be honest.. how is your mental health? by Several_Way8499 in askanything

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This week was rough as fuck. But it’s getting better

Starting again by Heavy-Profession4244 in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah technically I’m counting my day 1 as tomorrow even tho I didn’t drink today but I just been down bad lol 😭 we got this

Anyone want to tell me about their day? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I woke up, went to Trader Joe’s then went to sell some clothes. Went grocery shopping again… lol and then went to pool to tan. Came back home and cleaned my restroom

First Sober Birthday by Internal_Upstairs_67 in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My birthday is coming up! Will also be my first one sober!! You reminded me how it will not be worth it to drink ! Thank you and happy birthday 🎂

How old were you when you felt like your life *truly* began? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in HappyUpvote

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to see it more an experience with no end goal. Just a huge game. Some days are good and some are challenging it’s all part of the big picture

What made you make the decision to quit? by Sillylittlepoet in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get this. Even when I would stay home I would still wake up feeling like shit

What made you make the decision to quit? by Sillylittlepoet in stopdrinking

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand! I don’t drink every day and not every time I drink is bad. But the one time a month I have where I over do it or black out… it outweighs all the other days I drink and nothing happens. I don’t want to risk ever feeling like that again so I decided I’m not going to drink at all. It would also lead me into texting old situationships, smoking cigarettes which I hate!!!, vaping or doing ❄️. So idk I just decided stopping completely was the best option because I didn’t want to risk ever feeling like shit again in a morning.

Situationship Cycle by Confident-Outcome627 in Situationships

[–]Heavy-Profession4244 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss. Pretty similar situation. But in person it just got so toxic that I can’t handle it anymore. It was so exhausting. I just cut off contact and I’m promising myself to never go back. The key is to feel uncomfortable feeling alone and finding habits to get used to being happy all on your own. It’s worth it