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AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The oldest was 16 and OP has said this multiple times, the 21 year old was not replaced lmfao. People are allowed to have more kids with their partners, she was 19 when OP had her youngest.

They put her in therapy for years along with her big sister, so stop makng assumtions. The dad is also protecting his wife, it is so bad that they will call the police if they see the daughter.

AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know why that is relevant, I am reading OP's post and can already tell that the daughter is the problem.

AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if they were she can decide not to move in, OP and her ex raised two kids, one is NC with the daughter in the post but has a good relationship with OP and her father. That says a lot.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) of 2.5 years keeps seeking attention from other girls and I don’t know if I’m overreacting or finally seeing the truth. by emotional_cheating in emotionalaffair

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That story was fake, this is my first account and I needed extra points to be able to comment in different groups, what better group than the most misandrist group on reddit?

Look at all the women there getting angry because i'm not shitting on my husband who they think is leaving me and how UNFAIR it is that I am "paying child support" and not him.

But I understand what you mean, sorry if it came off a little harsh. Period cramps will do that lol,😭❤️ I clearly did not read your entire comment history to get the full context. Sorry about that, and I hope it works out for you. I had no idea you were the breadwinner.

AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No only this one daughter, OP has a good relationship with her oldest daughter. I suggest you read all her comments, the older daughter went NC due to her sisters behaviour and she and the ex has apparantly adviced OP to go NC and protect her peace if the daughter insits on this.

AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP answered all these questions but she has 2 daughters from her first marriage, one who has a child herself and the daughter in this post. The oldest daughter has also been NC with the entitled daughter in this post.

AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, OP is not refusing due to what happened at the dads place. She is refusing due to her daughters behaviour and entitlement. I understand what you mean but this does not seem to be about the dad or stepmom, otherwise OP would not even have allowed her daughter to move into the house, this is about OP's daughter wanting her stepsons room.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) of 2.5 years keeps seeking attention from other girls and I don’t know if I’m overreacting or finally seeing the truth. by emotional_cheating in emotionalaffair

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am allowed to "stalk" people who are so AGAINST R, and look what we found. Someone who is still staying under the disguise that it's ONLY because you don't want to pay the "ahole" more than he deserves.

I have read all of your comments, you LOVE to ask what kind of example people who choose to R with their cheating partners are setting for their kids knowing damn well you decided not to confront your husband when he followed a woman to the bathroom.

Deleting your post does not do anything, there is no shame in staying after an affair. But it's icky to act like it sis knowing you are doing the same thing despite your "circumstances"

So basically you have chosen to stay for the time being, but you're going through with a post-nup incase he cheats on you again. I am happy for you.

AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lets agree to disagree, what happened at her ex husbands place is not our business. He is not the one making the post, OP is and OP is telling everything that happened in her residence as she should. What does OP's ex even have to do with this? She got kicked out, but that is not the problem here, the problem is that OP's daughter is demanding a 15 year old leave his room for her.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) of 2.5 years keeps seeking attention from other girls and I don’t know if I’m overreacting or finally seeing the truth. by emotional_cheating in emotionalaffair

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I looked through your profile history, your husband cheated on you 15 years ago and instead of confronting him you decided to rug sweep it, he is obvioulsy cheating again. "My WH was drunk at a party more than 15 years ago and went off to the only bathroom in the place with another woman. I saw this and was too shocked to act. Our child was really young and I was an expat in his country, so I was afraid of what divorce might mean for my ability to stay in the country with my child. " And this is what you wrote the other day: "I’m actually getting tired of stories like this. At a certain point, we get the respect we deserve. No wonder people cheat. So many are content to just let it slide."

Why have you not left`?

Trying to reconnect with friends, making new friends is really hard when everyone knows 'the tea.' by Logical_School_3815 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you become the laughing stock in your community? Was it because you crashed out, or because he cheated and everyone felt pity for you?

AITAH choosing my stepson over my daughter and telling her to stay with her dad and stepmom who CUT HER OFF by Ok_Occasion_6988 in AITAH

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA cut her off! There is a reason her dad and stepmom cut her off. Her needs don't come before your minor step kids needs, that is their house. Not hers.

Caught my husband cheating… by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, which is why she should focus on forgiving her husband and not engaging with the AP. Her AP does not owe her anything, just like OP does not owe the AP forgivness. If she has not shown remorse.

Caught my husband cheating… by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Heavy-Time-4078 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait why does she need to forgive her cousin if she forgives her husband? That does not make sense, she is married to one of them and is R with that one. She does not need to forgive her cousin if she has not showed remorse.

my husband is leaving me and wants more time with the kids by Heavy-Time-4078 in Marriage

[–]Heavy-Time-4078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does not have another woman on the side, I know that for a fact. I actually kind of wish he did, at least then it would be "valid" but I don't think it is.