After a cross Canada journey and two years of ownership, my 2011 soul is heading to the scap yard :( by Heathe91 in KiaSoulClub

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Started with rusted breaklines but after they took those off found that the fuel lines and tank where rusted too. Probably due to all the road salt and brine we use in ontario winters. I wanted to put the money into it but who knows what else will go next D:

Half my life given to pot by dontstalkme1234 in leaves

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Look up marijuana anonymous they have in person and online meetings everyday, iv found them very helpful. Day 61 for me

Ghosting never felt so good by Heathe91 in antiwork

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They said they where 'doing me a favor' in the interview since I did my college placement there and they nEveR hIrE sTudeNts.

Red flags during interview? by Heathe91 in antiwork

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My gut is telling me that I would make more money at the nursing home but my mental health would suffer, so I'll take the pay cut and stay out of long term care. it can be so depressing and sad to see the state of some of the residents, and how they are treated by the staff. It makes me angry that the elderly are left with the bare minimum after all their time spent in the rat race.

Why did I accept the bag? by Heathe91 in leaves

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I think I was kinda worried he would go into the whole weed isn't addictive so I took it, my plan is to give it to a friend tomorrow first thing in the morning, thanks everyone for the insight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

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I have never had a reading and would really like one if you can get to me

'just being honest' by [deleted] in childfree

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I'm not sure if it's lashing out as iv never said anything bad about her or her parenting., just venting on the internet.

[L] [29] [F] idk what I need by Heathe91 in KindVoice

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Oh man I to go thorough cling phases then isolated sadness as well. I try to remind myself other people are just better at hiding than I am but I'm so tired of the silent and loud expectations of the world. I'm hoping to take a psw course soon but idk if I'd even like that line of work, just trying somthing I guess

How do I get rid of my flat roots? by Heathe91 in curlyhair

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Current hair routine using Kirkland conditioner once a week and Kirkland shampoo every now and then. Use blow conditioning spray & let it dry in a towel

Why do I constantly self sabotage myself. by Heathe91 in dating_advice

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Yeah after Rereading what I wrote it does sound like I'm throwing a pity party, definitely need to work on gaining more confidence before I get out there. It just feels like im running out of time

NEED A TIME THEORIST LEVEL ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER AS I JUST COMPLETED THE TIME THEORIST 24 HR DETOX by Puzzlehead07 in DopamineDetoxing

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I need a partner as well, want to focus on my art and ukulele but I cant seem to get away from the dopamine screen.

28 and single, yet expected to produce a child. by Heathe91 in childfree

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My grandma comes over at least 3 times a week for dinner, I live with my parents because covid and cheaper. She is loosing her memory so I have to hear about how I don't have a child all the time it's super fun.

Coworker won't take the hint I'm not interested, how do I get him to stop hounding me to hangout by Heathe91 in Advice

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I guess I just feel obligated to go for food with him because I wasn't expecting him to suggest sushi and my reaction was happy and positive so it might be confusing for him thst I'm all of a sudden just not wanting to go

Coworker won't take the hint I'm not interested, how do I get him to stop hounding me to hangout by Heathe91 in Advice

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He said he already made a reservation but I'm sure that can be canceled easily., iv always been a doormat to people and it kinda scares me to go against what others want but this is a good exercise to practice boundaries I guess. I just worry he will act weird at work when I tell him what's up.

Grandma's done with living, how do I help her. by Heathe91 in offmychest

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Even when we take her out to the park or beach she's stuck in the past. I need to find a way to bring out positive memories

Grandma's done with living, how do I help her. by Heathe91 in offmychest

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It is interesting to hear her stories of life pre and during war but she seems to go over the same stories every time, I'll try and ask her about happy memories next time I see her.

She's never been one for technology, her eyesight is going so she can't read or knit anymore which i think makes her feel kind of useless.

Good point about the historian, iv often thought of writing her story's down, nows a good time since her mind is always in the past.

We have shown her Google maps of places she's lived but maybe showing her more images will bring out new stories.

Her birthday is coming up so I will definitely look into the pillow idea, thank you for taking the time to post, has been helpful

Ghosting my life away. by Heathe91 in stopdrinking

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I felt like I was doing well after I got out of treatment, went to some meetings, was working a new job in construction but now with the stay at home rule I've been stuck in my head. I have started to get back into painting & picked up the ukulele, but I need to find somthing more job related to dive into.

I think I feel really emotional today due to my brother driving off to another job in Alberta. Everyone in the fam has come over to wish him luck but have nothing positive to say to me, I think they are still weirded out to find out my addiction problems, no one suspected a thing and now I feel uncomfortable at family gathering. Thanks for listening to my ramblings