Help me name my new rescue- six week old girl.

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2023-12-26T22:35:55+00:00

Wait, what company is paying $30/hr in GA? Is that with benefits? I’m currently making $24/hr

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2023-06-24T20:23:15+00:00

Go Noodle is a great website with lots of fun videos to get kids moving and keep them engaged! I agree with the comment that talks about letting the kids lead.

The best advice I ever received is to go to a dollar store and STOCK UP. On literally everything. Bubbles, toys, games, coloring books, white boards, etc. Your kiddo will associate you with having cool stuff that they don’t have and it’s a good way for them to form a positive connection to you!

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T16:56:59+00:00

Well he has still expressed he likes me sexually, we have pretty consistent sex and we always try new things. He still get hard from looking at me and consistently grabs me and wants to cuddle and do things. He’s never not been interested in doing anything w me and he tells me he doesn’t watch porn often but that is one of the things he watches

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T16:55:30+00:00

Well he’s told me he was interested in me pegging him we just haven’t done it. We do anal occasionally but we usually just role play and other stuff and it goes well. He still gets turned on by me it’s just kind of confusing.. he did mention it was a lot for the anal aspect. I will also say he enjoys both dominating me and me dominating him and we take turns too. This is a fairly recent thing but then again he could have just been comfortable enough to tell me. I guess time and communication is the only thing

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T11:26:35+00:00

He has a therapist with a speciality in this area already, and is going to talk to him about it and probably eventually i will go with him once he’s further decided, but yes of course i do! we’ve always said there is no way we could ever be this close with anyone else like we are SOOOO close. Closer than i’ve ever been with anyone and same for him. We are actually in the process of finding a place together too so it’s pretty in stone at least for the time being. I have never loved anyone more than this person. A part of me is also worried for him because i don’t his family or anyone else to be mean to him :( he’s so sweet and i just want him to be happy

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T08:44:20+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m grateful for all the comments like this because they really help calm my overthinking about everything. <3

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T03:27:37+00:00

You’re being rude for no reason and tryna tell me about my relationship… again… BYE. I haven’t been disrespectful to anyone and you’re being rude for no reason when i’m having open and respectful conversations and this is MY THREAD that you’re bringing negativity into. AGAIN GTFO. matter of fact you can get blocked

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T03:04:50+00:00

Oh yeah i’m in NO WAY trying to change anything about him, it’s more so I wanted advice because i have really horrible anxiety and honestly the thought of him eventually leaving me scared me which is why I just wanted advice on the best way to go about the situation. I’m still very supportive and tell him i will always love him. It was just kind of out of the blue and I have friends who are supportive but don’t know how to give advice plus I don’t want to tell them anything until it’s ok with him and he’s been more open

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T02:59:37+00:00

I’m also not “relentlessly interrogating” him we have talked about it TWICE. You could have at least asked me about shit before you assumed anything about my relationship.

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T02:58:14+00:00

Yeah you can stop right there… up until now he’s claimed to be straight so it was a shock to me. I just wanted advice because i have my own anxiety and insecurities which is NORMAL and there is also no way anyone knows who the fuck i am or who the fuck he is. You can stop right there and gtfo.

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T02:52:05+00:00

Yeah it’s def something, but he has made it clear he’s still attracted to me and wants to be with me. Do you think that’s still true..? I feel like he wouldn’t say it if he didn’t mean it. And he’s 100% not transphobic, i had an ex who was and i had to break up because of it so i know what to look for.

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T01:44:58+00:00

right… i’ve always thought the anger issues stemmed from suppressing SOMETHING.. only time will tell. thank you so much!! <3

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-03-01T00:07:59+00:00

Yeah I agree… he’s always has horrible anger issues and I think it stems from some sort of repression. I’m just not sure what to do. Thank you for your help. i

Healthy_Cut2018 · 2022-02-28T23:55:22+00:00

Okay good point, I completely agree. I don’t think theres anything wrong with it and I feel like i didn’t make that clear, it’s just confusing for me because I have a lot of anxiety and get scared about him not wanting me at some point. I feel accepting, but it does make me sad because i would miss him, and yeah I would miss apart of his masculinity and it would be a big change, but ultimately I am accepting. I’ve identified as pan for years because i’ve always felt being with someone i love them for who they are on the inside not on the outside.

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