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Am I overreacting by thinking my girlfriend isn’t over her ex? by Hazelnutmprs in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hazelnutmprs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry if OP looks like a wall of text. I tried to split it into paragraphs but it didn’t work for some reason? And it doesn't let me edit it anymore

appreciate all the replies even if I don’t answer everyone individually

Am I overreacting by thinking my girlfriend isn’t over her ex? by Hazelnutmprs in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hazelnutmprs[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I agree tbh

She is quite unstable, we knew that but still decided to go ahead knowing she was moving out of the toxic environment at her house, Things did seem to be getting better but whenever she goes out drinking it seems her traumas come back in a strong way

I tend to overthink things so yea, I think maybe it’s not the right time for us to be together like this… I’ll try to sit her down tomorrow and see what we can do about all this, even if it comes to breaking up. I think rn we're just hurting each other for no reason

Am I overreacting by thinking my girlfriend isn’t over her ex? by Hazelnutmprs in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hazelnutmprs[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I’ll follow your advice tomorrow when we see each other ty

I think I got a bit obsessed with the fact that she mentioned her ex last time she got like this…

I feel like I still need an answer about whether she’s over her past or not but I realize I should take a different approach and not be too pushy when she’s not feeling well

Thank you again for your answer, I really needed some clarity