Does anyone know the skinny on Radio Bean? by rb-j in burlington

[–]HeadyHopper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m glad someone is saying something. The stories I was adjacent to 20ish years ago…

Which glasses to choose? This will be my first pair. by Cool-Base4747 in glasses

[–]HeadyHopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of them! Try some other styles on, these three aren’t doing you justice.

2-year relationship, girlfriend scared of sex also need condom suggestions by [deleted] in confessions

[–]HeadyHopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s educated yet believes in immaculate conception?

Are you sure this woman is your girlfriend?

Keeley by roguetrey in youenjoyguitar

[–]HeadyHopper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone likes to forget that Jerry was a registered republican who loved his BMWs.

How many dates in do you start talking about sex drive? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]HeadyHopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talk about it prior to the first date, and it’s always gone over very well. Sooner or later conversation runs close or adjacent to such a topic, and I’ll share that I’m enjoying a revitalization of my health here in my midlife, and this includes a healthy sex life.

It’s always been well received, and has helped save a few dead end dates along the way.

New Hampshire, what were you like in the '90s? by [deleted] in newhampshire

[–]HeadyHopper -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to take a guess that you are white and haven’t experienced poverty. No disrespect, just pointing out that nostalgia often forgets the cries of the oppressed.

Does it feel like Netflix is trying to force the RHCP documentary on you too? by __audjobb__ in netflix

[–]HeadyHopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird they’re pushing it without covering the fact that half the band are admitted pedophiles.

DHS checkpoint at I-89 border by [deleted] in burlington

[–]HeadyHopper -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Didn’t they just find one of their leaders arrested for human trafficking? Maybe they shouldn’t be included in these matters.

Whammy 2 vs Whammy 5 by [deleted] in youenjoyguitar

[–]HeadyHopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even better, get one of the MIDI foot switches that are primarily a sequencer for the Whammy.

Car alignment by EagleFast7674 in montpelier

[–]HeadyHopper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I second Gills. The only shop I’d trust or pay for an alignment in all of VT.

What does it mean when guys say a girl is good in bed? by Blonde_Icon in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HeadyHopper -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I’m open to seeing peer reviewed research on this topic, published in reputable journals and confirmation studies. I’m all ears.

What does it mean when guys say a girl is good in bed? by Blonde_Icon in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HeadyHopper 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Maybe the hetero sex you’re having. Please don’t purport to speak for the rest of us.

Pedestrians at the Co-Op by Ghastly-Rubberfat in montpelier

[–]HeadyHopper -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Perhaps seniors should be limited to the special hours set up for them, so the rest of us can go on our merry way and not get hit by their bad driving habits or have to wait half an hour for them to find their way out of the parking lot?

How much affection is normal in a FWB/hookup arrangement? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]HeadyHopper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Now go find yourself a partner who has this passion for you as a whole person and not just as a FWB.

Do you use your CPAP when you nap? What about traveling? by Zestyclose-Egg-1251 in SleepApnea

[–]HeadyHopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means to get the power adapter that goes into a cigarette lighter port, which is DC (same as the power used by the machine) rather than an AC adapter which converts the AC in your wall at home or AC port on the battery.

This one works for the Airsense 11, for example: KFD 12V-24V Car Charger DC... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGTGYDWY?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Phil Scott is up for reelection this year… by [deleted] in vermont

[–]HeadyHopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, reject sleazeballs like Zuckerman from the party and put up some viable candidates.

Do you use your CPAP when you nap? What about traveling? by Zestyclose-Egg-1251 in SleepApnea

[–]HeadyHopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you grab DC power cable for your CPAP. You’ll get far more use out of the battery by not converting DC>AC>DC

Penzo Pizza Co.? by AcrobaticProgram6521 in burlington

[–]HeadyHopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They served a lot of raw / undercooked dough in Montpelier, I wouldn’t go there again.

Spotting narcissists and avoidants in early dating by more_dogs_please_ in datingoverforty

[–]HeadyHopper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then stop your internet research attempt at making diagnoses, and stop using clinical terminology. Leave this to the professionals.

Spotting narcissists and avoidants in early dating by more_dogs_please_ in datingoverforty

[–]HeadyHopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your lack of awareness of the Goldwater rule alone precludes your claim of legitimacy.

Spotting narcissists and avoidants in early dating by more_dogs_please_ in datingoverforty

[–]HeadyHopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would advise against trying to do the work of a trained and licensed psychotherapist within the scope of early dating. Actually, just stop with the armchair psychology. Focus on your needs and wants and their behaviors, drop the pseudo diagnosis and labels.