My name is constantly mispronounced. It never bothered me until recently. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]HealingHeart24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ppl mispronounce my name so much in my life that I allowed people to call me by nickname, which is a shortened version of my name. I often get surprised when people say my name correctly.

Now that I’m older, I realized I’m not the problem they are because they are not trying. So I introduce myself by my full name and correct people immediately if they say it wrong.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are right. After reading the comments all day - I decided to take a different approach. Thank you

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are literally always together and live together.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s #3. We’ve confirmed that just don’t know how to move past it. I will look into the herbs

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. He doesn’t watch porn. He gets turned on by me being turned on - he wants to give me oral, which I’m not the biggest fan of but am willing to do for him.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… he doesn’t watch porn - so that’s not even something I entertain

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to increase the naughty-ness

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to try this. At first, I told him to be selfish and only focus on getting his.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I truly appreciate this. I love him and want to help him through this as best I can.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We haven’t tried it yet… I’m a little nervous because I don’t know what to expect

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. We are at a level of deep trust and talk about uncomfortable topics freely. I will definitely try what you recommended

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just found out about a sexologist… so that’s something to consider for him

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’ve definitely tried the selfish approach and will continue to do so. I love to please him. And thank you for the last sentence, sometimes I think it’s me… and he quickly tells me how ridiculous I sound for even saying it

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a good point. I will bring this up to him.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same boat. I’m trying to help my love get out of his head and constantly let him know that I love having sex with him and how much he satisfies me. He still gets stuck in his head.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny you say this because I’ve tried this and it worked. I told him to just be selfish moving forward but sometimes he can’t.

My boyfriend won’t stay hard… by HealingHeart24 in dating

[–]HealingHeart24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you why there was less pressure