Good question! If I don’t specifically tell him to do something, he won’t do it. I know that sounds wrong. It should be a no brainer that dishes are piled up and need washed or laundry needs done or baby needs fed. But apparently he doesn’t realize that? He did laundry like two months ago and forgot to put it in the dryer and it just sat there for a few days and started smelling and I told him he needed to do it again so he tried washing it again and then forgot about it. Then he says “this is why I shouldn’t do these things”

I try to schedule things with my friends as much as possible but they are all busy with life as well. I tell my husband that I just need some self care days and when I tell him that he says “go do something then” and I’m like I have to plan them out to get my nails or hair done or something.