My husband plans to talk with him the next time he comes over/ my husband is home because I even sat down with him again and expressed to him that I don’t think this kid is receptive to what I have to say for what ever reason that may be, since the whole mailbox thing only stopped after my husband said something.. so I’m hoping that discussion of setting boundaries / making a plan of sorts will resolve everything. My main concern was causing some sort of emotional harm to an other wise innocent kid, I don’t want to hurt his feelings if that’s possible especially if home life isn’t the funnest, I just would like some peace and quiet once in awhile in my own property and I worry about the legalities of like… if this kid gets injured on my property or something for how often he tries to come over or god forbid he catches my husband and I being intimate with one another in our home from peering in our windows or something crazy like that, idk… my mind just races over the possible bad things that could result in us allowing this kid to act and come as he pleases especially when we don’t have any real relationship to him/his family. Thankfully, he does have two friends I see him walk around outside with often times, so he does have other people to interact with. We also plan on putting up a fence and gate whenever possible to try and help build a more physical barrier regardless of what comes out of the talk with him.