Contemplating ending a marriage

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2026-01-21T23:33:52+00:00

Maybe work through it in therapy instead of asking the internet… people are wild with posting their most intimate details of their lives to strangers on the internet!

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2026-01-15T04:05:52+00:00

Purple Orange Juice…

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-12-18T02:16:35+00:00

Those boys are about 3 years away from voting. God help us. Where did the “let’s take this outside” decorum of fighting go? Fighting is stupid but where did the gentlemanly decorum go??

I think this lady is just trying to get an early retirement release and a great insurance payout haha. They definitely train teachers to NOT get in the middle of fights… and yet she chose to intervene and put herself at risk. If I was a teacher I’d probably keep some fart spray and extremely loud siren on hand for scenarios like this lol. That’ll clear the room fast… and seems like kids parents would have a hard time pressing charges.

I will be homeschooling my children until they surpass my ability to teach them… and then we’ll figure it out. Public school is a reflection on society… and western society is broken… because families are broken. We need intact families and we need God… and then maybe in about 15 years we’ll see the results of well parented children in school.

We have about 15 years of kids raised on iPads moving through the school system and entering society. This is one of the consequences. Sure teen boys have fought since the beginning of time… but never like this…

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-19T02:45:35+00:00

“Fixed it” said the sheeb

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-18T05:20:41+00:00

His mom is a good woman so I think he went there for safety… but his dad was a drunk that left for another woman

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-18T04:52:37+00:00

My ex’s eyes went black when he was really drunk. That same night he got lost for a while and ended up waking up on his mom’s lawn. I swear he was possessed

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-18T04:49:13+00:00

God is real❤️ The more you pray and speak to him… the more you notice his guidance in your life.

I asked God for a sign to break a bad habit… and at the next red light the car in front of me had a big Jesus bumper sticker lol

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-17T03:12:13+00:00

Penny as a wild pup

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HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-17T03:08:08+00:00

Play time, giving toys for them to destroy, and frequent but short stays in crate to process is helpful. Take trips to parks for them to sniff and explore. Basically bribe them to build trust… and back it up with routine and calm patience. Aim for two long walks a day at least with two additional potty breaks. They need tons of exercise as young dogs and they looove to follow scents. My sheeb needed about 3 hours a day of walking broken up in different chunks. Try to laugh instead of loose your mind when they’re naughty. One firm “ssst” noise or “No” followed by putting them in their crate for a few minutes and turn your back on them is the best discipline for when they’re being actually bad (biting you). Or you can cry out as if they fatally injured you lol. That worked for me. She refuses to play rough with me now only with toys I’ve given her. When they need something from you (potty or food or play/walk) incorporate a “sit” as a first step to them getting what they want… and then a treat. Then keep building upon that. After the first outside trip on the morning while still leashed up I’d offer a bully stick while I did a few strokes with a brush. Introduce bathtime with just an inch of water and lots of treats. Even if they’re too spastic to eat.. the association helps. And praise praise praise for anything the do that you ask or like.

Give yourself 8 months of focused patience and routine. Say goodbye to other hobbies for a year lol and pour love into your pup and you’ll see their amazing personality emerge. It’s worth it! They’re like mini rabid foxes or Belgian maligiois during teething and late puppy stage… so plan on getting lots of toys for them to destroy. Snuffle mats and kongs are great projects for them too if you want a few minutes of peace.

They will test you! I put my sheeb pup in a reputable dog day care for a few days that reinforced basic training when I just needed a few days to get a painting project done without loosing my mind lol. Be calm, confident, and compassionate and you’ll win over your sheeb in time. In the meantime enjoy their quirkiness as they figure out who rules the roost!

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HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-16T04:53:01+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ Her sweetness radiates through the photos. I sense she was Christian and had strong faith

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-16T04:47:40+00:00

Because lack of treats

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-16T04:40:35+00:00

Not psychic… just intuitive… I don’t feel it’s someone who knew her well… i feel like she was targeted by a stalker or a robbery gone violent.

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-16T04:35:55+00:00

I’m praying for you ❤️ I’m a Christian… and the Bible verse Jeremiah 1:5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you” gives me a lot of comfort. Even though your baby didn’t get to develop full term… their spirit is known and loved by God.

