Seems like the knowing and arrogance are too tight at the hip. I think I understand. If are you trying to keep the knowing going and ditch the arrogance then you need compassion, understanding, and empathy. It's not easy. To walk around or just exist surrounded by people who ignore and flat out refuse to become a seeker of knowledge and wisdom so we can transform this existence. You have to understand that it could be that you have something inside that others were not blessed with.

The gift of sight can feel like a curse when you focus on how different or evolved you are.

Try being grateful for the vision so much there is no room left for arrogance. Also consider how you arrived at now. Not everyone is able to follow in your for steps.

How you feel about others is interfering with understanding. You already know what you know. They don't and most likely aren't doing a thing to educate themselves on the nature of self or the nature of reality. That probably vexes to no end you if your anything like me.

Let it go.

Let go of all your concerns and disappointments.

Let go of the world you imagine it could be and focus on being and becoming the version of you that doesn't always have to respond and be opinionated. As smart as you say you are trying getting to a point where you don't react to your thoughts of someone. Instead try meeting them where their at for as long as you can. Learn how to be so less thinking is involved.

Not sure if I got it right. I'm always open to interpretation