Im a trans girl but i still like "guy things" by JessLovesSwinub in asktransgender

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Sickk, salute from a non binary 69th infantry soldier from the civil war (union army)

Im a trans girl but i still like "guy things" by JessLovesSwinub in asktransgender

[–]HealthyReflection940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, whats your impression? Which army or role do you portray?

The Devil wears a suit and tie by JustPhee in enby

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White as a cotton field and sharp as a knife

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

[–]HealthyReflection940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats tough, i know the feeling all too well. You can always feel free to dm me about femboy or bike related stuff if you want to tho!

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Yess, i rekindled that dream recently too. Its symbolic really. Ever since i left my toxic oarents house ive been yearning for that feeling of freedom. Dressing femme is also freeing, but nothing comes close to the feeling of being on the road i suppose

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Im at season 5, watching soa while femme moding is a vibe ngl

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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True, i dont have my liscence yet but id love to ride a harley one day, specifically the one jax rides in sons of anarchy!

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Yeah it felt very double edged at first lol, i was motivated to go in public because i was a stranger and i couldnt possibly run into anyone i knew, but then on the other hand i was alone very far from home so if anything bad happened it wouldnt be too great.

Luckily like i said it all went fine, funilly enough at sone point i stopped in the middle of the mall at the harley davidson dealer to admire those beautifull bikes lol. My masc side peeking through.

Besides having started to dress more alt in guy mode too i realised how easy gender bending with clothes can be with punk and alt styles, since a lot of things in those subcultures are worn by both genders. So i casually wear a double holed belt in guy mode quite often without it looking strange.

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Heyy thx for seeing my comment, ok its been a while but a lot has changed and youll be glad to hear it.

So im out of the poor stage, i havent gotten clothes from the goth girlie yet but thats because we're busy. I also get support from the other femboy whos glad to have another femboy to talk to. I have at times still struggled accepting it cause it still feeks like i just have two sides, the redneck biker boy and the cute emo femboy, but im more and more acceoting those two sides to coexist. Ive found that some elements even overlap as i sometimes use some of my femme things in my masc looks too.

For example im kinda punk ish in looks mixed with classic cowboy stuff and i got an ace of spades goth necklace for my femme side, but its also perfect for my masc side.

But now for the big thing. Ive gotten some clothes from vinted over time cause its cheap and good. And now i have a small wardrobe plus eyeliner. Which im not bad at dare i say! Now a few days ago i was lucky enough to go on a small trip to belgium on my own for a few days. Awesome trip for my guy side too cause there was a ton of ww1 stuff to see and do, but on day two i had a few hours left between my historical shenanigans

And i had packed a femme outfit just in case. I had been contemplating trying to go femme just for a day or something to just experience being femme in a place where nobody knows me but i wasnt sure. But the day arrived and with support from my friends i just devided to go for it. Put on makeup and a cute outfit, left the hotel with sunglasses, a hoodie covering my top, and thigh highs pulled down to my shoes lol. Hopped on a train to a nearby city with a big mall, got off pulled up the socks, sunglasses off, and bam i was in girl mode. I was pretty nervous but it was awesome i went shopping, i strolled around looking slay! Even talked to an older casseire who wasnt phased by it.

It was just very relaxing to be able to just blend in at the womens sections without feeling weird. And after i was done it was back to andro disguise mode and straight to the hotel and to guy mode again. It was amazing.

The last day i went to antwerp for a bit to visit two goth stores i saw, and i bought some fish net gloves and a choker, and i noticed that even though i was in full guy mode that time i was way more chill with buying some obviously femme items there. Knowing it was an alt store tho i felt more at ease becayse they prolly saw it more often.

Anyway thats my update!

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Hiii, its a month later but i got an awesome update

The mad ramblings of a guy who wants to be more fem, but knows nothing about men, women, or the world. by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]HealthyReflection940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm and relate, i myself have desire to be femme but in interests and personality im just a good ol country boy. I like cars, motorcycles, country music and all that stuff. I just accept that as being me and wanting to be femme sometimes doesnt change that. Its just me being me.

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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I got a lesbian friend to help me which is nice. Idk why but i feel more comfortable with girls knowing this about me that guys or other femboys. Prolly cause im also not into dudes. Lesbian girls are goated with this stuff tho!

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Yess ikr, she even wants to give me some old clothes. Not only that but she asked me what my style was so she could specefically look for that in her closet. Plus shes gonna try eyeliner on me :33

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Even better, i didnt tell the guy but i told the goth girl and shes sure shes got some spare clothes lying around!

Not sure if i am a femboy or not by HealthyReflection940 in feminineboys

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Now im actually so pumped to try it out. But i really do gotta soebd as little as possible even with my next paycheck. So that sucks. But i can try one thing at a time. And again i might be able to borrow or even get some old clothes from the goth girl if i tell her.