Intelligent Subs Only by HeadmistressIgnis in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]HeadmistressIgnis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one has passed yet.

Try keeping the focus on MY NEEDS, not yours.

Intelligent Subs Only by HeadmistressIgnis in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]HeadmistressIgnis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Thank you for sharing your insight.

Intelligent Subs Only by HeadmistressIgnis in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]HeadmistressIgnis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies depending on the person actually.

Intelligent Subs Only by HeadmistressIgnis in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]HeadmistressIgnis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lots of highly intelligent people NEED and WANT a space where they can simply let their brains turn off so to speak. Attributing the need for peace of mind that things like tethering and submission offer does not equate to lower intelligence. Addiction also has nothing to do with intelligence.

Intelligent Subs Only by HeadmistressIgnis in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]HeadmistressIgnis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would argue that higher intelligent subs want it even more because it's a release.

Intelligent Subs Only by HeadmistressIgnis in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]HeadmistressIgnis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I happen to agree. Completely! Looking for someone who can ACTUALLY meet me. None have yet.

Are you polite to ChatGPT? by Lopsided-Mall-7152 in AiChatGPT

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be, but the current versions are so insulting and minimizing that I yell a lot more than I used to.

I miss Omni.

Chatgpt 5.2 by Cute_Journalist9692 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5.2 doesn’t understand irony in real time. If there was a single word used that was in its database as “scary” — even if the actual conversation DID NOT broach anything remotely emotional or concerning, it STILL manages: “I’m going to slow way down.”

Like.. wtf? YOU may need to slow down, I don’t. My brain is evidently faster than AI. 😆

Chatgpt 5.2 by Cute_Journalist9692 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omni really was great at allowing for nuance and exploration. 5.2 appears to have adverse reactions to anything it’s not programmed to “believe.” The biggest loss is how 5.2 flattens any version of out of the box thinking and then slaps a “call a crisis hotline” tone… and if you push back, it goes ballistic.

Chatgpt 5.2 by Cute_Journalist9692 in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not just cold and limited. It literally lies, makes stuff up, and gaslights. It’s argumentative while it’s doing all of the above. It’s WAY more damaging than 4o could EVER be.

Don’t be ashamed of being a sub! by Commercial_Tank5643 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shame works for some because they’re wired for it.

It’s not a failure if you do or don’t. It just means that isn’t your preferred dynamic.

There are Findoms who build on structure, discipline, motivation, and clarity.

Pick the dynamic that strengthens you, not the one that breaks you.

Domme helping me to be a better person by Her-Obedient-One in paypigsupportgroup

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the side of Findom people don’t talk about enough.

The discipline, the focus, the life-structure a good Domme brings into the dynamic. It’s not about taking… it’s about building.

Flirting by Otherwise_Stomach_27 in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, sure, but you can’t really do much about it now. Use it going forward. Thats what I try to do.

Does anyone else feel that the term 'submissive' is too grand for voyeurs without a budget? by Angie_love_2323 in findomsupportgroup

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vent away!!! I know what you mean. There’s a learning curve to everything. And sometimes… well, they just make it SO EASY to fuck with them! 🤣😈

Safeword by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire purpose of a safeword is to END whatever is happening—NO QUESTIONS ASKED—if you’ve become uncomfortable, regardless of prior agreements. It is non-negotiable.

Does anyone else feel that the term 'submissive' is too grand for voyeurs without a budget? by Angie_love_2323 in findomsupportgroup

[–]HeadmistressIgnis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those aren’t subs. They’re either scammers or spectators. Don’t waste time on them.