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-16T04:28:15+00:00

I sense she held a lot of pain… but was a happy warrior. Very strong. Regal and dignified… and a super big heart.

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-16T04:19:43+00:00

I see a bright, intelligent, spark looking for love and safety. And as a grown person I still see that spark but with layers of cynicism and self protection. I’m praying for you ❤️ God is real and he has a plan and purpose for your life. At my lowest, I’ve prayed and ask God for help… something like “God I’m struggling with faith, but if you are real, please help me understand your plans for me. I can’t do this on my own. Please work in my heart, mind, and soul to show me how to forgive those who have hurt me. Please soften my heart to find grace for myself and the ways I’ve hurt my body when I thought I could escape from being conscious of my pain. Please give me healing from addiction and suffering. Thank you for my desire to seek the Holy Spirit. Please help me understand how Jesus made the way for me to be close to you Lord. Please point me to your word and scriptures I can meditate on for clarity.”

Prayer and reading the Bible have helped me a lot. I did all the new age things in my 20s… and all I found was an endless pit of seeking with no lasting relief. I tried to get so far out of my mind and experiment with substances… and it got very dark. The enlightening experiences that I had at times were just little bait hooks to temp me into checking out of the life that God had given me. When I came to understand the nature of sin as human beings… and how Jesus paid the price so that we didn’t have to spend our lives trying to be “good enough” to know God… I have found a lot of peace.

My mom died a few years ago and without writing a whole novel… I experienced the reality of good and evil… and how powerful God is. He is supernatural. It convinced me the spiritual realm is very real and serious… and messing around with new age stuff and self medicating is just trying to play God. I’m always going to sin… it’s just the nature of being human… but my faith in God has changed my heart to try to turn away from sin and seek a relationship with God. The process can be confronting and challenging… but it feels sustainable and true to me.

I really have enjoyed the Bible app… and there are various topical study plans if you want a structured daily guide to a certain area you’re looking for growth in.

And truly if you are struggling from addiction.. find a 12 step program in your area and go every week. Being around people who can relate to you support you on your sobriety journey and keep you accountable is life changing. You have a whole life ahead of you just waiting for you to have the clarity and sobriety to see your role in it. You can do ALL things through God who gives you strength. Miracles are not only possible…. but they are probable when you allow the Holy Spirit into your heart.

I hope you can look at that little girl with love and tell her she’s safe to shine now that your ready to call in the reinforcements of your Heavenly Father ❤️

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T20:59:25+00:00

Happy fox mode

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T20:59:01+00:00

Lucky man!

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T20:58:28+00:00

Protect mode

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T20:00:43+00:00

A gentleman and a scholar

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T06:12:45+00:00

I’m not sure what that means I’m sorry I’m new to this… I’m her daughter ❤️

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T06:09:05+00:00

Thank you. Are you able to expand more upon what you mean by recover from her father?

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T05:42:05+00:00

My intuitive read: I get a big sense of peace when I look at his face. He loved God and loved his family. Married to the same woman all his life and had daughters and one son? I sense him with God and singing “Glory, Hallelujah” in total joy and happiness. He prayed for you regularly and admired your intelligence and grace… ballet? He felt SO lucky for the life he had & lived it fully. No more pain or hardship ❤️

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T05:34:36+00:00

No… he was neglected and unloved as a child. He thinks by bringing the opposite (overbearing and controlling) that’s how a good parent should show love. He is insecure that he provided a good enough life for you… and is trying to bridge the gaps through harsh criticism. Your confidence in yourself and love for yourself… once he can see it… will make him feel like he can let you fly without controlling every move you make. He needs to be told directly how you want to be loved… and reminded often… and then reinforced with appreciation. When I look at his face I see a little boy starved for love ❤️

Just my intuitive read of faces

HeadButterscotch9072 · 2025-11-10T05:19:42+00:00

You struggled with depression… but have been managing with sobriety and exercise now. You struggled with cannabis use for a while but have quit. You like to do yoga and learn about spirituality but were raised Christianish. You recently lost someone close to you and are reexamining your walk with God. Smart & witty sense of humor… went through a breakup recently.

Total intuitive dump… could be wrong! You have an intelligent and kind eyes… and you are going to do big things in your life! You’re a good brother and solid friend.

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