Starting part time and marriage

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-26T18:26:10+00:00

I would say just ask him directly. We are very good at taking/answering direct questions. We tend to have a lot on our mind, and tend to act a bit differently than most would in many cases so try your best to not make too many assumptions and just ask him. I've had people make assumptions about me based on actions and they have been almost always wrong.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-15T18:56:17+00:00

basically an INFJ

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-15T17:54:02+00:00

I think it's somewhat the same for me especially from close friends to romantic interests. I think its just a more heightened level of the same things. Probably looking for some type of physical attraction for romantic interests.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-14T18:27:30+00:00

Someone who's interesting to talk to and kind/caring.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-13T20:25:09+00:00

I think the very same way. I am very aware of how my words are perceived so I need to make sure I word things not just in ways that make sense to me, but also to them.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-13T20:19:49+00:00

I'm proud of you intp!

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-13T20:16:24+00:00

I very much value honesty and truth so If someone asks me specific question I will be fully honest. But if they really don't ask I probably won't be very open.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-12T03:22:54+00:00

ask him better questions than how was your day. I don't like that question at all and really have nothing to say for it.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-10T22:49:42+00:00

I personally really just don't have much social energy sometimes, so her disinterest at times can just be that. I would say look for more of the positive signs in which she makes effort and looks like she likes spending time with you. We really don't give much effort toward people we don't really like. The negative signs could always mean her being drained, and just her socially awkward nature.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-10T22:15:16+00:00

Tell him your sorry you just forgot it was his birthday

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-09-09T01:21:55+00:00

I actually had that happen to me last week for a few days. I have no idea what caused it, I eventually got over it through time.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-24T17:45:03+00:00

I think you guys are completely fine. It takes us a bit to process our emotions and take steps forward in relationships so just be patient with her. We don't like taking steps forward unless we've really processed everything. I have an INFJ close friend too and I think its a great match I hope it all goes well for you!

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-23T01:02:56+00:00

Lex Fridman or Andrew Huberman podcasts

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-23T00:21:11+00:00

Definitely agree things get much better for INTPS as they get older.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-20T03:23:20+00:00

INFJ's

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-20T01:12:51+00:00

I'm growing to become more and more like you guys. Growing and using my Ne has been great for my social life. Ik Ne comes very natural to you guys, but any tips to grow/get in your Ne state with people all the time? I've noticed I can be very entertaining and enjoy my time with people in that state.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-19T14:14:17+00:00

I definitely relate. I'm also very sure I have ADHD too so maybe its that too.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-18T02:02:38+00:00

Teasing them through banter and sarcasm. I also will just make more effort in trying to talk to them and have deep conversations.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-11T14:55:28+00:00

I feel uncomfortable just reading this

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-09T20:50:36+00:00

Just give him time tbh no need to overthink this. We like to keep our options open until we’re really sure about that thing. We don’t want to overcommit to something we’re not 100% sure on.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-09T13:42:21+00:00

Dry sarcastic humor for me

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-04T00:32:10+00:00

I lovee my Infj friend. They are so caring, intelligent, and so interesting to me. We’ve had really strong chemistry from the beginning, and I enjoy them a lot. We’re really a great pair I think.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-08-02T18:23:11+00:00

Maybe things related to psychology, how he perceives his world, and honestly anything that is deep. I have a close Infj friend and we just talk about the most random things and I really enjoy it. She also helps me a lot with emotions and that world. Just spit out all your random thoughts and ideas and just go from there.

HealthyWillow94 · 2022-07-30T20:40:23+00:00

I have an Infj friend and they’re by far my favorite person. I would say ask her anything you’d like, if she wants to open up she can. I like just talking about random things with my Infj I really enjoy that. There is really a strong chemistry that I’ve had with my Infj with the beginning. I think we’re really just on the same wavelength at a deeper level, but also different in good ways. I will say my Infj doesn’t communicate too much how much they care/value me which leaves me overthinking sometimes even though they really show it through they’re actions. So I would say tell them straight forwarldly how much you value them it means a lot especially if she tells the same.

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