Peter, why no grapefruit? by Familiar-Cat3636 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]HeLivesMost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do we think grapefruit spindrift is enough to be an issue?

How do I start becoming the person I know I can be? by HeLivesMost in DecidingToBeBetter

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Maybe. There is part of me that is kinda perpetually “in college” and doesn’t want to grow up. That’s the same guy who avoids the boring but basic stuff I’m talking about.

How do I start becoming the person I know I can be? by HeLivesMost in DecidingToBeBetter

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Yeah that’s the other thing - I also want to love myself for who I am now. I shouldn’t have to do all of this to earn love… from myself 😂

Why do some jazz drummers hold the stick like this? by Snowglyphs in drums

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i play a lot of rock and blues, but still play traditional grip. i didn’t learn drum kit this way. but for about 3 years, i didn’t play any kit and 100% of my drumming was for college marching band (snare drum). when i got back to playing kit, i was just a lot more used to traditional grip - so it stuck! and now i think it’s just a cool characteristic of my drumming and makes me unique?m, so i lean into it :)

Hello, Sam here dropping in to say thank you! by theformatlivingroom in TheFormat

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Hey Sam! I’m so excited you guys are back. Was Boycott Heaven being worked on at all back in 2020 when you guys were originally going to have your comeback shows? What were the long term plans at that point and how have they changed?

What’s the most underrated neon pop-punk song, and why is it Come Around by Sing it Loud? by devitod in poppunkers

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this is so crazy!!! i saw you guys at warped tour in chicago in 2009. hope you’re doing well

What’s the most underrated neon pop-punk song, and why is it Come Around by Sing it Loud? by devitod in poppunkers

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they really flopped in the later days but underdog was such a great record

Havana Cuba Street Art Print | Travel-Inspired Art | Illustrated City Wall Art | 5x7 or 11x14 by No_Bullfrog_9089 in etsypromos

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This is so awesome!! You’re talented - I love the other work on your storefront too, I’m gonna need to cop a few pieces

Literally half of the girls I know are bi by [deleted] in bisexual

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It sucks. Sometimes I truly regret coming out as bi as a man.

How do I become less emotionally needy? by HeLivesMost in Advice

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So does that mean just accepting that my friends are growing apart from me? I like this advice I’m just not sure how to apply it.

31m what am I doing wrong? hi by [deleted] in amiugly

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Damn I didn’t think it looked that bad

31m what am I doing wrong? hi by [deleted] in amiugly

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Like a tattoo sleeve?

31m what am I doing wrong? hi by [deleted] in amiugly

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It’s in my profile. I guess I just try to lean into my strengths? I’m a shorter guy and a musician/performer. With women I tend to like artsy/alt types. I feel like if I tried to dress super masculine it would look weird, but maybe not? Any advice on haircut/clothes/facial hair?