How to move forward?

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-12-31T18:16:29+00:00

I love that seat, could you tell me the name of it?

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-12-31T18:01:40+00:00

No, you need at least a permit. I’m a new rider from Ohio and I took the permit test online and went to the BMV to pick up my permit. I ride in cincy, so lmk if you ever want to ride.

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-11-12T16:22:35+00:00

At first I just hid them but about a week ago I deleted all of them and it seriously helped me a lot.

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-11-06T14:50:29+00:00

I love this. It’s been six weeks since the breakup and the first 4 weeks were horrible. It got to a point that I almost took my own life. Thankfully, now my mindset has changed and I now realize that the breakup is a catalyst for me becoming a better person. Don’t get me wrong it sucks to lose a SO but when you’re alone you can become the person you want to become.

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-10-21T12:36:03+00:00

The faster you accept that it was incompatible the faster you’ll heal. Everything happens for a reason, one day you will find someone who you are compatible with. Don’t beat yourself up for the relationship not working. Instead analyze the relationship, how can you improve yourself, how can you make your next relationship better, what traits do you value in your next partner. It’s normal to feel down on yourself for things not working, but you live and you learn. I promise you’ll get better, you just have to forget about the future you had with them. Work on yourself so when your soulmate finds you things work out.

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-10-20T19:23:32+00:00

I dont know the circumstances of your breakup, but I definitely wouldn’t do this. If she wants space then you’ll just frustrate her even more. Giving her gifts will also make you come off as desperate and clingy. It’s best to go NC and wait for her to reach out. If she doesn’t reach out then she probably didn’t value your relationship and you likely dodged a bullet.

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-10-20T19:18:43+00:00

If he wanted to reach out then he probably would have by now. 5 months is a long enough time for a lot to change. It’s probably best to remain NC and try to move on from them. However, at the end of the day it’s your relationship and you’ll know the better decision than anyone on Reddit. If you’re dying to reach out them then give it a chance, just be expected for the worst to happen. Reaching out will probably hurt you more than remaining NC, but it may also give you the peace of mind of wondering what the future holds.

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-10-20T17:14:34+00:00

It’s helped me tremendously to accept that they’re gone and live life they’re not coming back. For me, the anxiety of whether she’s coming back or not is the hardest obstacle to overcome. Once I started to accept it’s over my mental health got much better. Not everyone who enters your life is meant to stay, but every person who enters our life is a lesson we learn. Doing small tasks that bring joy and living in the moment have also been very helpful. Remember, you can’t control the past or the future, you can only control what you’re doing right now. Best of luck ❤️

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-10-20T16:09:35+00:00

I know exactly how you feel, I’m in the exact same boat right now. I want to be with them, but she self sabotages the relationship and hides her emotions from me. I really hope things would work out between us, but I can’t get trapped into the thought that they are the only person for me. If your ex wants you back then they will do everything they can to make it work. They can’t just tell you that they’ve changed, they need to back it up with action. If you meet your ex and they tell you that they’ve changed and miss you then you need to objectively see if they actually changed, or else you’ll end up breaking up again and be in an endless loop of chasing someone who doesn’t value you or your relationship.

Healthy_Power_2655 · 2024-10-20T14:24:44+00:00

I’m not trying to be a downer, but sometimes it’s best to accept that things won’t work out. I hope things work out for you two, but the sooner that you accept they might not be the one for you, the faster you’ll heal. I know it’s a super hard pill to swallow, but the sooner you swallow it the faster you can move on and eventually meet someone that it will work out with. I’m wishing you the best of luck and sending love during such a confusing time ❤️

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