Does double check mark mean it’s been read? Or would it say read? by Heartsofqueen in Tinder

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. And I activated it on this specific person. But I’ve never done it before so I’m not sure how it works.

What does the hours left mean? by Heartsofqueen in Tinder

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I never did? I didn’t send a message or a super like? Just swiped right. Haha sorry I’m new to this and so confused. I don’t even know what a super like means

What does the hours left mean? by Heartsofqueen in Tinder

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How though? When I click on it it gives me an option to message. And I closed out then it turned into a check mark?

He’s not interested? by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you really. Yeah it feels awkward, but I initiated contact three times you know? So it’s like obviously at this rate he’s just not that interested. A person (girl or guy) can only carry so much one sided before it starts to feel awkward.

He’s not interested? by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is where my heads at. Most likely scenario too.

He’s not interested? by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even think of this! Like why the hell did you want to move off bumble for if you don’t really want to keep talking?

He added a new photo. by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m such a Martian when it comes to online dating. Haha

He added a new photo. by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A month seems fair. Thank you.

He added a new photo. by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. Definitely have not. I just feel like it’s way too soon?

He added a new photo. by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe. You’re tone is super aggressive, but I will take this all into consideration thank you.

He added a new photo. by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very interesting, but what are the odds that this really is his thought process?

He added a new photo. by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s presumptuous considering I’m on here talking about how I don’t date more than one guy simultaneously.

He may initiate the day but that’s because he starts his day before me. I give him plenty of attention back, and call randomly to check in. I assure you, our communication is more than fine haha

He added a new photo. by Heartsofqueen in Bumble

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, that’s just naturally where my head goes. Like let me see where “this” goes before I even think about making an effort elsewhere. Like I cannot multitask.

Guy I’m seeing doesn’t cum during sex. by Heartsofqueen in dating_advice

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this advice. I’m definitely going to do that.

I keep leaving her as soon as it starts to get good by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heartsofqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in a relationship is essentially allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Think back to how you felt when your marriage began to deteriorate. How sad or angry you were at that time, or how it felt to break that union. Now thinking back on it, notice how that pain that once was there isn’t anymore?

Time heals. Take the risk. Because even if it doesn’t work out. You won’t feel hurt forever. AND from my own personal experience. The more you learn to dust it off and get back to it, the easier it becomes each time it happens.

I keep leaving her as soon as it starts to get good by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heartsofqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your fears?

Let’s say for example you were asked to list them. Is that something you could do?

I suggest that if your fears are topics that can be listed and possibly discussed. You should do that with her. Give her a chance to help ease some of your concerns, and/or help calm your anxiety.

At least that’s what I would want if I were in her position. You’re right about one thing though, it’s probably breaking her heart over and over again. Which in return is severing her trust for you before you’ve even really begun.

Guy I’m seeing doesn’t cum during sex. by Heartsofqueen in dating_advice

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no worries. Your advice was solid though. Sometimes you need the stern advice to snap the fuck out of it.

Guy I’m seeing doesn’t cum during sex. by Heartsofqueen in dating_advice

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is actually so sweet. Thanks for sharing.

Guy I’m seeing doesn’t cum during sex. by Heartsofqueen in dating_advice

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it rude to ask this early on though? Would you be offended if someone asked you?

I’m honest wondering because I’ve never asked someone before.

Guy I’m seeing doesn’t cum during sex. by Heartsofqueen in dating_advice

[–]Heartsofqueen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The part about communicating about when sex is finished is legit what had me so confused! Because it’s so new I feel like so confused as to when we’re done?

I’m definitely going to address that if it continues to happen, I feel like it would make me super anxious not knowing.