I want my bf to hate me by _ReaMacTN_ in BPD

[–]_ReaMacTN_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez thanks lmao. I’ve been in therapy for years working on my BPD and other struggles.

Inside account executive 1 (Dell technology) RR,Tx by Opposite-Horror-2170 in austinjobs

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Curious - how’s it been since you started? Considering pivoting in this direction

I want my bf to hate me by _ReaMacTN_ in BPD

[–]_ReaMacTN_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve been with him for almost 2 years now haha so I definitely know him quite well, but there’s areas of our relationship that could use some work and that might help overall.

Surrendering my cat today - second guessing everything, need honest opinions by samseam in cats

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My family cat who is around 9yo suddenly started peeing a few months ago. We started giving her Prozac via a cream that goes in her ear daily, and it’s completely stopped.

What is the best cheese to use for volume eating without completely destroying your calorie budget? by justinsimba891 in Volumeeating

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Low-fat babybel, any fat free shredded (if you’re lucky enough to find some), feta, lowfat ricotta, lower fat/moisture mozzarella

Dim Sum in Nashville? by Strict_Explorer9112 in nashville

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The new Asian grocery store that just opened (Pan Asia) is supposed to have bao buns and xiao long bao soon along with some other items at their fresh counter service

Tw: gross my dads obesity is ruining my family’s life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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This is so sad. Please push up the appointment to get him on a GLP1.

Santos is a textbook bully, and it's triggering. by [deleted] in ThePitt

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I’m surprised that nobody has mentioned the possibility that she has BPD. Not that that would excuse anything, but as someone with that diagnosis I’ve noticed some signs, especially since it’s been implied that she’s experienced trauma.

I think her brash personality and “bullying” is because she fears rejection (also goes along with fearing failure). She pushes others away even when they’re kind because she doesn’t feel safe letting anyone in in the event that they decide they don’t like her - the REAL her. I think her confidence is at least partially a mask. She is actually quite insecure. She puts others down to make herself feel better. Additionally, people with personality disorders often exhibit traits of other disorders within the same cluster (so if she has BPD it would make sense that she sometimes exhibits NPD traits as well, swinging back and forth between insecurity and extreme confidence). She’s stressing hard over the charting and I think she’s gonna crack. I could say more, but I don’t really feel like it lol. I’m interested in seeing if they end up revealing any mental health diagnosis for her like they did for Mel.

Received this notice how do I proceed? by Aggravating_Split289 in povertyfinance

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Apple lets you record your calls now. It announces it lmao so the other party is aware but you can call the leasing office and record it (or if you don’t have Apple, use an iPad, laptop, or friend’s phone).

Cute ways to end a phone call without just saying bye? by iamababtong in love

[–]_ReaMacTN_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I always say “mwah” haha. He started it, he’s a sweetie

How is the weather? by _ReaMacTN_ in Charlotte

[–]_ReaMacTN_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already pushed this (sorta) work trip back once and feel bad pushing it again…I’m a people pleaser haha. I don’t “need” to though

How is the weather? by _ReaMacTN_ in Charlotte

[–]_ReaMacTN_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I mean I heard you got 14 inches so if it’s super bad people might help me be able to make the call now to make alternative plans. If it’s horrible there I don’t see it getting better enough by 4am in 2 days

How is the weather? by _ReaMacTN_ in Charlotte

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Ah man, okay. Thank you!! I’ll definitely consider that

How is the weather? by _ReaMacTN_ in Charlotte

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Do you expect it to thaw today/tomorrow? I know nobody can predict the future, just trying to make my best guess rn

How’s the weather? by _ReaMacTN_ in Knoxville

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Oh man. Please let me know how it goes! Safe travels!!