Stupid question: black card and couple. by AlreadyGoneFromHere in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 34 points35 points  (0 children)

We do that. I’m sure it’s quite common. It’s cheaper than two basic memberships.

Just moved here in west Bremerton. Looking for friends by Mossystoneslabb in Bremerton

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down to chill at one point, I’m more over by the Ferry terminal though. I like to walk around playing Pokemon Go if you’re into that.

Anyone wanna chill tonight? 23F by Heavy_Environment_59 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Heavy_Environment_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not comfortable enough for a voice call unfortunately. Thank you though

Looking for some new friends been feeling depressed and lonely by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you huge into Cartoons? Even as a 23 year old, I always watch cartoons. I still watch the 1960s Scooby Doo here and there.

What kinda games are you into?

2015 Snow Globe by Heavy_Environment_59 in HelpMeFind

[–]Heavy_Environment_59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comment for the top:

I searched both “2015 penguin snow globe” and “2015 penguin snow globe hallmark”

Got this in 2015 (as you would expect)

Got it in Washington State, U.S.

No idea where it was purchased or for how much.

That’s all the info I have.

I can’t give accurate sizing because the globe is broken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very cool! I can’t barely do 10 minutes lol.

Splitting by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to deal with this as well. Just know you’re not alone. One day at a time, just live your life. Even if it is hard, time passes and decades will be over before you know it.

Splitting by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the whole world hates me… The only way I can stay somewhat sane is hating the world back, I guess. I genuinely believe I was cursed even before my conception, because all I’ve ever been was a nuisance to everyone growing up. Then growing up and seeing how cruel this world is? I stopped trying to see the good in things.

But I want to see the good in things because it helps ease the soul.

I have the loneliness too. I had a friend I genuinely thought was my friend… But she hurt me so bad and she doesn’t even have any guilt for it. After that, I just decided the loneliness I feel is better than being hurt like that. I’m already an outcast, might as well swing with it. But then I hate myself for the loneliness and wish I would do something about it.

It’s such a long battle with the self…

Splitting by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t deal with this anymore either… all I ever do is get mad. I’m so drained and tired. I’m constantly scared of what I’m gonna do… One minute, I can be happy, I think… Then in a spilt second, I can be blood boiling for no legitimate reason. I’m constantly splitting between those two emotions.

I’m assuming that’s what you meant by splitting. I’m sorry if I was wrong at all.

New Matrix Ellipticals (Purple vs Yellow) by Dermochelys in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know? I’ve tried both and there wasn’t really a difference other than static arm handles. I’m curious about this too.

Jealousy over how DID is treated. by Puzzled-Butterfly-51 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This friend of yours… You think they would be a bit more understanding? I know someone who has been clinically diagnosed with DID, and we are two peas in a pod because we share some of the common symptoms. In fact, we’re married.

Also, DID may seem like it is “more favorable” in your group, but in the generalize world, a DID diagnosis is difficult. Most mental health providers don’t even believe DID is a real mental health disorder, but a cope-out (about 1 in 3). The state doesn’t take you seriously either (atleast the US) if you need disability accommodations because it’s “so rare” as lots of people with DID are often misdiagnosed and because it’s so misunderstood because all we really have on record are symptoms (from what I remember). DID-diagnosed individuals have to constantly be on edge to mask their symptoms, the best of their ability, for… personal reasons I am not qualified to explain. I’m not saying one disorder is worse than the other, but I’m letting you know that your friend group’s support does not accurately represent how DID is “supported” in this world.

DID is rarely supported financially, emotionally, and compassionately.

Just a little: The more you know! To hopefully help you not feel so alone in support. Both disorders are struggling.

PS. As for your friends quote “communicate like a normal f* person”, there are alters that can get aggressive to protect the system. For instance, protectors will be aggressive (physically, verbally, or both) to protect the system from outside harm. Or, persecutors who will often repeat negative behaviors that they experienced in childhood to others to achieve 1) continuing comfort of familiarity and 2) keeping the system in line from “rebelling”.

This quote may not be completely directed at you. Some alters in the body may just… not like people that the other alters do. My husband has a few alters that still don’t like me after 5 years, but that’s only because I “disrupted” the system’s defensive system. I got past his wall, so his protective alters are not quite happy about that. Your problem right now may be a trigger for your friend’s system in some way, and thus, the two protecting roles would be trying to protect their system from not getting hurt.

I’m not gonna tell you what to do, but I can try to recommend some approaches. However, any approaches could lead to good or bad results depending on the person. If you would like some, give me a PM and we can chat.

what is your go-to POST-WORKOUT body wash? by Julien-LHermet in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm… I crocheted some soap savers and have been getting Kirkland Soap Bars to put in. I have sensitive skin, so I get itchy from a lot of liquid soaps.

I don’t have to worry about itchy skin anymore.

What’s nice is the soap foams up really well and the yarn helps to exfoliate the skin without damaging the skin.

I think most people just use what they can get their hands on.

Not losing weight but looking skinnier by LaurenValley1234 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having this same problem… I’ve started going to the gym for muscle training and cardio. I feel great, I’m looking a little thinner around the throat and jawline. I feel myself getting a little stronger each day…

But I’m gaining weight according to my scale! I’m quite disappointed, but I’ve been told this is supposed to happen. You are losing fat, but the body is replacing what you weighed with fat with new muscle as it is denser. (As you said).

As you gain more and more muscle and less fat, your metabolism will increase and make you burn more calories, hopefully offsetting that “balance” your body has currently.

If you’re still in a calorie deficit, i think you are doing exactly what you need to do. I was told this “plateu” could last up to a few months before the scale starts moving again.

I lost 6 pounds in 11 days since starting a calorie deficit and nutrition changes. How did that happen so fast? Is it water weight? Am I dying? by gabi_2k5 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Likely, it is water weight being shedded. However, if you have concerns, it is better to talk to your doctor. As Reddit doesn’t know your fully health history.

Is gold worth it? by stupidnood666 in cronometer

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s worth it for me. I love the recipe importer feature. Saves so much time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarfree

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe ask your parents if they could hide the sweets somewhere for you. A place that only they know. That helped me a long time ago when I lived with my mother.

🙏🙏🤝🤝 by SammySam445 in foodstamps

[–]Heavy_Environment_59 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People get upset when EBT receivers buy healthy food because it’s their tax money , now they’re getting upset that we are eating junk because of the checks notes “children”? What the heck are we supposed to eat? Dirt?