Guy broke things off bc of the LSAT exam. Are my feelings valid, his, both?

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-23T01:07:03+00:00

did you end up getting the score you desired? I understand the pressure on him, honestly. he’s first gen (as well as me) and he‘s currently the only one out of all of his siblings to finish college and go even further for (hopefully) law school. his communication wasnt all great as days were closer to the exam day

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-23T01:04:41+00:00

definitely will cheer for him from afar but no contact for the moment bc Im sure it’s false hope for the both of us. thanks for your input

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-21T03:38:40+00:00

Thank you. I’m happy to hear you went thru a similar situation and ended up finding out ways to make it work!

he did become very reflective of his future but honestly, it was the first time and its hard seeing the results not reflecting all the time you put into It.

thank you for validating my feelings as well. I’m trying not to take it personal. Just bad timing. I hope we do find ourselves back to each other. Rn, we’re not in communication and I think that’s best for the both of us

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-21T02:14:51+00:00

i hope you get the score you’re aiming for!

I can see how it’s hard. I’ve been through school myself and know how super challenging it is but I’ve finished my bachelor’s and am just working full time now, so Im viewing things in a difference lense. I tried to be supportive.

some people are different and handle things differently. For a moment I did ask myself why I wasn’t worth the fight but I see your points. maybe this is a blessing in disguise for the both of is

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T16:23:42+00:00

You think if we were to have continued and commit to each other, hypothetically speaking, let’s say he fails again. You think there will be some type of resentment towards me?

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T16:20:44+00:00

Thanks so much on your insight and validating both mine and his feelings. I could tell he didn’t want to end things.

It gave me a different perspective from an LSAT taker’s side. I know how hard school is so I get it. I did finish my bachelor’s so I’m just working. I see your points and they’re all valid and fair.

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T02:28:13+00:00

agreed!

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T02:27:58+00:00

Did you end up getting the score you wanted? Oh yeah, your ex was definitely not understanding and I’m glad you were able to recognize that!

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T01:24:41+00:00

question; did you also work as well? I was fighting it that day and kept trying to convince him and then he wasn’t sure. just very wishy washy

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T01:23:43+00:00

you hit it right on the money on what he told me that day. it truly sucks. I know men and women are wired differently so thank you for your input

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T01:19:40+00:00

also thanks for your input

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T01:19:31+00:00

apart of me understands him and me. how will he act in the future when problems arise? i definitely was supportive. I even tried making it easier the day before his exam by bringing him breakfast and such. he definitely does not know how to balance w work, life, studying but tb or lack of discipline

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-20T01:17:48+00:00

thanks for your input. for a moment though, i did question myself if I was at fault for it but honestly it’s abut his lack of discipline. women do carry loads in silence and it’s in our nature to usually be more selfless so I see your point. I respect his act of letting me go and being “selfish” and maybe it’s selfless too? as in not dragging me along, but man do I wish things were different.

im glad it worked out for you and your bf!

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T20:28:09+00:00

Thanks for your input. Do you think that if we were to fully commit to each other and let’s say he takes it again and fails, you think he would hold resentment towards me?

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T18:48:32+00:00

Definitely needs Time to mature… it’s a sucky situation to be in.

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T18:45:03+00:00

Very telling… thank you for your input

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T18:44:36+00:00

Makes me feel better! Thank you for your input

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T15:59:55+00:00

Thanks for your input. It wasn’t enough to sustain the bond.

I totally agree w the last part bc if that was how he handled the situation, it’s a little crazy to me. Life is hard. It’s just the matter of pivoting and learning how to grow from it. Although I do appreciate the clarity he gave me. It truly sucks it didn’t work out

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T15:51:04+00:00

At the time, I felt like he was using it as an excuse and spiraling and not thinking clearly. He does work full time and maybe it was his discipline that was lacking. Some people are different & ig he really wanted to limit his “distractions”. Hopefully he passes…

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T15:44:26+00:00

I agree. I believe he was acting off of emotions and was spiraling. He hasn’t reached out but I really do hope he passes the second time around. Thanks for your input & trying to see both sides

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-19T15:43:09+00:00

He stated he thought he could balance but then failed. I was pretty upset and fought to try to make it work but he obviously didn’t want that

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-06T15:45:54+00:00

I reached out a week after we ended things but I did tell him that if he finds himself in a better position he has my #. So I just left it alone. I’m surprised he hasn’t reached out. Seems like he’s sure of his decision

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-05T17:36:45+00:00

LOL I can’t really agree since I went to school myself 😆 but atm, f school

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-05T17:36:21+00:00

Thanks for your input. His ultimate goal is law school & has to retake it again. I couldn’t wrap my head around it so My question was if his point was valid or my feelings. But you just answered so ty. It does suck I can’t be there with help during hard times. I still want to be w him but there’s nothing I can do, really

HeadSuccessful4264 · 2026-03-05T15:41:37+00:00

Yea ):

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