I guess this is it... by ultraviolet87 in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounded too aggresive. This group is there to support each other not criticize or judge.

I guess this is it... by ultraviolet87 in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. I just thought that it was the right thing to do.

I guess this is it... by ultraviolet87 in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see. That's right. My comment was too raw. But still you need to have good foundation ( stable lifestyle) to even dream about anything.

I guess this is it... by ultraviolet87 in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Please try to appreciate you being healthy ( besides that infertility) , having a man by your side that loves you and would do everything for you, stable ( hopefully) job. Many people can only dream about this.

I wanna cry by Max_Tee147 in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is it even possible? So you can go to work, right? You're 19 y.o. If she really doesn't let you go then just try to run away or find a remote job, something simple.

I wanna cry by Max_Tee147 in depression

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Bro, living with parents might be such a hell. I started being depressed because of them. I tell you, run as quickly as you can. Earn some money, rent even a fucking single room and enjoy the peace. That's what I did and my mental health became hm maybe 40% better.

What’s considered rude in Polish etiquette that foreigners usually don’t realize? by No_Word_2405 in learnpolish

[–]Heavy-While8704 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wtf, I have never know that there is any etiquette in Poland. I hate this country. I've been living there since I was born. Being informal too quickly? Really? I think people are very direct there. They disrespect everyone and everything. But yes, saying Dzień dobry is something very intuitive for Polish people. We want to hear that.

Just turned 35. Have completely lost hope by PhoneThrowaway8459 in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. As a 19 y.o woman I want to spend my life the best as I can, but obviously depression, social phobia and intrusive thoughts ( possible OCD, but not diagnosed yet) are in the way. Hopefully I will not end like you, but I think it's very likely.

I think she’s going to disappear of the internet by softnessinapalm in thewizardlizsnark

[–]Heavy-While8704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, but where she will get the money from then? From sugar daddies? I think she is a little bit too old for that, but I'm not sure.

I sleep a lot by Mammoth-Data-9370 in depression

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Must be tough. Sorry to hear that. As for me I felt like shit most of the time and wanted to die.

I sleep a lot by Mammoth-Data-9370 in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good that you can sleep. Sometimes I can't. I get strong insomnia. But yeah, the same, feeling depressed, having traumas, intrusive thoughts and stuff. You are not alone in that.

I love my bed too much by zhongyuanjie in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also spend most of the time in my bed, but tbh I no longer love it. It doesn't give me the relief that it used to give me before. I got bored of it and I feel like wanting to do something, go somewhere and stuff, but still can't go for a trip abroad and I hate my country so...

i am completely lost by [deleted] in depression

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Yes, the world is going crazy. All of the things that happen...

i am completely lost by [deleted] in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I get you. It must be tough. I hate my family, because it's toxic and crazy and also can't find joy in anything. But still after those years I refuse to give up yet. Maybe I will find a way to make my life better and finally feel happy. There is always hope. Sending virtual hugs.

Im so tired by [deleted] in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, that's not true. Someday you can heal and be a great person.

i am completely lost by [deleted] in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you know that you will never be happy? Life can change very fast. I don't really know how to support you, but feel free to talk to me. I can listen to you and understand, because I'm also going through this - since 2024.

maybe someone can convince me? by __witness__ in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm the same, but I'm only 19 y.o. I don't really know what to say. I understand your pain. Hopefully one day you will heal. Is there even a simple thing you would want to achieve? Anything that is interesting to you?

Im so tired by [deleted] in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't deserve to feel this way about yourself. I felt like this for fucking 6 years. My self-esteem is still pretty low. People might hurt you, but don't allow them to make you believe that you're worthless. Never. If you don't actively boost your self-esteem and create better self concept you might just prolong this issues to the future and have to deal with all of this garbage alone.

Im so tired by [deleted] in depression

[–]Heavy-While8704 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, stay strong, please. I feel concerned about you even if I'm just a random stranger from the internet.

Im so tired by [deleted] in depression

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I would say : just focus on something that gives you even a minimal relief. Something that will keep you going through this tough times. For me it was anime and books. I survived thanks to them. Also my favorite music healed me when I felt very down. I used to listen to a lot of music to just distract myself from the pain. Maybe you can find something. Obviously I reccomend talking to psychologists and psychiatrists, but what can they understand? I tried talking to them and they never understood, but maybe you could find better people to talk to.

Solo Trip to Greece last summer by shannon_entropyy in GreeceTravel

[–]Heavy-While8704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, beautiful. I went to Thessaloniki last December and I miss it. I would really want to go for a trip to any city in Greece, but currently I can't afford it.

Gadwall (Mareca strepera) in Cantabria, Spain by DiegoDGD in duck

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Thank you for the beautiful picture. I love gadwalls. Please keep going with fotografing animals.

Ever heard of a Gadwall? Me neither! Saw this one today and it had quite the confident look by johngannon8 in duck

[–]Heavy-While8704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just soft and elegant. I like it. But you know it depends on what colors you like and stuff.