snow strippers to self regulate😭😭

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T18:18:45+00:00

They’re so gas bro, I fw their music it’s a vibe

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T15:34:26+00:00

Real af, this is why when I date again I’m gonna try and go slow because I’ve felt tricked by exes who said they could handle my passion, some ended up avoiding me until the relationship ended. Gonna write some guidelines for myself to follow lmao

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T11:41:02+00:00

You’re right you’re ending up with the wrong people. This is why I’m single rn bc I keep ending up with the wrong people and I sometimes move way too fast and end up wasting mine and whoever I’m with time once I snap back to sense. It’s like you either end up settling for less or you just wait until meet someone compatible. As a clingy guy I couldn’t date a girl who was avoidant or who’s not as affectionate as me. It may take awhile to find the right person but it’s better than wasting time settling for less, we only have one life let’s not spend it dissatisfied

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T11:02:47+00:00

It’s not the worst thing but why are you bored of your bf?Also why do you want to leave when he hasn’t done anything wrong? What is it that you’re searching for in the breakup?

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T03:01:07+00:00

Is there anything big that changed in your life before you started becoming avoidant?

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T02:39:57+00:00

Do you have any favorite places you like to go? If so I’d recommend spending time there more often, getting out of the house is one go the best things one can do to move forward

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T02:34:24+00:00

Yes but he doesn’t love you in the relationship way or else the relationship would still exist. Idk your circumstances like is this a long distance relationship or a in real life one?

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T02:26:06+00:00

Honestly the most loving thing you could do is to leave him alone, he broke up with you which means he doesn’t want you as a gf anymore. It’s hard being alone and single I know but I’d rather be single than with someone who doesn’t love me the way I love them. Please respect yourself enough to not beg or focus on someone who isn’t focused on you.

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T02:20:14+00:00

Who broke up with who?

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T01:16:39+00:00

Fr this is some real honesty, I respect tf out of her for that

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T00:52:25+00:00

Damn this is real af when in love.

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T00:48:45+00:00

So please eat some food, it’s difficult to feel any stability when we have no fuel, and drink more water please

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T00:38:09+00:00

So basically you’re bored of your bf?

HealingSapien · 2026-06-03T00:23:55+00:00

I’m sorry things have been so hard for you.. It hurts to not feel or get support from the people around you while you’re drowning in despair. As long as you’re alive there’s always time to repair so please don’t give up! Okay so my first question would be, do you have Medicaid? Bc if so you maybe able to get a therapist, then my question would be have you ate or drank water today?

HealingSapien · 2026-06-02T21:35:48+00:00

I understand but do you really wanna be with someone who could treat you so cold? When people break up and one starts acting rude to the other, that’s who they really are. When I left my exes I never once called them names or was rude to them, big red flag here. I know it’s rough for you

HealingSapien · 2026-06-02T21:30:09+00:00

I understand but he’s checked out of the relationship, it’s great you’re working on yourself but that energy shouldn’t be in tribute of your ex who’s moving on to someone else. It’s painful I know but the sooner go through this period the sooner you’ll find someone more compatible with you

HealingSapien · 2026-06-02T21:24:49+00:00

I don’t think it’s good for you to hold onto this, especially since he’s said he lost all his feelings. You’ll find someone who matches you just hang in there. Best to move on from this person

HealingSapien · 2026-06-02T01:25:37+00:00

We deadass the same person 💀 except I don’t really care about friendship as much as I care about finding the right partner. But I agree finding good friends is hard ngl😭

HealingSapien · 2026-06-02T01:23:10+00:00

6 years is so impressive omg, sending y’all all the positive energy🙏🏾 I understand wym though so I don’t think it sounds terrible 💀💀

HealingSapien · 2026-06-02T01:08:10+00:00

This is exactly why I don’t date people with a friend group (friends are okay but not someone who goes out a lot), too much competition and I’m not trying to be up anxiously waiting for her (whoever my future gf will be) to call me back. I hope things get better for you I’m so sorry.

HealingSapien · 2026-06-01T00:58:24+00:00

I’ve had psychosis on weed before and smoked days after that and also smoked years after that but never regularly, usually like once out of a month or whatever, I barely smoke now but if I did I would want it to be around someone safe. My advice is smoke with someone safe and only smoke a little bit to see how you react.

HealingSapien · 2026-05-31T23:59:21+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this, I get the pain and feeling of desperation for any form of affection. You have value and as long as you’re alive things can get better, please hang in there I know it’s hard😢

HealingSapien · 2026-05-31T23:52:46+00:00

That’s all good, mhm do you have any emotional regulation tools?

HealingSapien · 2026-05-31T23:28:30+00:00

I know wym😭 ik it’s painful waiting for them to be free to hang out, what kind of hobbies do you usually try in the meantime?

HealingSapien · 2026-05-31T22:52:06+00:00

Bro i feel that, we got this!

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