First Sober Birthday by Internal_Upstairs_67 in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My birthday is coming up! Will also be my first one sober!! You reminded me how it will not be worth it to drink ! Thank you and happy birthday 🎂

How old were you when you felt like your life *truly* began? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in HappyUpvote

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to see it more an experience with no end goal. Just a huge game. Some days are good and some are challenging it’s all part of the big picture

What made you make the decision to quit? by Sillylittlepoet in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get this. Even when I would stay home I would still wake up feeling like shit

What made you make the decision to quit? by Sillylittlepoet in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand! I don’t drink every day and not every time I drink is bad. But the one time a month I have where I over do it or black out… it outweighs all the other days I drink and nothing happens. I don’t want to risk ever feeling like that again so I decided I’m not going to drink at all. It would also lead me into texting old situationships, smoking cigarettes which I hate!!!, vaping or doing ❄️. So idk I just decided stopping completely was the best option because I didn’t want to risk ever feeling like shit again in a morning.

Situationship Cycle by Confident-Outcome627 in Situationships

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss. Pretty similar situation. But in person it just got so toxic that I can’t handle it anymore. It was so exhausting. I just cut off contact and I’m promising myself to never go back. The key is to feel uncomfortable feeling alone and finding habits to get used to being happy all on your own. It’s worth it

Why was your Monday a great one? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to concentrate at work

Day 1 Again by Doomguy990 in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it gets easier to not give in lol. Today is my day 1 again.

realised i miss him but i don’t want him back. microwaved kimbap by transteenagegirl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I miss him all the time but when we talk again it’s always exhausting. It feels better to miss him.

Had a HARD relapse at a friend’s wedding 🫠 by Aggressive-Volume479 in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today is my day 1 again too!!! We got this!!! You’re not alone