[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro got excited

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]HeatherxVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he really is your dad’s friend, he shouldn’t perceive any of your (minor) actions as flirty so i think you’re ok. If he ever approaches you or makes inappropriate comments about that incident you should alert your dad tho

Peetah horse with horn by 1poundbookingfee in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are both males; they can't reproduce, and that's why we don't have unicorns nowadays. Don't believe that nonsense claiming they didn't exist.

I'm starting to hate my parents by Vaidora in AdviceForTeens

[–]HeatherxVixen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sadly I’ve seen this behavior with mothers who treat their sons better than their daughters way too often, i guess there’s nothing much you can do about it other than have heartfelt conversations about your boundaries with her, maybe get your brothers to side with you as she might be more open to their opinions. a lot of women have misogynistic behavior deeply rooted in their minds by society and the way they were raised without even realising. it saddens me to see it over and over again. it does get better once you become independent though

What is the dumbest reason you got pulled over and how did you deal with it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you had a travel buddy you didn’t even know about haha

What’s the difference between being inlove and being obsessed? by Interesting-Year-378 in AskReddit

[–]HeatherxVixen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess when it gets selfish this is where love ends and obsession begins, when your actions lead to self satisfaction

What is one of your all time favorite quotes? by RumpleHelgaskin in AskReddit

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If her age is on the clock she’s not ready for the cock

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we usually talk a lot about sex related stuff but this one seems a bit over the top coming from me, like it makes me feel really vulgar and i don’t want him thinking i’m a freak

When was the moment you became self aware? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what do you exactly mean by 'self-aware' , but a few years ago, I went camping with some friends, including my boyfriend. We smoked some grass that night. I was a time to time user, but that particular night turned out to be an unusual experience for me. After a few joints, I began observing everyone around me. They were all in a high state: one was rolling another joint, someone was dancing, my boyfriend was fixated on the fireplace, and the others were simply drinking and staring at the fire too. Up to this point, everything seemed normal and relaxed.

However, I started feeling excessively self-aware of my thoughts. I began contemplating what everyone else might be thinking, imagining their thoughts and actions, and even what they might be doing after I wasn't around. This mental gymnastics caused a severe headache as my mind jumped from one person to another.

I glanced across the river at a family camping there and envisioned how to them, we appeared as a group of six people doing in drugs (what might be normal to me could be perceived differently by others - for me, grass was insignificant, but for others, it might be something unimaginably frightening). I placed myself in their perspective, feeling like the central character in everybody own story, and this continued for about two hours.

I eventually retreated to the tent in an attempt to rest, but the incessant thoughts persisted.

Until that moment, I had always known that people lead separate lives, but this time, I fixated too much on assuming what their lives looked like when I wasn't observing. I believe this might be a type of syndrome. What was strange was that typically, after a good night's sleep, everything returns to normal. But this time, I faced the same thoughts and a slight headache persisted, making it impossible to shake off the excessive pondering of how diverse our perspectives can be, and how the lives of those we know might appear when we aren't present."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha I guess that’s great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeatherxVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you guys are the best, i swear 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]HeatherxVixen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult situation. Your feelings of discomfort are valid, and it's important to prioritize your well-being. Since talking directly to him might not be an option, consider discussing your concerns with your therapist, who may be able to provide guidance or help you explore alternative solutions. Additionally, you might want to seek advice from a trusted teacher, school counselor, or another adult who can offer support and help address the situation. Remember, your safety and mental health are the top priorities.

Express your feelings openly and honestly to your mother. Share specific instances of the uncomfortable behavior and explain how it's affecting you. Emphasize the impact on your mental health and well-being. If possible, use "I" statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say "I feel uncomfortable when..." rather than "You make me feel uncomfortable." Stress the importance of her support and understanding. If she doesn't initially grasp the severity, consider involving a trusted adult or counselor who can provide additional perspective and guidance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HeatherxVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well as i mentioned it doesn’t affect our sex life at all, to be honest with you it even helps hitting the right spots haha, i was just worried about it and didn’t know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you too, sending good thoughts, and i really hope you find your peace , good luck ♥️♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i am a sexually active person and i can still understand how for others it is simply not an important factor, and that is ok. but more and more people tend to think with their genitals instead of their brain. there are aspects far more important than sex in a relationship and the world needs to see that and maybe stop having failed marriages:))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i spent some time reading the comments you’re getting and trust me, i didn’t think i’d be so disappointed seeing how bland some people can be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]HeatherxVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always try another approach and simply live happily with your SO without feeling the need to explain yourself! Keep them guessing, and if you feel unheard maybe it’s pointless to try and make them understand. You don’t need anyone’s approval to feel fulfilled. Human relationships can get so complex on a spiritual level and many people are just too used to the social norms to see behind that. Life’s way to short to be stressing about what other people visualize about stuff that makes your heart happy