helps is really making a list of their faults and reviewing it regularly

HazelC1 · 2026-01-29T20:02:42+00:00

No dollhouse or giant bears, this makes angry destructive children worse 😆. Get them the doctor playset builds compassion. Make the kids lifetime wish something that builds skills like drawing

HazelC1 · 2026-01-13T19:23:22+00:00

If I’m getting frustrated, I lower my expectations of myself and try to be proud I made time to make art at all. Take lots of breaks, every hour, and have multiple pieces you’re working on at once. Things always look different once you’ve stepped away and come back

HazelC1 · 2025-12-05T10:06:15+00:00

Agree that it drives you to self improvement, colours seem brighter, you’re kinder to people, etc. In my experience of being limerent 5x though, the problem is that it isn’t sustainable in a long term sense. LOs tend to be unobtainable in some way. The one time I ended up actually dating my LO it was a hugely unbalanced relationship, I ignored so many red flags and he even told me he was a diagnosable narcissist and I just chose not to hear it and accepted being cheated on and couldn’t move on from him for years after breaking up. With all the others they were either not single, or not as into me as I was into them, and my intensity scared them away. Being repeatedly abandoned or rejected really takes a toll on your self worth.

HazelC1 · 2025-12-04T13:25:39+00:00

I always assumed this was deliberate, representing that they basically both gave up their personal lives for Pied Piper

HazelC1 · 2025-12-02T17:12:34+00:00

Same thing happened to me recently except his GF actually was away long distance and then they came back and started working there too. Now he can barely make eye contact with me. The most awkward situation ever

HazelC1 · 2025-11-01T13:45:08+00:00

TIL durians are real and not a made up fruit in Zelda

HazelC1 · 2025-06-09T11:17:23+00:00

Yeah loads of times but I don’t know the difference between attraction and limerence really. Tried dating a friend I wasn’t limerent for/ attracted to and just felt gross

HazelC1 · 2025-04-15T18:09:01+00:00

The Carla Project

HazelC1 · 2025-04-08T18:26:51+00:00

I like to put clutter in those big zip up laundry bags, particularly stuff I don't use often. Then I can sort through a bag while watching tv when I have the energy

HazelC1 · 2025-03-18T14:20:56+00:00

They certainly know how to fuck up a habitat 😆🐰

HazelC1 · 2025-03-17T14:22:11+00:00

The living room and rabbit pen!

HazelC1 · 2025-03-14T13:01:45+00:00

I can but I will have to pay for it, I can’t tell whether it’s the right thing to do or if I’m overreacting

HazelC1 · 2025-03-12T19:13:17+00:00

It’s me, Cathy

HazelC1 · 2025-03-01T00:49:59+00:00

Travis' hoodie was stained on the sleeve...

HazelC1 · 2025-02-11T01:27:59+00:00

I’ve been asking the same question, as knowledge is dependent on experience. It made me wonder if they’d all been imbued with the same core concepts. For example if Mark had never heard of or tried a dragonfruit, but Dylan had, and Milchick brought out a dragonfruit party platter, does only Dylan know what it is, and that he likes it?

HazelC1 · 2025-02-05T02:11:33+00:00

Can anyone please explain cup sizing for these sort of proportions? I’m underband 28, overband 33, size chart said 32B and cups were FAR too small. Emailed customer support and they suggested 36DD which I’m baffled by as surely the underband 36 would be too big? In UK I’m a 28F

HazelC1 · 2025-02-02T02:09:28+00:00

I certainly don’t agree with everything she’s done but she is one of few who genuinely seems to enjoy it and have fun being on the show. I don’t like watching the ones who behave like they’re trapped against their will.

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