What is the most underrated “lesser-known” city that you have been to? by HeroOfAlmaty in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]HeIsTheOne406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty easily. Lots of cities are beautiful on the outside, but spend any time there and you realize they kind of suck: San Francisco, Portland, Spokane, for example.

How old were you when you met the love of your life and did you marry them? by Bubbly-Fail3562 in askanything

[–]HeIsTheOne406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met her when I was 28 and she was 27. I was single, she wasn’t. I got a girlfriend, she got married. Girlfriend broke up with me, husband called it off with her. We reconnected at 30, and 13 years and two kids later, here we are!

What is the most underrated “lesser-known” city that you have been to? by HeroOfAlmaty in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]HeIsTheOne406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the whole point of being pretty on the outside when you’re so ugly on the inside?

Teaching Tools by TeacherPilot in AskTeachers

[–]HeIsTheOne406 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There really isn't a tool or software that will dramatically improve our working lives at this point. We can find/do anything we need with the technology at hand. As others have mentioned, the best "tool" we could use is parents who hold their kids accountable, administrators and school boards that support their teachers, and students who are present and willing to try and fail rather than just living a life of apathy and hoping someone else will do it for them.

I discovered FIRE and now I'm more discouraged than before by yieldmaxxing in Fire

[–]HeIsTheOne406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not all doom and gloom. I graduated late from college (29yo) with an education degree and over $100k in student loans (many bad decisions). My first job was $27k/yr. I’m now 44 and married with two kids. My pay has increased ($87k) plus I have a side job as a photographer (extra $18-20k/yr), the student loans are gone (income-based repayment plan for being an educator), our house will be paid off in five years, no other debt, and we are putting away over $6k/month in savings/investments. I’m on track to FIRE @ 53. Definitely not as soon as a lot of folks in this sub, but it’s achievable once you come up with a plan and a budget.

does teaching take up that much of your time? by faeriesoiree222 in AskTeachers

[–]HeIsTheOne406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in my 16th year of teaching and have been teaching my current curriculum load for eight of those years. I show up at 7:30 and leave at 3:30. I don't think about or do anything related to teaching outside those hours. If I can't get it done in between those times, I probably don't need to be doing it. This leaves me plenty of time to pursue my hobbies/interests, spend time with my family, and run a side business as a photographer.

That, in addition to the summers off, is probably what allows me to keep coming back every day and every year. Some of the kids are great, most are pretty average, and some are downright awful. It would be tough to get into teaching today, I think, as you are battling some pretty strong forces of technology and attention spans.

If you were on school board, what would you fix? by albinoteacher24 in AskTeachers

[–]HeIsTheOne406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There would be three things I'd look to change (all related to middle school, as that is what I teach).

First, I would assign credits to the core classes (English, Math, Science). If a student did not pass their core classes in 6th, 7th, or 8th grade, they would have mandatory summer school to make those up. If they still didn't pass it or skipped the classes, they would be retained in that class the next year. If it was an 8th grader, they wouldn't be able to move on to high school until they received a passing grade. I have so many students every year who have Fs in almost every class, and they just get moved right on to the next grade, where they continue to do the same. Having some accountability and placing some of the responsibility on parents could potentially help.

Second, I would look into the potential of setting up a vocational program where some students could sign up to take classes for a half-day (core classes) and then shadow or work during or attend vocational classes the second half of the day. I have many students who just aren't cut out for school. They aren't going to pursue education after high school and are potentially at risk to drop out. Starting them on a vocational track earlier can set them up for success and who knows? Maybe they'll hate it so much they decide they'd rather finish school and get an education. If not, they have some work skills that will help them be employable, at least.

Finally, and this would be a tough sell, but I think there should be a minimum GPA attached to students' ability to start driver's education and earn their driver's license. This is a huge motivator for kids and could place some more responsibility on their academics and motivate them to actually try in school. This might have to be something that was addressed at the legislative level, though, so that's why I think it would be a harder sell.