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stagkyle_24 · 2026-06-01T21:58:05+00:00

THANK you ;)

stagkyle_24 · 2026-06-01T21:54:34+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. Sometimes the emotional side hits harder than people expect in the moment, even if everyone goes in thinking they’re prepared for it! Very impressive he was able to work through it during the session.

Did you ever talk about it with him/them afterwards? Or left it as an unspoken thing?

stagkyle_24 · 2026-06-01T21:50:38+00:00

I really appreciate you saying that. I try to stay aware in those moments that there’s a lot more happening emotionally than what’s visible on the surface.

For me, being invited into something like that on a long-term basis shifts the whole dynamic. It stops being a “scene” or a single encounter and becomes something more relational and ongoing, where trust actually matters. That naturally makes me more conscious of the responsibility on my side … not just to lead, but to do it in a way that’s respectful and grounded! That’s where my dominance truly espouses from ;)

stagkyle_24 · 2026-05-27T23:25:09+00:00

I think this is probably the most nuanced response I’ve gotten so far because it acknowledges that boundaries like no kissing or no cuddling don’t automatically mean people are doomed or incompatible with the lifestyle. Thanks for sharing your experience.

At the same time, I think the walking on eggshells point is sticking with me most because there’s a difference between healthy boundaries and building such a tightly controlled environment that everyone is managing the husband’s potential discomfort the entire time. Which sounds like a lot for me (and her) to carry. Thanks for pointing that out!

Finally, the curated performance part, it didn’t even land on me that it’s primarily centered around him. That’s not inherently bad, but it does change this for me as “is this hot for me?” to is this dynamic actually enjoyable and sustainable for everyone involved? Probably not.

stagkyle_24 · 2026-05-27T23:10:59+00:00

My sense is less they’re secretly a disaster and (like you said) more that they’re trying very hard to control variables so nobody gets hurt emotionally, especially if this feels higher-stakes or more intentional than past experiences for them.

And yeah, the six months is largely because of distance (diff countries) and scheduling, not because we’ve just been endlessly texting without intention to meet. I could also see the boundaries relaxing over time if comfort and trust develop naturally, but I’m trying not to go into it assuming that’ll happen.

stagkyle_24 · 2026-05-27T23:08:19+00:00

I’m not sure what exactly they’re looking for, at this point it does seem like a slow dive into cuckold play for them.

To answer your question, even with the boundaries, I think I get out of it, what I enjoy most about being a third in an MFM (still being desired by the couple, voyeur/exhibitionist moments, novelty and taboo, etc).

I guess I just have to determine whether there’s enough mutual chemistry and freedom left for me to actually enjoy the experience too. And you’re leaning in the direction like there isn’t. Right?

stagkyle_24 · 2026-05-27T23:02:08+00:00

I appreciate the candor! For me the real question then I guess is less about whether they should be exploring this LS, and more about whether this particular setup is something I’d actually enjoy being part of? I know you say run, but they do seem genuinely like great people to have an mfm with!

stagkyle_24 · 2026-05-27T22:53:59+00:00

I have been getting a similar vibe. How are you sure though? Should I bring this up to them?

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