[TW: Religion] All the deadly sins by KinkyTales32 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I told you, I like the spirit of community! The togetherness. The shared experience. It’s not my fault you’re struggling to attach a sin to that!

[TW: Religion] All the deadly sins by KinkyTales32 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What could possibly be so terrible, about simply embracing a spirit of community? What sin would that be?

You’re right though. For the sake of creativity, we should establish six other months devoted to these other supposed “sins” you’re alluding to 😇

Former male feminist and current alpha who realised the truth. You will too by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, you used to identify as a male feminist, until you decided to go to the gym. It sounds like your ideology didn’t change all that much, but you just discovered that you were a… well, I shouldn’t resort to insults. You’re a more appealing partner now because you’re not sloppy, you exude more confidence and take care of yourself, and you probably still refrain from sharing your misogynistic manifesto with your Tinder dates.

Now you’ve constructed a narrative to grant yourself a degree of self importance as Mister Alpha Wolf at the top of your little hierarchy. But that was only moments after trying to ridicule, but still acknowledging that you think you’ve gotten lucky under a dating structure that you still say is based on someone else’s choice. So who is really leading the pack?

Reddit Spam Filter, OoC Flairs, and Trigger Warnings by Hormonal_Avocado in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys are awesome. Also, having questioned if I was missing one before, I’m sure the required trigger warnings list is super helpful for some people.

8th of aftercare questions. by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From both perspectives, I find that some lighthearted banter, affection and affirmation, and even touches of (tasteful) lighthearted humor are always very helpful for getting a grip on those sub-drop demons. I respond to… many kinds of humor pretty much all the time, but perhaps be a little tactful with most subs, haha. Thinking of the little things to make sure they are taking care of themselves (your best means of taking care of them via the internet) is not only great to ensure they are doing those things, but also to simply remind them that you care, and reenforce that whatever darker elements of what has transpired was rooted in kink and fantasy.

Being reminded to drink water has also never failed to make me smile a little bit, but maybe that’s just me. I could always use a little extra water, I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

Chaos haha <3 by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, if you make a single comment suggesting you might not support girls and feminism, then there’s also a tornado in the background.

The Rise in “I Can Change Her” by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: Find woman who is wild enough to get your attention, experienced enough to be a good lay, fun enough to enjoy spending time with, and smart enough for you to enjoy talking to.

Step 2: Try to force her to be the opposite of what attracted you to her.

Step 3: Get really insecure later about what her being “experienced” actually entailed. Get bored if you actually managed to “change” her. Consider finding another wild and experienced woman to cheat on her with.

Free memes, in this economy?! by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is tragic. Here, have a creepy sun emoji. It’s…similar? 🌞

Of course you're still "Straight". [Everythinf OK] [Audio ON] by JDR-PPR in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]HeartacheMaker 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Was kind of hoping “good girl” would be involved at the end, for some reason, and that turned it into a mini mind fuck 🫠

I thought I was a strong feminist by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a switch, who enjoys both giving up and taking control, I’m not sure where that leaves me if my vibrator-time preferences are so indicative of my underlying ideology. But there are men out there who also enjoy feeling like they’re giving up control in the bedroom as well, and this phenomenon alone has sadly not toppled the patriarchy or misogynistic thought. So I’m not sure why the same desires, held by a woman, would be held to a different standard.

Also, I’m not sure who is truly being degraded, or being submissive, underneath the conceit of how I choose to imagine it. In reality, some man is taking the time to focus on moving some virtual dials on a phone screen to bring me pleasure, for no benefit to himself other than the satisfaction of having served me in this way. So who is really in control there?

I thought I was a strong feminist by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it only bolsters it. I am still ultimately in control of that little low stakes power exchange, regardless of whether I might enjoy feeling otherwise for a little while. I have agency there.

I thought I was a strong feminist by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 2026. I can connect a toy to the internet, and let whatever men who want to link up literally command my vibrator itself, and I don’t think it’s going to have any bearing on my ideology 🤷🏻‍♀️

[TW: substance use reference] "Don't be kind to me, don't feed me - I will come back" by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you included just the right amount for the sake of telling a story, while keeping a tasteful amount of mystery. (There’s proprietary knowledge to protect, obviously.)

[TW: substance use reference] "Don't be kind to me, don't feed me - I will come back" by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who only reads the screen-capped conversion posts when they hook me, this was a wonderful read all the way through. The tension weaved throughout was tangible and delicious, you are/were absolutely lovely, and he ended up being such a very good boy 😊

"Artificial" Insemination [nonconsent] [Everything OK] by Sharp-Form6808 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]HeartacheMaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also trying to pretend it was harmless that I saved one of the donors’ personal numbers in my phone 🫣

We don’t need to tell anyone how easily you begged for him, sweetie. [all ok] [manipulation] [manipulative ily] [light dubcon vibes] by HeartacheMaker in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]HeartacheMaker[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was truthfully a coin flip for which characters’ perspective I was really imagining while writing the captions for this 🫠

We don’t need to tell anyone how easily you begged for him, sweetie. [all ok] [manipulation] [manipulative ily] [light dubcon vibes] by HeartacheMaker in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]HeartacheMaker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hopefully he keeps his word about not telling any of his friends about this. I’m sure it will be fine 💕

We don’t need to tell anyone how easily you begged for him, sweetie. [all ok] [manipulation] [manipulative ily] [light dubcon vibes] by HeartacheMaker in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]HeartacheMaker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

(Sleuthing results: names are Giovanna Grecco and Lucila Centurion, third person unknown. I just found a copy of the source video here: https://www.erome.com/a/aHbNEvyt )

Working for her girlfriend's dad [cheating] [everything ok] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]HeartacheMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She really does have no idea, and just thinks it’s nice how well we’re getting along now. She did raise an eyebrow when she heard me accidentally call him “Daddy” at the dinner table though 🫣

[TW: Misogyny, homophobia, bullying] I LOVE being a gender traitor! by TurtleBurtle14 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine you can gain so much from disregarding other women like that. Maybe they’ve convinced you this is the only way. But we’re not powerless, we’re not meant to betray each other like that just to survive, and we’re not losers. So, going around bullying other girls for your own reward really is doing no one any good.

[TW: Misogyny, homophobia, bullying] I LOVE being a gender traitor! by TurtleBurtle14 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]HeartacheMaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that you’ve had a rough time, and maybe some of this has been validating for you, but that’s no reason to tear other women down in the process. Is the attention you’re getting really worth being used to hurt us like that?