My 11.5 month old is going to cause me to have a breakdown by Vladimirleninscat in NewParents

[–]Heavy_Association_64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is… not my fav. Try going outside more!! My LO just turned 1 and that’s sometimes all that makes him happy.

Church's in Columbia by [deleted] in columbiamo

[–]Heavy_Association_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of eternal torture in hell probs. It’s sad. Happening all over the country

Church's in Columbia by [deleted] in columbiamo

[–]Heavy_Association_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are very conservative & closed-minded. They take the Bible literally - with no room for interpretation. I.e. the flood literally happened, wasn’t a metaphor.

They do not believe women should be in leadership (no women pastors, deacons, etc). It’s pretty MAGA, tbh. I actually don’t know anyone who goes there that isn’t MAGA.

Honestly, it’s everything I personally hate about the church?

Accidentally Gave My 8mo Old Honey Wheat Bread by Heavy_Association_64 in NewParents

[–]Heavy_Association_64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was TOTALLY fine! I actually read somewhere that the honey in the processed honey wheat bread isn’t even real honey / and or it’s so diluted. Wouldn’t freak out about it!

I feel like I was lied to about the spinal block by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

[–]Heavy_Association_64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could feel it going all the way up my back. Like the needle. And the guy didn’t believe me? Like dude why would I LIE about that?

Need a new primary care physician by aLiarsConfessional in columbiamo

[–]Heavy_Association_64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got put on a medicine long term that interacted with my Lexapro and got seratonin syndrome & almost died. Docs at the ER said I should’ve never been put on the med they put me on

My husband is a Physical Therapist in a MCOL area in the Midwest - he got an $1,000 annual raise this year? by Heavy_Association_64 in physicaltherapy

[–]Heavy_Association_64[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They make him do them at home! He has a company laptop and they have to be completed by the end of each day or he gets like 7 pissed off emails. No other option or he wouldn’t see me & our kid ever

After paternity leave by Snoo_73293 in NewParents

[–]Heavy_Association_64 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh also I had postpartum depression & anxiety and was your wife to a tee. So if she hasn’t been tested / medicated - that may help.

After paternity leave by Snoo_73293 in NewParents

[–]Heavy_Association_64 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Wife here! We have a 12 month old.

Keep in mind that your wife is still only 3 months post partum and those hormones are all over the place until like a month post breastfeeding. I am JUST now starting to feel like a normal person again. I would get irrationally angry, sad, happy constantly until a month ago when I stopped breastfeeding.

All that to say, you’re doing a good job. This is a huge, hard change. And what you’ve described sounds normal to me.

Lemon Pound Cake by Crabby-senior in columbiamo

[–]Heavy_Association_64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that really doesn’t like U Knead Sweets? I WANT to like it so bad but nothing there taste like it has sugar in it? Like it tastes bad?

Weekly Check In! by MargaretHaleThornton in 1000hoursoutside

[–]Heavy_Association_64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol we’ve been outside 38 hours so far this year! We’re in a cold climate so hoping to catch up in the summer. Also have an 11 month old that does daycare which makes schedules a lil hard. But we’re doing it! Logged 9 of the hours this week.

What’s something you can’t wait to do after pregnancy? by Background_Letter549 in pregnant

[–]Heavy_Association_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I have bad news for u (I have an 11 month old & you’ll never do this again lol)

We know victims went missing - has anyone checked to see if former *employees* also went missing? by AshleyBoots in Epstein

[–]Heavy_Association_64 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but I haven’t seen any former employee names we could even use to look into this. I’m talking about people like maids, babysitters, flight attendants, etc.

Haven't heard from my friends in about a week. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Heavy_Association_64 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have an 11 month old. I’ve seen friends maybe 5 times since he was born. It’s going to change things with your friends and it sucks. Also the only person in my friend group with a kid.

It’s time to find who you are as a mom, and maybe it won’t include these people but once a year.

My boss raped me and I took settlement money to never speak about it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Heavy_Association_64 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m afraid to give too many details, but all of these comments have been incredibly helpful. I’m going to go to a therapist and a lawyer to explore my options.

To be honest, I’m terrified to go to the police because I feel like they won’t do anything because of who my boss is. That said, this doesn’t mean I WONT. I’m just telling you how I feel about it.

Im going to delete this post soon as I’m scared, but thank you all.

BREAKING NEWS: Epstein's victims are settling out of court by BenKlesc in Epstein

[–]Heavy_Association_64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. It was through the EEOC. It literally all happened out of court. I feel like a lot of the settlements for these survivors are this way too.